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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by lilbest4(m): 7:33am On Jan 02
BlacSmit:
If this is truth. I advice that you secure yourself first and move out of the shared apartment cos your relationship is very toxic at the moment.

Secure your finance and priceless valuables as well.

Your can start the divorce proceedings from your hideout like dino melaye. (sarcasm intended)
trust me men hardly come online to lie about wives torturing them. I hope you know it takes so much courage to do this because he stands the risk of being labeled a weak ass nigga

The problem is that the woman is very wicked she seized his balls with that their child, that's her main insurance and op is not a strong hearted man. I have many sisters so I know what they can do.
If you ever get married, always let your wife have the impression that you can abandon her and her children at the slightest opportunity that's the only way to avoid manipulation and torture

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by lilbest4(m): 7:40am On Jan 02
demelza:
To hook a Nigerian man is very easy.

Simply pretend and act humble.

Be the first to apologise.

Kneel down and give him food.

In fact, pretend to be submissive

Before you know, you don marry. grin grin


@Op, sorry o!
Get a lawyer to help.
so you've not seen a man that abandoned his pregnant wife?
Those tricks only work on the nice men

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by Dyt(f): 8:15am On Jan 02
lilbest4:
impression that you can abandon her and her children at the slightest opportunity that's the only way to avoid manipulation and torture

so you dont call that manipulation and torture over her too?

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by Doctorfitz: 8:30am On Jan 02
Like someone said here, a woman's past is even more important than her present because most times they really don't change but cloak their ways.

U missed vital red flags because you were carried away probably by love, beauty or hot fvck. Things that actually won't matter in marriage that is. Love is not enough, beauty isn't. There are too many crazy women presently that I won't even advise men to get married.... I'll advice you divorce the lady for your life's sake.

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by bamidelee: 8:34am On Jan 02
royalamour:
Met in 2014 November.
Dated for 11 months. All these while she was so homely and accommodating.

She would call to let me know about her movements even when I did not ask for.

She would apologize at any slight opportunity.

It was all rosy.

The parents kept calling and advising me not to let other ladies win me over.

They would visit or call my parents at every given opportunity and I felt "this is it".

We got married almost a year later.

The first 2 weeks of the honeymoon was smooth until the 3rd week and bam! there was disagreement about money.

She stabbed me with a knife though the cut wasn't too deep. It took me months to catch up with reality as the lady I was dating was a total different person.

That was the journey of misery and then it was nagging, disrespect and stuffs until I caught her on the phone telling her ex that she misses him and sh1ts.

I was devastated. This lady refused to apologize. She won't even listen to me whenever I asked to have a heart to heart talk with her.

I had to involve her parents and it was by force before she apologized.

She got pregnant and 9 months later she was delivered of our first son.

2 weeks later, my attention was drawn to constant beeping on her phone and when I checked, my supposed wife was discussing with another of her ex about how tight and intact her vagina was cos she gave birth through CS. And the guy used to be jealous cos he enjoyed the sex they had as she was always tight and shits.

I was devastated. I drew her attention to it and she denied feigning ignorance. It was when I showed her screenshots that she accepted and asked me to forget about it, that what has happened has happened.

She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won't.

I reported to the mother. This didn't help matters. The aunts numbering about 4 had to beg on her behalf.
I let it slide.

Things got worse and it came to a point where she would not cook. Even times when I return home from long journeys, I most times will have to go into the kitchen to sort myself.

Mum got sick and I asked that she come to us so that we can go to bigger hospital for proper check up and hell was let loose.

She stopped cooking and would only cook whenever she desires.

Time past and my life became almost miserable.

I would close from the office and won't be able to go home. I would stroll into a beer parlour and while away time till maybe 10pm and would sneak out very early even before she wakes up.

Earlier in 2016, I had empowered her with 1.2 million to start a business and one dime I didn't see as return on investment with her citing low patronage as the reason for the collapse of the business.

It was until the elder brother who was staying with us asked her for money and she refused that the dude disclosed that she made about 2.6 million from sales of items and services she rendered in the shop she denied making nothing from. She could not deny this fact but for my son I let it slide.

My wife would bring her female friend into the home and this lady even when she was engaged to a guy still go out to sleep with other guys.
I asked her to stop been friends with her and she blatantly refused. She would go ahead to invite the lady into my home and rain insults on me because I don't want them together.

This final one was the calls she was making with her ex most times when I was away in the office.
I noticed and she couldn't deny it. I later learnt that her cheat of a friend was the middle person that delivers messages to my wife whenever I was around.

I can't take it anymore.

I don't wanna die before my time.

I can't eat in my house anymore as she threatened to poison me and nothing will happen. This was let out in a heat of a moment while we were exchanging words.

What's the express way to divorce without complications?

