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"I need the help of the fam. My boyfriend and i have been together for about 2 years. We've always been in love and conquered all issues we've had together except this one. I live with my parents while he lives alone about 30 mins away from me. For the past year, it's been eating him up that we don't see as often as he'd like. We see like twice or three times a week for a couple of hours.

I can't see him more often, even though i reaaaaally wish i could, because i stay with my family and my parents are strict. I'm 25 but i'm still treated like i'm 16. I'm always supposed to be at home doing some kind of work or the other and it kills me.

I have no friends coz of this. Just him. I've fallen into mild depression but they don't see it. I have a business that i'm starting and it keeps me grounded while he is an architect.

It is really hard and painful for him that he doesn't get to see me when wants..it has to always be on a kind of schedule that doesn't coincide with my work at home.

We don't want to break up but we want things to change. I wanted to suggest a break for a little while but i didn't want to hurt him even more. I've been crying since he told me. He cried too but he tried to hide it. We just don't know what to do.

We don't know how to resolve it. Since he opened up to me how he's been feeling, it's been killing me too. I knew it bothered him coz he had said so times before but not this much. Please help me. I really really love him and i see him in my future because he is the best thing that has happened to me in a long long time. Thank you."

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ehn build house, buy car and find work. walahi them go begin treat you like 75 year old when you do these

You guys should get married.

You have to leave that house,you should show them how grown you are, most importantly get married.

U no get mind.that na why dem still dey cage u. Had it been sey your liver strong, I for set make u run comot, switch off your phone, and don't show up for 2 days, but make sure sey u no sleep your boyfriend house so we no go hear another story in 9 months time.

Just run out, spend quality time with him, but don't sleep over. Meanwhile he's got to be aware of what you're doing. If them no adjust when u show up after d 2 days, call me anything wey u like. Though the adjustment fit come with some kinda spanking, no shake, tell dem sey if them no free u, u go carry belle spoil things for them. Na them go dey ask u later set when u wan comot?

Both of you are not serious.