These experiences taught me that solid marriages and crumbling marriages are both a direct result of the small things. Below are four small phrases you can say to your husband to add weight to the words “I love you.”

Say this: “I’m proud of you.”

I recently heard Pastor Steven Furtick say, “Most men feel like they are not cutting it.”

I think this is true. Most men feel like they’re not good enough. When Holly says, “I’m proud of you,” what I really hear is that she is proud to be associated with me and proud to be seen with me. One of the most powerful ways a wife can show pride for her husband is to brag on him. Brag on him to the kids: “Your daddy works so hard every day! Did you know daddy is the best mechanic in Dallas? I am so proud he is my husband and your daddy!” Brag on him to your family and friends.

When your spouse finds out you’re bragging about him, guess what will happen? I bet you he’ll become a more confident person—a man who realizes he’s not only cutting it, but actually excelling as the man God created him to be.

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