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|My Life Is At Stake by Respect55(m): 1:21am On Dec 07|
Hello friends. Please I'm in a deep problem. I won't like to bore u with unnecessary details, so I will keep it short.
I came to the city of Portharcourt on a permanent basis roughly two years ago after service to look for job. Along the line, I met this cool, calm, gentle lady in the church. Things were going well but I noticed one attitude of hers along the line. She would abuse and threaten me at every misunderstanding. She is from this city.
Along the line, her mum insisted that I should get wine and make my intention towards her daughter clear and official and I shouldn't worry after that. They are very very well-to-do.
I told her that I'm not yet established here and needs to get my life together to start planning for marriage but she and her daughter were not in for that.
We broke off. The daughter has been on my neck since. She is threatening my life that I should leave portharcourt or she shouldn't be blamed for whatever becomes of me thereafter.
Moreover, I haven't taken anything from her - financially or even lovemaking. I haven't touched her. I took this as a joke till she stared frustrating all my efforts to secure job or even start a little business I'm doing now.
She traced me to my business place today and warned again. As if that was not enough, she sent me a deadly text this night that removed sleep from my eyes.
She has even dared me to involve the police and find out she is from this city.
Please, I need a helping hand. Help!
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by greatnaija01: 1:32am On Dec 07|
REPORT TO THE CHURCH WHERE YOU MET HER
CHANGE YOUR NUMBER
CHANGE YOUR ADDRESS both home and business
GET A NEW LINE AND REPLY HER AS THE DPO of police or soldiers to threaten her that if anything happens to you she would be picked, that all her messages have been screenshot and sent to media.
THE ABOVE SHOULD BE SENT TO HER MUM AS WELL.
POST HER PICS AND THE SCREENSHOT HERE.
BOOM, you are safe.... then leave PH this christmas for a while
stay in peace bro.
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Learnstuffs: 1:45am On Dec 07|
Keep records of her threats. They will be invaluable for investigations. A signed undertaking and restraining order will be issued if you follow up the case with proofs of evidence.
For now be careful with her so that justice will not be served post mortem
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Respect55(m): 1:53am On Dec 07|
greatnaija01:Would have reported to the church but we will be punished for courting without the church board 's notice.
I think her mum is even part of this so reporting to her is even out of the equation now.
I don't trust the police.
I'm thinking of leaving
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Respect55(m): 1:54am On Dec 07|
Learnstuffs:I'm afraid of my life. How long more can I continue to suffer for what i didn't do
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by greatnaija01: 2:05am On Dec 07|
YOU WILL NOT BE PUNISHED IF YOU KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN TO THE DEEPER LIFE OR ASSEMBLIES OF GOD CHURCH.
by simply telling them your reason for giving the excuse was because you were not comfortable that the church was not aware.
you had a wrong foundation though in the relationship, the lady was clearly the HEAD, so if you must leave, then change your details.
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Wuraola01(f): 2:21am On Dec 07|
Oh my!!Are u by any chance a lawyer?
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Gofwane(m): 2:51am On Dec 07|
Forget about all the noise she's making, she is only doing so because she knows you have a weak heart. Imagine, a lady is making you shake like a dice. Chaiii!
For me, violence is met by greater violence. If you do anyhow, you go see anyhow. Period!
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by dingbang(m): 3:04am On Dec 07|
Let's meet. I dey live inside SARS office.. Her matter don finish no worry.
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by solasoulmusic(f): 3:17am On Dec 07|
This is serious
I would get out of there and be prayerful love as crazy as it can be also comes with consciousness and remorse not everyone you see practices the faith you see them go to all sorts of odd things going on nowadays it is strange that even when angry someone would threaten your peace of mind but take it seriously.
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Respect55(m): 3:23am On Dec 07|
greatnaija01:I'm AG member. Which details are u talking about.
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Respect55(m): 3:24am On Dec 07|
Gofwane:It seems u don't know anything about portharcourt. She is from here bro
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Respect55(m): 3:25am On Dec 07|
dingbang:On a serious note?
How do I get to meet u please
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Respect55(m): 3:26am On Dec 07|
mezarddinny:That's the tradition at AG. The worry some part of it is that of u are interested in any girl and u dare meet that church board, u are expected to get married to her within 6 months.
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Respect55(m): 3:28am On Dec 07|
solasoulmusic:Relocating won't be that easy owing to the condition of the country and things are about kicking up fine here
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by solasoulmusic(f): 3:32am On Dec 07|
Yeah things are tough but we are talking life here if something happens there will be no kicking up can you reason with her or is she unstable
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by MajorJeffery: 3:43am On Dec 07|
If she is an area girl, chances are that she's a cultist and may carry out her threat.
I suggest you talk to any soldier you may know. Those cultists don't get scared by police at all.
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Respect55(m): 3:43am On Dec 07|
solasoulmusic:I can't be a slave to passion. I'm just done with then.
The mum told me that two suitors are on ground. Let them choose one and Leave my life alone
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Respect55(m): 3:44am On Dec 07|
MajorJeffery:Do I stand any chance? U don't win cases empty handed.
I doubt she is a cultist. We met in the church
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Hector09: 4:13am On Dec 07|
U don go date diobu girl, if u knw any chief in her area or any guy there go and report to them, cus most of these diobu girls are desperate to get married, i remember dating one of them back days, she was on my neck despite the fact that we are all frm ikwerre, she was sending guys to me, any we settle the matter
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Kirinwa: 5:18am On Dec 07|
At the beginning you qualified her as calm and gentle but with these characters exhited now I find it conflicting with those previous qualities.
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by ikhileomotayo: 5:24am On Dec 07|
You say she is from that PH town, brother I fear for your life. Those people don't give empty threats and the level of cultism there is out of this world.
I know this because I worked there for 5 years after my youth service before being transferred to the HQ in Lagos.
Please if what you're saying is true just leave the town or relocate somewhere else for your own safety. Get a new phone number and don't let anyone know about your whereabouts
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by tokrizy(m): 5:30am On Dec 07|
How many beers or wines do u need man??
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|Re: My Life Is At Stake by kunleweb: 5:45am On Dec 07|
Perfect advice. You said it all
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by dingbang(m): 6:20am On Dec 07|
Respect55:SARS check point, aluu
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Bloooody(m): 6:58am On Dec 07|
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Bloooody(m): 7:01am On Dec 07|
Respect55:I can see why this woman has you like this.
It's clear you're dumb.
Take your chances with the police with enough evidence and screw the church stop being chained by religion.
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Bloooody(m): 7:03am On Dec 07|
Respect55:The rapist you see in news don't go to church abi
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by NigerDeltan(m): 7:12am On Dec 07|
Get a police to arrest her so that her parent will be made to sign an undertaking before she is released
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by Learnstuffs: 8:23am On Dec 07|
No, I am a pharmacist. I enjoy following court proceedings though
|Re: My Life Is At Stake by solasoulmusic(f): 8:31am On Dec 07|
Respect55:I have a feeling there’s something your holding back but it’s all good slave to passion like how do you work for them or something.. did you borrow money and not pay? What would make a woman want to destroy your progress...I’ve separated from people for taking my dreams and bringing them to live yet fronting like they don’t like me they even have the nerve to invite me
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