Dear Nairalanders, I've married for 5years now and from the year of marriage i have been spending money from one treatment to another for her to take in and she's a kind of woman that drugs easily react on her and that has makes me waisted a lot of money because she has never completed her prescribed dosses due to reaction. And i can't continue like this without a child. pls advice me. Tnx

Put your mind off getting a child for now and

channel your energy into loving your wife,

caring and providing for her,

working hard on your career and doing good deeds,

believe me, the wait will be worth it


when the babies comes.

https://www.nairaland.com/4886013/woman-welcomed-triplets-after-6

I thought marriage is " For better, for worse?" permit me to say you don't love that woman. You married her for the sole purpose to procreate. This one you've been spending money on her to conceive, have you both been tested only to be told she's got a problem?

Be patient a little bit perhaps more, try traditional medications, pray hard and seek for God's solution.
Please do not abandon her because of her sickness, please! Just bear with her a little more longer and keep praying.

Wishing you all the best

Warrisdis. What do y'all think marriage is? Only for good times? Once it gets tough, divorce straight. So the couple that waited on God for the fruit of womb for 20 yrs plus are fools? Lord have mercy. Marriage is not for immature people at all.

Thank you all, i really love you all 'nairalanders' you are indeed a friend, brother & sister your keen advise seriously i will say it's encouraging. The truth is without communication, no good relationship! Today is my 5th Years Wedding Anniversary. God Bless You In Jesus Name.