BronzeMajik:
beautifully written, it seems you've mastered the secrets of women.

well done.

BronzeMajik:
beautifully written, it seems you've mastered the secrets of women.

well done.

PaulAris:
Like a master of words who truly knows the value of his onions
Well said brothmahn

JayIlych:
Nicely written and well worded.

But I want to bring a slight tweak, a small variation to what you said.
Slapping her back or throwing her phone on the ground too or spitting back on her is you playing into her hands.


Key here is UNPREDICTABILITY.

Don't be too simple to guess. If she knows that if she slaps you, you'll react this way or that, alas, you're in her hands.

On a fateful day, she slaps you, you might simply walk away.

If she does it again and again and you always play the gentleman and walk away, she knows you have a definite pattern and she can use it against you anytime she wants.

If you slap back and beat her and give her bruises, she knows what to expect and if she wants to frame you or set you up, she knows all she have to do is slap you and boom, you land in jail (in civilized countries).

Be unpredictable. Be like the ocean. Never being still. Unpredictable.

If she shows some unsavory attitude, you can decide to laugh heartily as if it's the best joke you've heard all your life(even if it hurts you to the bone marrows).


Believe me, she'll be put off balance and be scared.

Another time, you can walk away, give silent treatment, either cutting off communication totally or slightly.


Another you can bring out your inner tiger. Slap her back, beat her up savagely, rape her even (if you're masochistic and sadistic), just give her what she expects and a little more.


Keep her on the edge.


Women are simple but they try so hard to make themselves seem obscure and enigmatic.


Op, sorry if I'm deviating or if it seems I'm trying to take over your thread. Not my intention.

ubunja:
don't Respond To Emotional Punches With Physical Punches

PROLOGUE.
The greatest gift men have in this world is masculinity or physical power. Through physical strength men bend circumstances and people to their will, but Women, lacking the strength to match, have focused all their energies on mastering the Emotions and accomplish what men accomplish through emotional power.

LIONS RULE THE LAND; SHARKS RULE THE SEA
picture masculine power as Land and feminine emotions as Sea. men are the Lions ruling the Land and women the Sharks ruling the Sea. while the Lion is undefeated on Land, he would be torn to shreds in the Sea. And while the shark is undefeated in the Sea, she would be torn to shreds on the Land. The lion and the shark can each dominate only by sticking to their native surroundings where they have home advantage.

HOW MARRIAGE BRINGS STRENGTH AND EMOTIONS
TOGETHER.
Because a man is physically stronger than a woman God commands the man to meet his woman in her home ground of Emotions through love (where she has the advantage). and because a woman is emotionally stronger than a man God commands the woman to meet her man in his home ground of Strength through submission (where he has the advantage) :

(Ephesians 5:22-33 New International Version (NIV) Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord...Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her)

Love makes a man emotionally vulnerable and submission makes a woman physically vulnerable. When a man loves a woman he puts himself at risk of emotional abuse and when a woman submits to a man she puts herself at risk of physical abuse. Both man and woman must voluntarily place themselves under the power of the other. Its a game of TRUST.

PHYSICAL SLAPS ARE EMOTIONAL PUNCHES.
Because a man is emotionally vulnerable in love and a woman physically vulnerable in submission; when a woman provokes her man or slaps him, she is inflicting the same level of damage to his EGO and emotions that her man's fist inflicts on her face when he punches her. its not that the Male Ego is fragile, but the woman's physical slap registers as an Emotional Punch whose damage cant be seen and happens on the inside.

only a woman can say the words that can break a man and make him cry or suicidal. Only a woman can build up or tear down a man. Not his boss. not his worst enemy. Not the devil. But the woman he loves. because he is exposed to her emotionally. she has his heart in her hands. and the damage her words can cause only God can see. Not the police. Not the courts. The police and the courts only see the damage of the Physical Punch on a woman's face. But they cant see the damage of the Emotional Punch on the man's ego that started everything.

Consequently all men are at a weaker position in all cases of Domestic Violence and Spousal Abuse, since there is no human instrument that measures provocation and emotional damage. The two things that a woman's slap causes.

when women say "No man must hit a woman no matter how much she provokes him" they dont understand that a Woman's Slap is an Emotional Punch. And like all punches it delivers damage. it doeasnt matter if that damage is seen or not. It's there.

Emotional Punches delivered via provocation or slaps are as much a betrayal of trust in a relationship as physical punches delivered via the fist are. and just as it takes a man of restraint and self-control to not hit his woman, it also takes a woman of restraint and self-control to not Provoke her man.

FIGHT EMOTIONS WITH EMOTIONS
and so the best way to respond to a woman slapping you is not to slap her back. Physical Strength is your domain and everyone will take the woman's side ("but you can't hit a woman" ) instead you walk out . spend the
night in a hotel. reject her food for a whole week. The point is to provoke her emotionally. Our society has been so pussified that not even self-defense can be a man's excuse for hitting a woman. so your best bet is to make the issue emotional by fighting emotionally not physically. Thats the best way you can do it. Emotions leave no scars anyone can see. Never lay a hand on her.

Use provocation against provocation.

