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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by smoby(m): 11:20pm On Dec 15, 2018
Leendah04:
I am a university graduate who just finished her NYSC program and I'm in need of a boyfriend. I'm currently in search of a job but while at it I'm working part time at a bakery. I've had relationships with men in the past but they have not ended up well, partly because some of the guys I've dated lacked certain traits that I regard as important and they seemed to be more interested in using my body to fulfil their sexual needs that to forge a deep relationship that would grow into marriage. This behavior comes as quite a surprise because although I am attractive I'm also smart and very intellectual and I love engaging in intelligent conversations. I'm not shallow or conceited so I wonder why sex is what most of the guys seem to be interested in when dating me. Another reason my relationships don't work is because some of the guys I date although good looking and caring, aren't very intellectually sound and as driven and motivated as I want.

I have decided to create this account and post this here because I've tried dating sites and they seem to be crawling with Hot men who just want sex. With real life interactions it's difficult to screen men to find the qualities you want you want and it's easier to just list these qualities and allow the men who possess them to find you.

Before I list the qualities I want I'll list mine first:

I'm 21 years old. I'm chocolate skinned. I'm 5ft7. Like I said before I'm a graduate. I've a BSC in medical biochemistry and I'm planning on doing my masters. I don't think my tribe should matter, but I'm Igbo. I love reading, listening to music, cooking, swimming and meeting people. I fall at the middle of the introvert-extrovert spectrum. Sometimes I want to talk to someone and go out and have fun, other times I just want to stay in my room and read or watch YouTube videos all day. I'm a Christian. I'm slim and pretty, and for guys who find this attractive, I have a big chest.

These are the qualities I want in a guy:

You don't have to be too fine, but don't be ugly. Be very intelligent and have an interest in having conversations that cut across a lot of topics. Be at least 2 years older than me. You should be a God fearing christian. You should have a degree and a career. You should be responsible and caring. You should be interested in building a long lasting relationship. Sex shouldn't be all you care about. That's all. If you meet these criteria or know someone who does, send me a message.


oya wait make I finish school we go talk
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Odingo1: 11:23pm On Dec 15, 2018
Time registered 15th December
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 11:24pm On Dec 15, 2018
lefulefu:
Randy91 oo there"s a big breasted babe looking for boyfriend cheesy cheesy



hw can I go for a lady whose blezz is Coke and face is fantagrin grin grin
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by DynasTee: 11:26pm On Dec 15, 2018
emm
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by backbone503(m): 11:31pm On Dec 15, 2018
You don't need what you don't have. Love and develop yourself more. A true relationship is all about love, and love is something you only get by giving, and interestingly, you can't give what you don't have.

All goodness will gradually gravitate and find their true home in the heart in which love dwells.
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by tshaba28(m): 11:33pm On Dec 15, 2018
[quote author=Leendah04 post=73879174]I am a university graduate who just finished her NYSC program and I'm in need of a boyfriend. I'm currently in search of a job but while at it I'm working part time at a bakery. I've had relationships with men in the past but they have not ended up well, partly because some of the guys I've dated lacked certain traits that I regard as important and they seemed to be more interested in using my body to fulfil their sexual needs that to forge a deep relationship that would grow into marriage. This behavior comes as quite a surprise because although I am attractive I'm also smart and very intellectual and I love engaging in intelligent conversations. I'm not shallow or conceited so I wonder why sex is what most of the guys seem to be interested in when dating me. Another reason my relationships don't work is because some of the guys I date although good looking and caring, aren't very intellectually sound and as driven and motivated
sound Confident And Real,Reply My Pm.
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by GeekfromLasgidi(m): 11:36pm On Dec 15, 2018
Leendah04:
Just so that I'll not alienate some people who would want to reach me, but want to see what I look like first, I'll upload a picture of myself on my profile for few hours and I'll remove afterwards.
Have you checked your mail?
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 11:37pm On Dec 15, 2018
Randy91:




hw can I go for a lady whose blezz is Coke and face is fantagrin grin grin

Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by tshaba28(m): 11:38pm On Dec 15, 2018
[quote author=Leendah04 post=73879174]I am a university graduate who just finished her NYSC program and I'm in need of a boyfriend. I'm currently in search of a job but while at it I'm working part time at a bakery. I've had relationships with men in the past but they have not ended up well, partly because some of the guys I've dated lacked certain traits that I regard as important and they seemed to be more interested in using my body to fulfil their sexual needs that to forge a deep relationship that would grow into marriage. This behavior comes as quite a surprise because although I am attractive I'm also smart and very intellectual and I love engaging in intelligent conversations. I'm not shallow or conceited so I wonder why sex is what most of the guys seem to be interested in when dating me. Another reason my relationships don't work is because some of the guys I date although good looking and caring, aren't very intellectually sound and as driven and motivated
sound Confident Nd Real,reply My PM...

