To me it depends on their relationship

If your wife is economical, conservative and prudent with financial matters

Go ahead but if she is wasteful and cant manage finances

Just keep it to yourself.
After all the increase can't be up to 20% of your annual salary

Make you no go do obedient husband take an create issues for house

But plan with it rather

slawomir:

Okay o
If you say it is primitive

Quite so.

I can't imagine my husband hiding something like that from me. He won't do such anyway. We don't use money as a weapon or make it as a god.

We plan together and spend together and no one feels like the Alpha or Omega. I think that is how a couple should be and not each one protecting their separate interests.

Nothing should be hidden between spouses,she definitely would find out later and bros,u won't like her reaction. If I found out my husband hid his own from me,I no go even talk,when my own increases,I would hide it as well. Simple

ImaIma1:


Quite so.

I can't imagine my husband hiding something like that from me. He won't do such anyway. We don't use money as a weapon or make it as a god.

We plan together and spend together and no one feels like the Alpha or Omega. I think that is how a couple should be and not each one protecting their separate interests.

No one is protecting a Hidden interest.

Am saying when you take care of your family the woman will not be interested in your pay or increment.

You don't have to be a millionaire before you display a good sense of responsibility
It is only when you abandone your responsibility that your wife start being curious about your bank account or pay or even salary increment

ikhileomotayo:


Well it depends on the type of wife he has. Some women know how to save and plan better than some men. If you are lucky to have such a woman as a wife then count yourself blessed as you have a financial adviser there. If his wife is one of such women, then he should absolutely tell her.

On the otherhand, if the wife is a slay queen or these owambe type of women, then the guy should keep shut

Exactly

skarlett:
The fact that you're nervous of telling her raises a red flag on your marriage, something is not right somewhere

U this glorious celestial creature again! Talk to me now, Skarlett baby.

slawomir:



No one is protecting a Hidden interest.

Am saying when you take care of your family the woman will not be interested in your pay or increment.

You don't have to be a millionaire before you display a good sense of responsibility
It is only when you abandone your responsibility that your wife start being curious about your bank account or pay or even salary increment

Not true. Every increase should be noted and celebrated.

But you have your own opinion

ImaIma1:


Not true. Every increase should be noted and celebrated.

But you have your own opinion

Is okay o

Maybe i will disclose it to her one day only if she ask

frozen70:
To me it depends on their relationship

If your wife is economical, conservative and prudent with financial matters

Go ahead but if she is wasteful and cant manage finances

Just keep it to yourself.
After all the increase can't be up to 20% of your annual salary

Make you no go do obedient husband take an create issues for house

But plan with it rather

Ok

ImaIma1:


Quite so.

I can't imagine my husband hiding something like that from me. He won't do such anyway. We don't use money as a weapon or make it as a god.

We plan together and spend together and no one feels like the Alpha or Omega. I think that is how a couple should be and not each one protecting their separate interests.

remember that what work for u might not work for another person. Marriage don't have formula.

igwefivestar:
remember that what work for u might not work for another person. Marriage don't have formula.

Off course. But there are basics, foundation and standards in marriage. There should be love and trust, they have both become one.

So if that is in place, the OP should not even need to ask this question because it is an indication that his marriage is faulty.

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Mishaya:
And he posted this on social media probably with his real account and picture. So your wife no go see this post know sey your salary don increase abi?

no mind am