NB: The dad has asked me to quit before I start to develop HBP.
don't let anyone here deceive you, divorce her asap. Divorce is not a blemish to your personality. No do or die affairs in marriage.

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by kongolo(m): 8:37am On Jan 02
I just love myself. MGTOW for the past 7years. Life is easy.

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by KingOfAllIgbos: 9:07am On Jan 02
OP is a weakling. I almost vomited reading it.

I hope it's fiction angry

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by funkyjms: 9:23am On Jan 02
FFR
Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by ruggedtimi(m): 9:35am On Jan 02
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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by SyberKate(f): 9:35am On Jan 02
cool
Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by Hoodbilonia: 9:36am On Jan 02
thats why i dont keep relationships
naija women are useless and ungrateful
baba beta run far
take yur pickin run far before she give u aids
till tmrw ma ex i have cursed. threatened. beat up
keeps begging me to come back
u knw what it is for a g boy to give u 100% attention and care for 3years and u take me for a fool. hahaah
bich

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by Biodun1929(m): 9:38am On Jan 02
Hmm. She has potential to cheat on you, she is rude and disrespectful, and she hardly cooks for you. How come the OP didn't see any of these signs while dating.




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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by Speedyconnect15: 9:39am On Jan 02
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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by koyyes: 9:40am On Jan 02
demelza:
To hook a Nigerian man is very easy.

Simply pretend and act humble.

Be the first to apologise.

Kneel down and give him food.

In fact, pretend to be submissive

Before you know, you don marry. grin grin


@Op, sorry o!
Get a lawyer to help.

Exactly.

These are the kind of females Nigerian males like- Pretenders and not the ones confident to tell you the truth to your face.

Op sorry o. One divorce down, many more to go.

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by femijay8271(m): 9:40am On Jan 02
royalamour:
Met in 2014 November.
Dated for 11 months. All these while she was so homely and accommodating.

She would call to let me know about her movements even when I did not ask for.

She would apologize at any slight opportunity.

It was all rosy.

The parents kept calling and advising me not to let other ladies win me over.

They would visit or call my parents at every given opportunity and I felt "this is it".

We got married almost a year later.

The first 2 weeks of the honeymoon was smooth until the 3rd week and bam! there was disagreement about money.

She stabbed me with a knife though the cut wasn't too deep. It took me months to catch up with reality as the lady I was dating was a total different person.

That was the journey of misery and then it was nagging, disrespect and stuffs until I caught her on the phone telling her ex that she misses him and sh1ts.

I was devastated. This lady refused to apologize. She won't even listen to me whenever I asked to have a heart to heart talk with her.

I had to involve her parents and it was by force before she apologized.

She got pregnant and 9 months later she was delivered of our first son.

2 weeks later, my attention was drawn to constant beeping on her phone and when I checked, my supposed wife was discussing with another of her ex about how tight and intact her vagina was cos she gave birth through CS. And the guy used to be jealous cos he enjoyed the sex they had as she was always tight and shits.

I was devastated. I drew her attention to it and she denied feigning ignorance. It was when I showed her screenshots that she accepted and asked me to forget about it, that what has happened has happened.

She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won't.

I reported to the mother. This didn't help matters. The aunts numbering about 4 had to beg on her behalf.
I let it slide.

Things got worse and it came to a point where she would not cook. Even times when I return home from long journeys, I most times will have to go into the kitchen to sort myself.

Mum got sick and I asked that she come to us so that we can go to bigger hospital for proper check up and hell was let loose.

She stopped cooking and would only cook whenever she desires.

Time past and my life became almost miserable.

I would close from the office and won't be able to go home. I would stroll into a beer parlour and while away time till maybe 10pm and would sneak out very early even before she wakes up.

Earlier in 2016, I had empowered her with 1.2 million to start a business and one dime I didn't see as return on investment with her citing low patronage as the reason for the collapse of the business.

It was until the elder brother who was staying with us asked her for money and she refused that the dude disclosed that she made about 2.6 million from sales of items and services she rendered in the shop she denied making nothing from. She could not deny this fact but for my son I let it slide.

My wife would bring her female friend into the home and this lady even when she was engaged to a guy still go out to sleep with other guys.
I asked her to stop been friends with her and she blatantly refused. She would go ahead to invite the lady into my home and rain insults on me because I don't want them together.

This final one was the calls she was making with her ex most times when I was away in the office.
I noticed and she couldn't deny it. I later learnt that her cheat of a friend was the middle person that delivers messages to my wife whenever I was around.

I can't take it anymore.

I don't wanna die before my time.

I can't eat in my house anymore as she threatened to poison me and nothing will happen. This was let out in a heat of a moment while we were exchanging words.

What's the express way to divorce without complications?

NB: The dad has asked me to quit before I start to develop HBP.


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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by gistrepublic: 9:40am On Jan 02
I've found myself in a similar situation,

Even though your emotions may not let you make the right decision, taking the right decision after all in this situation will pave for a better and happier future for you.