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by tshaba28(m): 11:42pm On Dec 15, 2018
Reply My PM...

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 11:51pm On Dec 15, 2018
MannieA:




lefulefu..most times it is hard for some girls to find who likes them sincerely and not because of their looks.some girls are looked at as sex object.
babe what you said is actually true .i have met very beautiful ladies on several occasion. when I engage them in discussion and discover they are unintelligent I turn them to a sex object.
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Heartbender: 12:01am On Dec 16, 2018
I'm 29. Lawyer. From Port Harcourt, Rivers State and live in Lagos. If you mean what you say we could be friends. I am not in a hurry to waste my time. See my signature for my number. Thanks
Leendah04:
I am a university graduate who just finished her NYSC program and I'm in need of a boyfriend. I'm currently in search of a job but while at it I'm working part time at a bakery. I've had relationships with men in the past but they have not ended up well, partly because some of the guys I've dated lacked certain traits that I regard as important and they seemed to be more interested in using my body to fulfil their sexual needs that to forge a deep relationship that would grow into marriage. This behavior comes as quite a surprise because although I am attractive I'm also smart and very intellectual and I love engaging in intelligent conversations. I'm not shallow or conceited so I wonder why sex is what most of the guys seem to be interested in when dating me. Another reason my relationships don't work is because some of the guys I date although good looking and caring, aren't very intellectually sound and as driven and motivated as I want.

I have decided to create this account and post this here because I've tried dating sites and they seem to be crawling with Hot men who just want sex. With real life interactions it's difficult to screen men to find the qualities you want you want and it's easier to just list these qualities and allow the men who possess them to find you.

Before I list the qualities I want I'll list mine first:

I'm 21 years old. I'm chocolate skinned. I'm 5ft7. Like I said before I'm a graduate. I've a BSC in medical biochemistry and I'm planning on doing my masters. I don't think my tribe should matter, but I'm Igbo. I love reading, listening to music, cooking, swimming and meeting people. I fall at the middle of the introvert-extrovert spectrum. Sometimes I want to talk to someone and go out and have fun, other times I just want to stay in my room and read or watch YouTube videos all day. I'm a Christian. I'm slim and pretty, and for guys who find this attractive, I have a big chest.

These are the qualities I want in a guy:

You don't have to be too fine, but don't be ugly. Be very intelligent and have an interest in having conversations that cut across a lot of topics. Be at least 2 years older than me. You should be a God fearing christian. You should have a degree and a career. You should be responsible and caring. You should be interested in building a long lasting relationship. Sex shouldn't be all you care about. That's all. If you meet these criteria or know someone who does, send me a message.


Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Mrmuch5: 12:06am On Dec 16, 2018
I'm 26..A Petroleum Geologist from Imo but reside and work in lagos.
If only this is real..I'd love to meet you.Tried to DM you but had hiccups doing that..You can DM me.Could really use the acquaintance of a smart lady..
The intelligent conversation part caught my attention, 93% of ladies are lacking when it comes to this aspect..I'm tired of the "OK" and "yeah yeah" gang
It would also interest you to know that I'm sapiosexual.
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Rolly22(m): 12:14am On Dec 16, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:

Lol! Very funny. Point of correction, I'm not fat.
Babe you're too fine, can I get to know you better please?
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by stiles009(m): 1:05am On Dec 16, 2018
I salute your courage. Goodluck with your search.
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 1:11am On Dec 16, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol! Very funny.
Point of correction, I'm not fat.

you resemble alex ekubo
you be im junior sister?

see as you fine like mami water....chai

Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Badb0y4lyf(m): 1:13am On Dec 16, 2018
I have learnt not to jump into anynigerians girls green light cos you just gonna end up paying bills.

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by charlicool: 4:34am On Dec 16, 2018
Well said just be careful of what you ask for here
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by charlicool: 4:36am On Dec 16, 2018
Badb0y4lyf:
I have learnt not to jump into anynigerians girls green light cos you just gonna end up paying bills.

