Don't let this season bring sorrow to you and family. It's another season to share love and support one another.
Don't deprive yourself the joy of this season by worrying too much about what you don't have. What you think you need. You need absolutely nothing to enjoy the Christmas celebration. Christmas celebration comes every yeae and there is nothing too special about it aside the birth of Jesus.
If you don't have money for new clothes, wash the old ones..
If you don't have money for fowl, use crayfish or fish.
If you don't have money for bag of Rice, buy the local Rice.
If you don't have money for Brazilian wigs, there are good synthetic weavons in the market.
Oga, you don't need to kill/scam to impress your parents or peer group. You don't have car, we still have next year.
Don't let anyone pressurized you to do something above your means. No go dey do pass yourself.
We still have January, we pray, we hustle.
Just stay alive, you will make it

PS, Every potential parents should help curb this desperation that comes with Christmas season. If possible, stop new buying clothes, new shoes during Christmas season. Let them know that Christmas is just like every day.

Smile, u are right. But every man's wants to make his family happy during festive period.
But this our change matter get as e be oooooo.

Op, no matter how you sound it, person wey no go hear, no go hear. If you observe, it's in yuletide that crime rate increases the most in Nigeria.

This can only come from a woman. Not a man with responsibilities.

your opinion. I miss Amakavula, hope everything is ok at that end!!

Dadabanton49:
Smile, u are right. But every man's wants to make his family happy during festive period.
But this our change matter get as e be oooooo.

Make your family happy according to Your material. Don't spend All savings trying please your family. January is not far from us. school fees, rent and business is waiting

Insightful. How I wish many could read this and withdraw their desperation...

Eberechi24:

Make your family happy according to Your material. Don't spend All savings trying please your family. January is not far from us. school fees, rent and business is waiting

Smile, that's true as well.

kimbraa:
Op, no matter how you sound it, person wey no go hear, no go hear. If you observe, it's in yuletide that crime rate increases the most in Nigeria.

My dear, desperation that comes with Yuletide is worrisome and it needs to be addressed. I have done my part.

I will try my best not to pass on this desperation to my kids

jawalis:
your opinion.
I miss Amakavula, hope everything is ok at that end!!

Thanks, I have been busy. Weddings, work and family. Everything is fine.

Eberechi24:

Make your family happy according to Your material. Don't spend All savings trying please your family. January is not far from us. school fees, rent and business is waiting

I tell u. that's why things seems so tough on January cos of the yuletide spendings