Right Decision?

Divorce her, quit communicating with her totally, find love (I promise you there's someone out there that's perfect for you).. Move on because it will never get better. She has happened, she is part of the bitter taste of life, don't make it like you can't do without her... Yes you can
..MOVE ON!!!

See how to deal with heartbreak

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by Adiwana: 9:40am On Jan 02
Mehn,this had me heated.Your wife stabbed you 3 weeks into marriage,threatened to poison you and you are here asking stupid questions.Feel like shooting your ass through the phone.What a Weak and Beta Man that deserves to have his balls cut off.

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by rangerover(m): 9:40am On Jan 02
DUDE I NORMALY DON'T MAKE COMMENTS. BUT YOU ARE PISSING ME OFF. THERE ARE A MILLION AND ONE GIRLS OUT THERE THAT
WILL CHERISH YOUR KINDNESS AND HEART. LIFE IS TOO SHORT. NO ONE SHOULD MORTGAGE YOUR HAPPINESS. LEAVE IMMEDIATELY. START AFRESH. YOU DESERVE BETTER. AND YOU WILL SURE GET SOMEONE BETTER.

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by castro(m): 9:41am On Jan 02
When a woman reaches out to her ex after she is married, that alone is a red flag that infidelity has started taking place from the emotional point of view.

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by Dessy96: 9:42am On Jan 02
royalamour:
Met in 2014 November.
Dated for 11 months. All these while she was so homely and accommodating.

She would call to let me know about her movements even when I did not ask for.

She would apologize at any slight opportunity.

It was all rosy.

The parents kept calling and advising me not to let other ladies win me over.

They would visit or call my parents at every given opportunity and I felt "this is it".

We got married almost a year later.

The first 2 weeks of the honeymoon was smooth until the 3rd week and bam! there was disagreement about money.

She stabbed me with a knife though the cut wasn't too deep. It took me months to catch up with reality as the lady I was dating was a total different person.

That was the journey of misery and then it was nagging, disrespect and stuffs until I caught her on the phone telling her ex that she misses him and sh1ts.

I was devastated. This lady refused to apologize. She won't even listen to me whenever I asked to have a heart to heart talk with her.

I had to involve her parents and it was by force before she apologized.

She got pregnant and 9 months later she was delivered of our first son.

2 weeks later, my attention was drawn to constant beeping on her phone and when I checked, my supposed wife was discussing with another of her ex about how tight and intact her vagina was cos she gave birth through CS. And the guy used to be jealous cos he enjoyed the sex they had as she was always tight and shits.

I was devastated. I drew her attention to it and she denied feigning ignorance. It was when I showed her screenshots that she accepted and asked me to forget about it, that what has happened has happened.

She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won't.

I reported to the mother. This didn't help matters. The aunts numbering about 4 had to beg on her behalf.
I let it slide.

Things got worse and it came to a point where she would not cook. Even times when I return home from long journeys, I most times will have to go into the kitchen to sort myself.

Mum got sick and I asked that she come to us so that we can go to bigger hospital for proper check up and hell was let loose.

She stopped cooking and would only cook whenever she desires.

Time past and my life became almost miserable.

I would close from the office and won't be able to go home. I would stroll into a beer parlour and while away time till maybe 10pm and would sneak out very early even before she wakes up.

Earlier in 2016, I had empowered her with 1.2 million to start a business and one dime I didn't see as return on investment with her citing low patronage as the reason for the collapse of the business.

It was until the elder brother who was staying with us asked her for money and she refused that the dude disclosed that she made about 2.6 million from sales of items and services she rendered in the shop she denied making nothing from. She could not deny this fact but for my son I let it slide.

My wife would bring her female friend into the home and this lady even when she was engaged to a guy still go out to sleep with other guys.
I asked her to stop been friends with her and she blatantly refused. She would go ahead to invite the lady into my home and rain insults on me because I don't want them together.

This final one was the calls she was making with her ex most times when I was away in the office.
I noticed and she couldn't deny it. I later learnt that her cheat of a friend was the middle person that delivers messages to my wife whenever I was around.

I can't take it anymore.

I don't wanna die before my time.

I can't eat in my house anymore as she threatened to poison me and nothing will happen. This was let out in a heat of a moment while we were exchanging words.

What's the express way to divorce without complications?

NB: The dad has asked me to quit before I start to develop HBP.
omo my man... please for the sake of your life leave that woman... it's something that you're suppose to have done since for your peace..... my dad always tells me anything that happens, life goes on... move on with your life. Marriage is not a must

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by slap1(m): 9:42am On Jan 02
Sorry about what you're going through.


File for a divorce. Before that, change the locks to your house while she's away. Plan it. Let her meet you in court from anywhere she chooses, her parents' or ex's house.

