MariaLavina:
So Men are the only one searching for love in Nigeria?


What about women who did all of the above but still get dumped?



#Sexist Crap!

Estringx:


Truth is that on a Norm, it is men that find love not women... You don't normally expect a lady to go on a search for whom to end up with.

kiddoiLL:
Oga leave true love pursue money..hustle for your money..In the end true love without money to spend and tend to the needs of the relationship will die

MariaLavina:
This is where most guys miss it. Believing men are the ones who choose whom they end up with. But the truth is Women choose whose genes continues to exist. Yes Men go to women, but Women select, they pick who they want to be with, who is fit enough to survive and reproduce.
If a woman plays this important role, she has to ensure the select the best. She has to find one who is true.



BTW Marriage is between two people who have mutually agreed to be together. So why are your tips for just one gender?

Estringx:


I'm not trying to argue with you, you can try it for yourself... Approach any guy in Nigeria for a test that you like him and want to date him. Smiles... You will never want to ever repeat such in your life because of the way you would eventually be treated and get used up and taken advantage of.

Estringx:


I'm not trying to argue with you, you can try it for yourself... Approach any guy in Nigeria for a test that you like him and want to date him. Smiles... You will never want to ever repeat such in your life because of the way you would eventually be treated and get used up and taken advantage of.

ponehp:
I doubt if there is anything call true love in Nigeria here. everybody is doing everything to their advantage. people just marry for marriage sake. Ladies who tend to love unconditionally ended up cheated on, betrayed.
True love is far from us. i swear.

MariaLavina:
This is where most guys miss it. Believing men are the ones who choose whom they end up with. But the truth is Women choose whose genes continues to exist. Yes Men go to women, but Women select, they pick who they want to be with, who is fit enough to survive and reproduce.
If a woman plays this important role, she has to ensure the select the best. She has to find one who is true.



BTW Marriage is between two people who have mutually agreed to be together. So why are your tips for just one gender?

cooluzi:
no vex op will create for two

marvin906:
I stopped believing in true love a long time ago..

Estringx:
why? The state of your mind determines your reality. You can share what happened anyway

Estringx:
why? The state of your mind determines your reality. You can share what happened anyway

marvin906:



long story..
buh the lesson from it is this love without money is bullshi.t..
second never give yourself to someone who doesn't contribute anything to your life

marvin906:



long story..
buh the lesson from it is this love without money is bullshi.t..
second never give yourself to someone who doesn't contribute anything to your life

Estringx:

That's not true bro... That's why it is true love (unconditional love).

Estringx:


I do not blame anyone for the reasons why it is kinda difficult to find true love in Nigeria. But the truth be told, if you are lucky enough to get that person who is ready to sacrifice every thing just to be with you in Nigeria, do every thing in your power to take care of them. The economy we find ourselves have changed virtually everything about us including our adaptivity and survival. People no longer get married to the ones they love because of a limitation which is money precisely. Some girls tend to deny whom they love just to live a comfortable life with that rich man. It is not at all a funny matter, may be I haven't been to places. But as for Nigeria that I am presently in is alarmingly surprising that most girls, ladies or women want to marry for money. Everyone wants to live a comfortable life, the purpose of marriage doesn't matter anymore. I attended a church and the pastor said "marriage is not marrying someone you love but someone with the same dream". Up till date I hardly find people who marry for the sake of same dream thing. Survival has become the determinant in our world today. But where is true love? does this term still exist? At times, I don't even know the real definition of true love. Everything has almost become a mixed up. If I will live the rest of my life marrying someone for the sake of money, what about continuity, endurance and management after marriage? Will I be able to love and care for this person after math? The fact that we all want to live fine has overcome the way we want to really live. Everybody wants to be wealthy. I will never advise you to marry for money. True love requires sacrifice; you will not find that easily. You might not find someone who is ready to struggle with you. Most ladies want all ready made product, they do not want to know about the processes.







THE QUESTION IS HOW DO I FIND MY TRUE LOVE HERE IN NIGERIA?



#1 – FORGET ABOUT BEAUTY

Men are always the cause, when you set a target you don't get outside your target. A man that wants true love will not set a beauty contest target or an eight shape or curvy competition. All he thinks about is a Love that is true and rare. You will find one when you think like this.



2# – HIDE YOUR WEALTH

Most of time you don't find true love showing off. You end up packing all sorts when you are showing off your wealth. You hardly find yourself around the real ones, only fake ones who wants to spend your money will move close. Money doesn't entice her easily, she just want to be happy with her better half. Keep your money please but it doesn't mean you shouldn't buy her things



3# – LET HER SPEND FOR YOU

She will buy you gift unexpectedly to show you how much you mean to her; she will invest so much in this gift. She just want to choose the best for you to know she loves you so much. Don't go for a careless lady – she doesn't fear you. The lady who is in love with you won't want to make mistake easily when you are around because she just want you to love her more. But that doesn't mean she is perfect.



