Something has really been bothering me for a while now. Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a broke girl? I mean: A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time. A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and complaining she doesn't have airtime. I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation; where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of? Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits? Or is she a ghost worker? (NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men) How do some guys manage to date such ladies? No wonder suicide and depression victims are mostly men. See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual intelligence and other intelligence. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul (an average man has enough storms); and not someone who adds stress to your life. And most guys are still dating these broke ladies just because they think they're so gorgeous or hot, and they're so lucky to be dating them, and would probably not find another woman as gorgeous and flawless like their broke girlfriends. Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just because of her physical beauty. They're actually a lot of extremely gorgeous and beautiful ladies with common sense. So don't ever think of settling for less brother. One thing I've realized about all these broke girls is not that they don't actually have money... Most of them do; but it's just that they're mentally broke, which is way way worse than not having money. Ladies please don't be mentally broke. Guys please don't date mentally broke girls. Yes, I've broken another table today! I'm outta here

All these small small children roaming Nairaland

Nonsense! since when did broke girls become a limitation to a happy relationship?

When kids talk...

The guy is right to a good percentage. I can only spend hugely on a girl we have both decided to marry. If you date a broke girl, there's every chance you will also be supporting her family. The worst part of it is that she will be expecting you to buy the world for her forgetting the background she came from. Asking you money she won't dare ask her father. Guys should wake up. Date a girl who has something lasting to offer you, not only rubbish sxxx.

are u dating for money?
u be sugarboy?