I once read somewhere that Christmas is many things, one of which is the season of break-ups. Think about it. You have the holidays for yourself and you plan to spend quality time with your boyfriend. Suddenly you notice the infrequent phone calls, curt replies, and strangely, the sense that they don’t want to spend every waking moment with you. Before you know it, you start to doubt yourself and the value of your relationship.

To make it worse, many books peddle tell-tale signs that suggest a guy is not so into you; relationship counsellors do too. But the truth is, these things are never so simple and straight to the point. What you think is a relationship going sour may just be your partner experiencing life from a different perspective.

So before you think about another Christmas breakup, here are some thoughts to consider:

People are different
Human beings tend towards varying traits, which may or may not have a lot to do with how they feel about you. As every relationship progresses, you should renew your knowledge of the love language and the tendencies of your partner. Your ex is always likely different from your next in many regards. So, it is always going to be a learning process.

Know yourself and your love language
It is important that you understand who you are and what makes you feel loved. Understanding this helps you communicate it to those that matter.
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