This got me, bro I am skeptic about it too
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by damtan(m): 11:07am On Dec 16, 2018
Leendah04:
I am a university graduate who just finished her NYSC program and I'm in need of a boyfriend. I'm currently in search of a job but while at it I'm working part time at a bakery. I've had relationships with men in the past but they have not ended up well, partly because some of the guys I've dated lacked certain traits that I regard as important and they seemed to be more interested in using my body to fulfil their sexual needs that to forge a deep relationship that would grow into marriage. This behavior comes as quite a surprise because although I am attractive I'm also smart and very intellectual and I love engaging in intelligent conversations. I'm not shallow or conceited so I wonder why sex is what most of the guys seem to be interested in when dating me. Another reason my relationships don't work is because some of the guys I date although good looking and caring, aren't very intellectually sound and as driven and motivated as I want.

I have decided to create this account and post this here because I've tried dating sites and they seem to be crawling with Hot men who just want sex. With real life interactions it's difficult to screen men to find the qualities you want you want and it's easier to just list these qualities and allow the men who possess them to find you.

Before I list the qualities I want I'll list mine first:

I'm 21 years old. I'm chocolate skinned. I'm 5ft7. Like I said before I'm a graduate. I've a BSC in medical biochemistry and I'm planning on doing my masters. I don't think my tribe should matter, but I'm Igbo. I love reading, listening to music, cooking, swimming and meeting people. I fall at the middle of the introvert-extrovert spectrum. Sometimes I want to talk to someone and go out and have fun, other times I just want to stay in my room and read or watch YouTube videos all day. I'm a Christian. I'm slim and pretty, and for guys who find this attractive, I have a big chest.

These are the qualities I want in a guy:

You don't have to be too fine, but don't be ugly. Be very intelligent and have an interest in having conversations that cut across a lot of topics. Be at least 2 years older than me. You should be a God fearing christian. You should have a degree and a career. You should be responsible and caring. You should be interested in building a long lasting relationship. Sex shouldn't be all you care about. That's all. If you meet these criteria or know someone who does, send me a message.


You'd sure receive alot of PMs, but, how many are you gonna interview before someone finally gets the job? You'll get tired along the way. Look around you, there's that guy dying on top your matter.
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by mikejj(m): 1:54pm On Dec 16, 2018
Wuraola01:





What happened to you na grin
Aren't you a good man grin cheesy

Lols, don't mind me shocked
o baby! this table you want to shake hop u know it has no legs!!!i yam a good man now!i am down to earth you know...kiki just that good women are not in nigeria...lala
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by mikejj(m): 1:57pm On Dec 16, 2018
Badb0y4lyf:
I have learnt not to jump into anynigerians girls green light cos you just gonna end up paying bills.
when someone is talking from exprience
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Wuraola01(f): 1:58pm On Dec 16, 2018
mikejj:
o baby! this table you want to shake hop u know it has no legs!!!i yam a good man now!i am down to earth you know...kiki just that good women are not in nigeria...lala


Lol. grin grin

Says who? sad Nigeria is full of excellent women smiley
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by mikejj(m): 2:03pm On Dec 16, 2018
Wuraola01:



Lol. grin grin

Says who? sad Nigeria is full of excellent women smiley
excellent what.,..!! yes i agree,excellent women who only accept men with excellent money..gbam
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Wuraola01(f): 2:06pm On Dec 16, 2018
mikejj:
excellent what.,..!! yes i agree,excellent women who only accept men with excellent money..gbam

Not so sad sad
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by mikejj(m): 2:11pm On Dec 16, 2018
Wuraola01:


Not so sad sad
lol its very clear...even if this op gets the guy she wants...biko if he doesn't have money..fiaaaa
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Wuraola01(f): 2:12pm On Dec 16, 2018
mikejj:
lol its very clear...even if this op gets the guy she wants...biko if he doesn't have money..fiaaaa


Lolz. grin
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by mikejj(m): 2:19pm On Dec 16, 2018
Wuraola01:


Lolz. grin
be there.
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:56pm On Dec 16, 2018
backbone503:
You don't need what you don't have. Love and develop yourself more. A true relationship is all about love, and love is something you only get by giving, and interestingly, you can't give what you don't have.

All goodness will gradually gravitate and find their true home in the heart in which love dwells.

Ok. But this is contradictory.
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:57pm On Dec 16, 2018
Rolly22:


Babe you're too fine, can I get to know you better please?

No, you can't.
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:58pm On Dec 16, 2018
Ttrrffyyghuuh:


you resemble alex ekubo
you be im junior sister?

see as you fine like mami water....chai

undecided
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Rolly22(m): 8:12pm On Dec 16, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:

No, you can't.
..
OK

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