Firstly, I would wanna appreciate whoever comments here.
No matter the response. But I'd appreciate candid and sincere advice.

To the issue.
I have this girl age 16 who lives close by. Not to flaunt ego, I can sincerely say I'm well respected within the area.

I desire this girl so much that I fantasize about her but couldn't stoop low to tell her what's on my mind as folks would make mockery of me that I "fall their hand" but deep down I going thru what only I can explain.
She comes around to ask for one or two favours which I render even out of tight-pocketness.
What breaks me most is that she calls me "Bros" and it weakens my spirit as to how she'll will feel if I vent out my feelings.
Fast forward... Last year she got pregnant and had a baby boy for a boy almost her age who denied it and refuse to accept the baby. She's living with her single maternal parent who's got a menial means to funds as what she does is sell Petty fruits. So, after the birth of the child this February, their state of living can be likened to Hell.
I started supporting the family. Recently, I told her what's been bothering me and she cried.
She told she tried all means possible to make me understand she liked me somuch then, but I didn't seem to notice her not until after she's one up and that I wouldn't treat her with my all knowing she's a young mother already.
I reiterated the fact that what I felt then still didn't change and truth is, it didn't change anything.

But my regret is the mockery I was running from previously, will come harder cos she's one up.

I want to marry her...

Am I normal?

Pls feel free to share ur views.
Thanks

[quote author=UprightEvil post=73422155]Firstly, I would wanna appreciate whoever comments here.
No matter the response. But I'd appreciate candid and sincere advice.

To the issue.
I have this girl age 16 who lives close by. Not to flaunt ego, I can sincerely say I'm well respected within the area.

I desire this girl so much that I fantasize about her but couldn't stoop low to tell her what's on my mind as folks would make mockery of me that I "fall their hand" but deep down I going thru what only I can explain.
She comes around to ask for one or two favours which I render even out of tight-pocketness.
What breaks me most is that she calls me "Bros" and it weakens my spirit as to how she'll will feel if I vent out my feelings.
Fast forward... Last year she got pregnant and had a baby boy for a boy almost her age who denied it and refuse to accept the baby. She's living with her single maternal parent who's got a menial means to funds as what she does is sell Petty fruits. So, after the birth of the child this February, their state of living can be likened to Hell.
I started supporting the family. Recently, I told her what's been bothering me and she cried.
She told she tried all means possible to make me understand she liked me somuch then, but I didn't seem to notice her not until after she's one up and that I wouldn't treat her with my all knowing she's a young mother already.
I reiterated the fact that what I felt then still didn't change and truth is, it didn't change anything.

But my regret is the mockery I was running from previously, will come harder cos she's one up.

I want to marry her...

Am I normal?

Pls feel free to share ur views.
Thanks [/quote
Pls if u trulty llove d gurl and yr normal bro

You are VERY Normal. If you really want her that bad, the "Mockery" should be the least of your worries.

Forget what anybody says. If you really love her and want to be with her. Go for it.

UprightEvil:
Firstly, I would wanna appreciate whoever comments here.
No matter the response. But I'd appreciate candid and sincere advice.

To the issue.
I have this girl age 16 who lives close by. Not to flaunt ego, I can sincerely say I'm well respected within the area.

I desire this girl so much that I fantasize about her but couldn't stoop low to tell her what's on my mind as folks would make mockery of me that I "fall their hand" but deep down I going thru what only I can explain.
She comes around to ask for one or two favours which I render even out of tight-pocketness.
What breaks me most is that she calls me "Bros" and it weakens my spirit as to how she'll will feel if I vent out my feelings.
Fast forward... Last year she got pregnant and had a baby boy for a boy almost her age who denied it and refuse to accept the baby. She's living with her single maternal parent who's got a menial means to funds as what she does is sell Petty fruits. So, after the birth of the child this February, their state of living can be likened to Hell.
I started supporting the family. Recently, I told her what's been bothering me and she cried.
She told she tried all means possible to make me understand she liked me somuch then, but I didn't seem to notice her not until after she's one up and that I wouldn't treat her with my all knowing she's a young mother already.
I reiterated the fact that what I felt then still didn't change and truth is, it didn't change anything.

But my regret is the mockery I was running from previously, will come harder cos she's one up.

I want to marry her...

Am I normal?

Pls feel free to share ur views.
Thanks

If truly you are a man, you wouldn't bother on what people will say or think about you....And besides,if you feel you can't bear it, marry her and relocate to another area.

Dshocker:


If truly you are a man, you wouldn't bother on what people will say or think about you....And besides,if you feel you can't bear it, marry her and relocate to another area.

Thanks. I thought as much

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I love her bro

Zamar44:
You are VERY Normal. If you really want her that bad, the "Mockery" should be the least of your worries.

Thanks.
I know I do

stupidity:
Forget what anybody says. If you really love her and want to be with her. Go for it.

Thanks Bro

You're on track!!

ahnie:
You're on track!!

I appreciate. Thanks

Consult your parent first before narialand.

Enivin:
Consult your parent first before narialand.

I strongly believe my mum will object but she's not the one in my shoes

UprightEvil:


I strongly believe my mum will object but she's not the one in my shoes

It is very important you discuss with your parents and siblings before making any final decision. At least one of your sibling should be on your side should incase things go awry tomorrow. You can't be against your people because of a girl. But how old are u? You sound like a very fearful guy...

ahnie:
You're on track!!

Shut up! u are saying this because u are lady

Rubbiish:

It is very important you discuss with your parents and siblings before making any final decision. At least one of your sibling should be on your side should incase things go awry tomorrow. You can't be against your people because of a girl. But how old are u? You sound like a very fearful guy...

I can always win my siblings over.

With wot u two feel 4 urselves...I suspect she cud b ur missing rib, but try 2 convince ur mum b4 going in2 it...Its not always a good idea if mother inlaw n wife ar not in good term...B4 i 4get, av it in mind 2 treat her child like urs

Is she not just 17? How old are you first?

Rubbiish:

Shut up!
u are saying this because u are lady

Last I checked...i'm entitled to my opinion!

Say no to second hand women.

UprightEvil:

I can always win my siblings over.

That is nice have u discussed it with any of ur siblings?

Rubbiish:
That is nice have u discussed it with any of ur siblings?

For now, not really!

ahnie:


Last I checked...i'm entitled to my opinion!

not anymore...things have changed since u checked.
Guess u checked last year...

UprightEvil:

For now, not really!

let me get something have u even started dating this girl?

Rubbiish:
let me get something have u even started dating this girl?

Yea we are. But haven't touched her yet

UprightEvil:


Yea we are. But haven't touched her yet

What are u waiting for again?
How do u seal your love without touching her?
One thing u must know is that a girl is not yours till u fvck her...that's the truth.

Have u even kissed her?

Rubbiish:

What are u waiting for again?
How do u seal your love without touching her?
One thing u must know is that a girl is not yours till u fvck her...that's the truth.

Have u even kissed her?

I just wanna be sure its not lust nor infatuation.
Don't make it look like I crept thru the crack.
Like I took advantage of their financial situation.

UprightEvil:

I just wanna be sure its not lust nor infatuation. Don't make it look like I crept thru the crack. Like I took advantage of their financial situation.

Ok But it isn't lust Considering how long u have harbour this feeling

Rubbiish:

Ok
But it isn't lust
Considering how long u have harbour this feeling

I near believe so.
She spend nights over at my place but bro, I'll have to go with ur previous advice.
Get real started. Up and running.
That way, I'll know I'm in for good