slawomir:


My dear
A real woman does not give a fuccckkk about your pay or increment
She is only concerned about your responsibility.

ImaIma1:


This doesn't answer the question. Or you mean since she is not the breadwinner, she can keep her salary and any increment a secret?

ImaIma1:


Are you married?

CreepyBlackpool:

if the husband is not dependent on her

if there's no way her husband will ask her for a new car

if there's no way she'll start taking care of more of her husband's relatives


then she shouldn't keep her salary increament a secret

slawomir:


Yes.

CreepyBlackpool:

if the husband is not dependent on her

if there's no way her husband will ask her for a new car

if there's no way she'll start taking care of more of her husband's relatives


then she shouldn't keep her salary increament a secret

notoriousbabe:
No o, he shouldn't try it o.






Who Noticed that Nigerian Banks didn’t send Christmas messages this Year?

skarlett:
The fact that you're nervous of telling her raises a red flag on your marriage, something is not right somewhere

pocohantas:


Here comes the hypocrisy. The part where people can't take what they give

Cc; ImaIma1

pocohantas:
I don't know how people marry who they do not trust with their finances. If I can't trust you, enough to plan with you, why then are we married?

So, who would he rather tell?
His mother, siblings or friends?

Anyway, he knows his wife better.

blues343:
WHY WILL HE B NERVOUS.......... ABI THE WIFE GO FINISH D MONY?

DukeofNZ:


na your double standard de make alpha man like me de attack you even as i say before say i no go dey attack you again but you no de fail to disappoint somebody with your double standard. i remember for a recent tread where you been say when you marry say you go get property and other things for secret for your husband back say na so smart nigerian woman de do.

pocohantas:


That was sarcasm, Something that flies over the head of you dunderheads. More reason y'all keep having panic attacks. Please, be gone.

cialis50:


They sent to me. I'm even tired of deleting them.

Try to increase your balance above single digits and you'll likely get greetings

pocohantas:


That was sarcasm, Something that flies over the head of you dunderheads. More reason y'all keep having panic attacks. Please, be gone.

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I am not surprised, Romance section alphas are very very slow creatures. Incapable of thinking outside a limited scope, more reason y'all are non-existent in intellectual sections of this forum.

InSanety:
How can you marry someone and keep tiny secrets like this?

How can you be afraid to share good news with a supposed loved one?

If not your wife, who will you tell? Your best friend? Your parents? Your siblings?

How can someone be the flesh of your flesh and bone of your bones, but you are considering playing hide and seek with her?

Where is the trust? Where is the partnership?

What are you people turning marriage into in this century?


Please, if you know you are not ready to be fully committed to someone, to fully trust someone like you would trust yourself, respect yourself and stay out of the marital union. It's not by force

CreepyBlackpool:
If you want your wives younger sister to move in with you.

if you want to start training more of your wife's relatives.

if you want to buy your wife a new car.

if you want to find out your mother/father-in-law has been sick since and needs money for treatment.

if you want your children to start going to a costlier school.


then tell your wife

Exactly the pains I am going through.

ImaIma1:


Indeed!

Please don't pass on this traditional and archaic mindset to your offspring o

BrainnewsRadio:


Do you advice him to tell her?

Read More At; https://www.brainnewsradio.com/should-i-inform-my-wife-of-my-salary-increase-nigerian-man-seeks-advice/

BrainnewsRadio:


Do you advice him to tell her?

Read More At; https://www.brainnewsradio.com/should-i-inform-my-wife-of-my-salary-increase-nigerian-man-seeks-advice/

CreepyBlackpool:
If you want your wives younger sister to move in with you.

if you want to start training more of your wife's relatives.

if you want to buy your wife a new car.

if you want to find out your mother/father-in-law has been sick since and needs money for treatment.

if you want your children to start going to a costlier school.


then tell your wife

CreepyBlackpool:
If you want your wives younger sister to move in with you.

if you want to start training more of your wife's relatives.

if you want to buy your wife a new car.

if you want to find out your mother/father-in-law has been sick since and needs money for treatment.

if you want your children to start going to a costlier school.


then tell your wife

Zieina:


Typical ipob mentality. Yorubas don't live like this. I bet my head you're igbo.

CreepyBlackpool:

I would bet my head but you and your tribe of skull miners would try to cut it off.


Afonja scum from the wasteside