Moh247:
Continue dating her but make sure you don't get her pregnant at 25 you still have 4 to 5 years to date and enjoy your life before the rigors of marriage, so use the 4 to 5 years to enjoy your lover

Championxxx:
I am dating a 34 years old single mother of two girls , she is a business woman and I am a bar tender. She support me financially I don't lack anything and I truly love her for real not because of what she is giving me but I love her for who she is. She is the first woman I have ever slept with in my entire life and I want to spend the rest of my life with her but my parents are against the relationship because of the age difference even my siblings doesn't want to hear anything about her they say i should quittherelationship. But I love her so much she asked me to move in with her and I don't want todisobey my parents. I am torn between the woman I love and my family what should I do or whom should I choose, I know that it is not a competition family should also come first but I think my happiness also matter. By the way the relationship is 9 months. Please admin do not push my post to the front page because I don't want immature advice I need mature advice?

SocialJustice:
Water down the relationship and continue enjoying her. You can't turn your back on your support system. The lady you're dying for can switch at any time, family hardly switch. Just leave the relationship as is. No need for long term commitment. You could damn your family and be with her but will you be happy with your decision 10-20 years from now?

Championxxx:


Thanks for the advice you are right , that's the reason why I came here to seek for advices first because I didn't want to act fast then regret it later

Championxxx:
I am dating a 34 years old single mother of two girls , she is a business woman and I am a bar tender. She support me financially I don't lack anything and I truly love her for real not because of what she is giving me but I love her for who she is. She is the first woman I have ever slept with in my entire life and I want to spend the rest of my life with her but my parents are against the relationship because of the age difference even my siblings doesn't want to hear anything about her they say i should quittherelationship. But I love her so much she asked me to move in with her and I don't want to disobey my parents. I am torn between the woman I love and my family what should I do or whom should I choose, I know that it is not a competition family should alway come first but I think my happiness also matter. By the way the relationship is 9 months. Please admin do not push my post to the front page because I don't want immature advice I need mature advice?

Rhozabeth:
To be honest, sense is far from you! because an older lady gave u sex and u think that's where the world ends. Better wake up, you have your life ahead of you, don't let someone that has almost finished hers hold u down!

DaddyRochie1642:



Oga better listen to your family to avoid weeping and gnashing of teeth

TooMuchJuice:
1. An healthy age gap between two people should be no more than 8-years, with the man being older than the woman.
2. Single parents should only date themselves (a single mother should date a single father, and vice versa).
**If you're a single mother or father, you've no business dating a single man or woman; find a single parent
like yourself to date.

As for you, OP, just be honest and say you're only with her for money/what you're getting out of her.
If she were poor/broke/not giving you money, you wouldn't be with her, because she's
not only 11-years older than you, but she has two kids.

She's the one who needs to have sense and dump you with the quickness, as this isn't a love/love-based-relationship,
but she obviously won't, so... her wahala.

Championxxx:
I am dating a 34 years old single mother of two girls , she is a business woman and I am a bar tender. She support me financially I don't lack anything and I truly love her for real not because of what she is giving me but I love her for who she is .

Kirkman:
@championxxx; date her for one extra year and then make your final decision. But the only downside is that along the line of she meets someone more serious than you; she will port with that person. And besides have you studied all her flaws and character very well.
Analyse it from the angle of your parents side and also do your own personal analysis about her and compare.
Are they against her just because she's a single mother or are they seeing other things about her that you are too blind to see.
I wish you all the very best with your realatioship. Being a single mother isn't a death sentence, she might just have been unlucky with falling in love with the wrong person.

Richy4:

Blessedmercy8:
If she didn't have children already, I'll say go ahead but with children? My son ( because I reach to born you) don't go there, Biko. She don go far.

Cut off now.

Championxxx:


Thank you ma

Championxxx:



For your information she is 9 years older than I am and I am not a gigolo please

Blessedmercy8:
If she didn't have children already, I'll say go ahead but with children? My son ( because I reach to born you) don't go there, Biko. She don go far.

Cut off now.

James289:
Do what makes you happy. Your not living your life for your dad or your mom. Only you.

I'm also 25 and my boyfriend of a year and a half is 46.
Best decision I could have ever made.

Championxxx:


Thanks for the advice, my family are against the relationship because of the age difference it is not because she is a single mother, one of my sister was a single mother before she got married. they would have accepted her if she was younger than me.