If you serve her divorce papers while still in your house, she could kill you in your sleep.

I don't understand people. You miss your ex, so why not stay with them? Stories like this scare me out of marriage thoughts. Also make sure you're granted custody of your son.

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by EVILFOREST: 9:42am On Jan 02
OKAFOR’s LAW
NEVER make the mistake of marrying a LADY you love more.
Settle for a LADY that LOVES you more.
Come back and thank me
For you will look ROBUST in that MARRIAGE.

You are suffering because you LOVE her so much and she doesn’t love you at all
SORRY MAN, always ask the elders

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by wanger50(m): 9:42am On Jan 02
If I were you, I would have run out with my life!

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by Lexusgs430: 9:42am On Jan 02
royalamour:
Met in 2014 November.
Dated for 11 months. All these while she was so homely and accommodating.

She would call to let me know about her movements even when I did not ask for.

She would apologize at any slight opportunity.

It was all rosy.

The parents kept calling and advising me not to let other ladies win me over.

They would visit or call my parents at every given opportunity and I felt "this is it".

We got married almost a year later.

The first 2 weeks of the honeymoon was smooth until the 3rd week and bam! there was disagreement about money.

She stabbed me with a knife though the cut wasn't too deep. It took me months to catch up with reality as the lady I was dating was a total different person.

That was the journey of misery and then it was nagging, disrespect and stuffs until I caught her on the phone telling her ex that she misses him and sh1ts.

I was devastated. This lady refused to apologize. She won't even listen to me whenever I asked to have a heart to heart talk with her.

I had to involve her parents and it was by force before she apologized.

She got pregnant and 9 months later she was delivered of our first son.

2 weeks later, my attention was drawn to constant beeping on her phone and when I checked, my supposed wife was discussing with another of her ex about how tight and intact her vagina was cos she gave birth through CS. And the guy used to be jealous cos he enjoyed the sex they had as she was always tight and shits.

I was devastated. I drew her attention to it and she denied feigning ignorance. It was when I showed her screenshots that she accepted and asked me to forget about it, that what has happened has happened.

She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won't.

I reported to the mother. This didn't help matters. The aunts numbering about 4 had to beg on her behalf.
I let it slide.

Things got worse and it came to a point where she would not cook. Even times when I return home from long journeys, I most times will have to go into the kitchen to sort myself.

Mum got sick and I asked that she come to us so that we can go to bigger hospital for proper check up and hell was let loose.

She stopped cooking and would only cook whenever she desires.

Time past and my life became almost miserable.

I would close from the office and won't be able to go home. I would stroll into a beer parlour and while away time till maybe 10pm and would sneak out very early even before she wakes up.

Earlier in 2016, I had empowered her with 1.2 million to start a business and one dime I didn't see as return on investment with her citing low patronage as the reason for the collapse of the business.

It was until the elder brother who was staying with us asked her for money and she refused that the dude disclosed that she made about 2.6 million from sales of items and services she rendered in the shop she denied making nothing from. She could not deny this fact but for my son I let it slide.

My wife would bring her female friend into the home and this lady even when she was engaged to a guy still go out to sleep with other guys.
I asked her to stop been friends with her and she blatantly refused. She would go ahead to invite the lady into my home and rain insults on me because I don't want them together.

This final one was the calls she was making with her ex most times when I was away in the office.
I noticed and she couldn't deny it. I later learnt that her cheat of a friend was the middle person that delivers messages to my wife whenever I was around.

I can't take it anymore.

I don't wanna die before my time.

I can't eat in my house anymore as she threatened to poison me and nothing will happen. This was let out in a heat of a moment while we were exchanging words.

What's the express way to divorce without complications?

NB: The dad has asked me to quit before I start to develop HBP.

Very simple..... You need to relocate and commence divorce proceedings, if you want to come out of this relationship alive.......


She set a trap for you, while you guys where were wear dating....... She pretended all the way through, you thought you married puppy, but you got a wild lion.....

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by ZAWs: 9:42am On Jan 02
Posts like this irritates me a lot.

You gave your own wife 1.2million for business and never saw a kobo in return and she's talking nonsense.
I.2million na #1,200?

*Modified*
You must be a very funny/gentle man.

Some men are no longer MEN.
How could you take all these nonsense in your own house?

For wetin na"

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Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by frankputer: 9:43am On Jan 02
Na waoo
Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by MoxxxxO123(m): 9:43am On Jan 02
In as much as you are experiencing this tough situation in your marriage divorce won't be a way out of this, firstly you take it to God in prayers..For the sake of your well being and your son find a way to act blind to her while you still make efforts for the marriage.dont seek divorce or separation at this time
Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by Eleganza33(f): 9:43am On Jan 02
Nna this one shock me you mean your own wife did all this,biko this is new year you need peace do what makes you happy

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