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Tony99411:
Dear nairalanders , I have been dating this girl for about two years she has been the best girlfriend anyone can ask of . She is humble loyal respectful my words are final she doesn’t argue with me or challenge my verdict . Until recently I noticed she was seeing a guy and the guy has been spending heavily on her . When we started dating she told me she was 24years and I believed her. So currently we are having big issues and we decided to open up to each other she has decided to leave the other guy for me anyways the problem is , she just told me she is older than me with 2 years .that is she’s 26,
I’m confused . I love her so much , my mom wont allow me marry someone older than me . I feel she would put pressure on me to marry her if we continue since she’s older and she would want to get married since time is not on her side but I’m still young and I need to make money .

I need advise

Sorry about what you are going through. There are some questions you need to answer.

1. Why did she start seeing the guy? Has she explained her reasons to you? Was it all about the heavy spending? It is important to understand her reasons because if the factors that made her go to the guy do not change, she could fall for him again.

2. How long did this "affair" happen?

3. Did she ever inform the guy about you before or during the affair?

4. Is she still in contact with the guy? Has she cut off communication with him?

5. Are you ready to take her back for the long haul? Hope you understand that love as you feel it now would not sustain the relationship as the years pass by. Love fades. It's willpower, commitment and mutual respect that sustain long lasting relationships.

U get mind dey rastle gal wey old pass u UNLESS she get small body because any gal wey be my age mate or older I dey see dem as mama bkus they look older to me

Love has nothing to do with age sha. where is Myndy44 and Lalasticlala.

If she is 26 nw,DAT means u r 24yrs...sori,d present economic situation in d country don't allow early marriage..pls free d gal joor