Use what your provoker also uses; emotions. and she'll soon learn you are a Lion that never enters her Shark-infested Sea of Emotions by being emotional. Rather, you stay on dry land. untouched by her emotions and provocations. you dish out your own emotional
provocations YOU DON'T DISH OUT PUNCHES because YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY PROVOKED. there is a difference.

Now here is a guide on responses to emotional provocations:
- She slaps you, consider it an emotional punch and "emotional-punch" her back: refuse her food, spend nights in a hotel etc.
-She throws her drink at you; throw your drink at her. don't get emotional and hither. stay on dry Land
and provoke her back.
-she spits on your face; spit on her face too. don't get emotional and hit her. stay on dry Land
- she cusses.cuss back.don't get emotional and hit her.stay on dry land.
- she insults your mama, insult her mama back. Don't get emotional and hit her. Provoke her back.
- she cuts up your sneakers, cut up her sneakers as well. Don't get emotional and hit her. Stay on dry land.
-she throws your phone to the floor; throw her phone to the floor as well.don't get emotional and hit her.stay on dry Land. don't jump into the Sea. in other words DON'T BECOME EMOTIONAL.

I can go on forever...but you get the formula.

in all confrontations MIMIC WHAT SHE DOES because she does it all to provoke you emotionally NOT TO HURT YOU PHYSICALLY (if she wanted to hurt you physically she would have poisoned you or stabbed you). Now, by imitating her actions you stay on Land and refuse to jump into the Sea of emotions. even herself she didn't jump
on Land and become physical by punching you or stabbing you. she knows Physical Provocation of you is like a Shark going on Land to face a Lion. she doesn't stand a chance. So she provokes you emotionally. the Shark stays in the Sea and provokes from there, hoping the Lion will jump in and be torn to shreds. don't fall for that trap.

And the trap is this: A woman provokes you emotionally so you become EMOTIONAL and react PHYSICALLY, and do something stupid that you will regret. something she will forever hold over you as blackmail. to weaken you.

She will provoke you and you'll hit her then she'll take a pic of her battered face or will show a friend but immediately not do anything about it. Then one day (even 10 years later) when things go sour or she wanna arm-twist you on an issue she will bring out the incident as a trump card and prevail over you.

while men keep records of friendly conversations as proof in case they are accused of rape or abuse, women keep records of nasty incidents as proof in case they need to blackmail you. or fix you.

Be smart. Stay in control.

#TheRedPill
#MGTOW

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futurevizi:

nice write-up

JayIlych:
Nicely written and well worded.

But I want to bring a slight tweak, a small variation to what you said.
Slapping her back or throwing her phone on the ground too or spitting back on her is you playing into her hands.


Key here is UNPREDICTABILITY.

Don't be too simple to guess. If she knows that if she slaps you, you'll react this way or that, alas, you're in her hands.

On a fateful day, she slaps you, you might simply walk away.

If she does it again and again and you always play the gentleman and walk away, she knows you have a definite pattern and she can use it against you anytime she wants.

If you slap back and beat her and give her bruises, she knows what to expect and if she wants to frame you or set you up, she knows all she have to do is slap you and boom, you land in jail (in civilized countries).

Be unpredictable. Be like the ocean. Never being still. Unpredictable.

If she shows some unsavory attitude, you can decide to laugh heartily as if it's the best joke you've heard all your life(even if it hurts you to the bone marrows).


Believe me, she'll be put off balance and be scared.

Another time, you can walk away, give silent treatment, either cutting off communication totally or slightly.


Another you can bring out your inner tiger. Slap her back, beat her up savagely, rape her even (if you're masochistic and sadistic), just give her what she expects and a little more.


Keep her on the edge.


Women are simple but they try so hard to make themselves seem obscure and enigmatic.


Op, sorry if I'm deviating or if it seems I'm trying to take over your thread. Not my intention.

clapbest:
Your simply amazing op I must confess most of us read your post to note how nicely placed your words are and try to disect reality and what applies to our own immediate environment.


In all your good bro trusth me you deserve some accolades

emmy2807:
Ubunja i just came across your miseducation and i went back to read all your previous posts, some of them are no longer available, what could be the cause? Is there any way i could get to read them.
And please tag me in subsequent editions.

ubunja:
I will tag you.

I'm updating and re-posting all the removed posts. Worry not my friend.

emmy2807:


Keep up the good work bro. you liberated me men, or should i say you pre - informed me. i wasnt exactly a wussie but i was a nice guy, i alwjays knew that something was missing with my conduct around women, reading your post helped me find it.
my question now is can i change females that already know me as a nice guy perception about me? does that your post on "how you start with her, is how you end with her" applicable0 here? i look forward to your reply.

JESUSBOIY:
^^ ubunja, abeg do fast. I need your help,one bish is taking me for a ride.

Tombrown3:
Even I, am impressed

ImaIma1:
A piece by Ubunja that I actually like. Nice one

MissRaine69:
You can get your sh*t together when you want to! Good read if only emotional intelligence was rampant especially on this forum.

ubunja:
you are one of the few ladies on NL I know who don't hate me too much

But you only like it coz it's discouraging men from knocking your teeth out hey

ImaIma1:


Lol I am just one that says what I feel without mincing words or trying to suck up to anyone.

I like the piece because for once, it was void of your perceived hatred for women