4# – SHE WILL CARE SO MUCH

She doesn't joke with your issues. She is up in the night to think through your problems. She cares a lot like she is on fire. She wants you to be happy just like she's fixing herself up too.



6# – SHE WILL BE RARE

She will be so different from those spenders you call slay queens. She will be their boss because she doesn't act stupid. She is born to be rare. All she wants to do is make sure she doesn't act careless or flown around men. "You can keep your money" is her best quote.



7# – SHE WON'T HIDE A THING

When she begins to trust you, she won't hide anything from you. She tells you all her past, she get to find a way to make you meet her relatives, friends and families. She visits your mother and take care of her. She is married to everyone linked to you especially your siblings if you have one.



Be very careful, marriage is a lifetime thing. We do not support #DIVORCE.

Source : https://www.mindmingers.com

marvin906:



long story..
buh the lesson from it is this love without money is bullshi.t..
second never give yourself to someone who doesn't contribute anything to your life

Evercurious:



'Love without money is bullshit'... Kaiiii!!!! That's just too wrong

Estringx:


I do not blame anyone for the reasons why it still kinda difficult to find true love in Nigeria. But the truth be told, if you are lucky enough to get that person who is ready to sacrifice every thing just to be with you in Nigeria, do every thing in your power to take care of them. The economy we find ourselves have changed virtually everything about us including our adaptivity and survival. People no longer get married to the ones they love because of a limitation which is money precisely. Some girls tend to deny whom they love just to live a comfortable life with that rich man. It is not at all a funny matter, may be I haven't been to places. But as for Nigeria that I am presently in is alarmingly surprising that most girls, ladies or women want to marry for money. Everyone wants to live a comfortable life, the purpose of marriage doesn't matter anymore. I attended a church and the pastor said "marriage is not marrying someone you love but someone with the same dream". Up till date I hardly find people who marry for the sake of same dream thing. Survival has become the determinant in our world today. But where is true love? does this term still exist? At times, I don't even know the real definition of true love. Everything has almost become a mixed up. If I will live the rest of my life marrying someone for the sake of money, what about continuity, endurance and management after marriage? Will I be able to love and care for this person after math? The fact that we all want to live fine has overcome the way we want to really live. Everybody wants to be wealthy. I will never advise you to marry for money. True love requires sacrifice; you will not find that easily. You might not find someone who is ready to struggle with you. Most ladies want all ready made product, they do not want to know about the processes.







THE QUESTION IS HOW DO I FIND MY TRUE LOVE HERE IN NIGERIA?



#1 – FORGET ABOUT BEAUTY

Men are always the cause, when you set a target you don't get outside your target. A man that wants true love will not set a beauty contest target or an eight shape or curvy competition. All he thinks about is a Love that is true and rare. You will find one when you think like this.



2# – HIDE YOUR WEALTH

Most of time you don't find true love showing off. You end up packing all sorts when you are showing off your wealth. You hardly find yourself around the real ones, only fake ones who wants to spend your money will move close. Money doesn't entice her easily, she just want to be happy with her better half. Keep your money please but it doesn't mean you shouldn't buy her things



3# – LET HER SPEND FOR YOU

She will buy you gift unexpectedly to show you how much you mean to her; she will invest so much in this gift. She just want to choose the best for you to know she loves you so much. Don't go for a careless lady – she doesn't fear you. The lady who is in love with you won't want to make mistake easily when you are around because she just want you to love her more. But that doesn't mean she is perfect.



4# – SHE WILL CARE SO MUCH

She doesn't joke with your issues. She is up in the night to think through your problems. She cares a lot like she is on fire. She wants you to be happy just like she's fixing herself up too.



6# – SHE WILL BE RARE

She will be so different from those spenders you call slay queens. She will be their boss because she doesn't act stupid. She is born to be rare. All she wants to do is make sure she doesn't act careless or flown around men. "You can keep your money" is her best quote.



7# – SHE WON'T HIDE A THING

When she begins to trust you, she won't hide anything from you. She tells you all her past, she get to find a way to make you meet her relatives, friends and families. She visits your mother and take care of her. She is married to everyone linked to you especially your siblings if you have one.



Be very careful, marriage is a lifetime thing. We do not support #DIVORCE.

Source : https://www.mindmingers.com

Estringx:


Truth is that on a Norm, it is men that find love not women... You don't normally expect a lady to go on a search for whom to end up with.

MariaLavina:
So Men are the only one searching for love in Nigeria?


What about women who did all of the above but still get dumped?



#Sexist Crap!

marvin906:




My experience has made me to believe that and I wish am proved wrong someday