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hahn:


I am just pointing it out to you that it's the law and it is legal in Nigeria. From my research Nigeria has the lowest age of consent in the world.

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Dharniel:


If I had rape in mind, I wouldn't come to this platform and besides I'm not a pervert neither am I a pedophile.
I can surely control myself...

Ishilove:

You are quite immature. You should the wiser one but you have brought yourself down to her level. You did not know where to draw the line, to the extent you were even gossiping about your other students with her. You're no longer her teacher, you are now her boyfriend.

Agbaya buruku, no one needs to tell you what to do. You know deep in your heart how to make everything right again.

SweetBuns:

Go and sleep with a girl aged 11-17 years and watch how Nigerians will disgrace you

Dharniel:


Ishilove, nah me you finish like this. haba, ��‍♂��‍♂��‍♂��‍♂��‍♂��‍♂��‍♂

SweetBuns:

So you're now telling me that if you give birth to a girl child and she clocks 11 or beyond, you'll let her have sex up and down?
Use you head please

Dharniel:
It all started about a year ago, I'm a 25 year old teacher in a secondary school and she's one of my ss3 student. There was this boy in her class who made advances towards her and she decided to report the issue to me. She requested I warned the boy to stay off her tail and I did just that. Then it all began, she became my friend on Facebook and began chatting almost on a daily basis after school, initially there was no feelings at all but I do enjoy her company online. She later summoned courage to request for my WhatsApp number and the chatting migrated from Facebook to WhatsApp. All we talked about was school and studies and sometimes we talked about the relationship life of other students (her classmates). It got to a stage I couldn't do without chatting with her but sometimes I do pretend I'm not enjoying her company. I made sure I never initiated the chat on a daily basis just trying not to be forward and besides I'm the teacher, she's the student. Lately I discovered, I've been so emotionally attached to her. Because of her I decided not to use Cain anymore in her class, cuz I can't stand flogging her. And by the way the feeling is mutual, I'm certain about that. I just don't really know what to do. I haven't done anything stupid but I can do any moment from now. And please before you judge me, I know this kind of relationship is wrong cuz she's underage and it's a teacher-student relationship. It's a kind of relationship that is frowned at. I'm not irresponsible as I don't flirt with students and I don't womanise normally. But I just love this girl. So please Nairaland, what should I do?

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olab059:


The bolded is one of the reasons why a student-teacher relationship is a NO NO. I ain't a saint, but bro, you have to stop the interaction with her, it is wrong. The reason why you developed feelings for her is because you started spending too much time talking/chatting with her. What you have to do now is the opposite. Act fast before this gets you in trouble. She might be a great person to chat with, but she is your student, and also still young in the mind (even if she has an adult's body). She might soon do something that would make people know you guys have something going, and trust me, you don't want that.

mhisbliss:
This is so funny, you sound like your mind is made up, but the reality is, wether you womanize or not, let her be, she's a Minor and she has a long way to go, don't introduce her to something like this because of one selfish yeye feelings you're having, you're not inlove with her, you're inlove with something else and we both know what it is.

Yoyinoye19:
I don't knw y every one is talking nonsense here, having feelings for 16years old girl is not a crime anywhere, and love is not all abt sex. My brother, u can go for ur love, just make sure she love u too, and try to wait for her, by doing this u can win her over. And in the next two years she is good to go. Most importantly is dat u care for her and love her. For those dat saying is under age, many girls out there below 16 has already disvirgin, d world we are now is quite diff. My brother pls make sure u don't rubbish her, guide and wait for her till u can have her. Then let her know u love her.

hahn:




Individuals aged 10 or younger in Nigeria are not legally able to consent to sexual activity, and such activity may result in prosecution for statutory rape or the equivalent local law. Nigeria statutory rape law is violated when an individual has consensual sexual contact with a person under age 11.

www.ageofconsent.net/world/nigeria

Dharniel:


I've had a lot of backlash on this thread, but only you and a few tends to understand my plight. I'll do as I'm adviced, I'll cut off all forms of online communication and keep my distance.
Thanks...

Biglittlelois:



And if we should find out the group of lawyers, Judges or whoever that made the stupid law, they'll be from the north, just to satisfy their paedophilic tendencies, dolts.

hahn:


Yeah. Most likely

Basically paedophilia is legal in our country and the same people will shout and fight against homosexuality

Partnerbiz3:


This is a wrong piece of advice.

No amorous relationship should exist between a teacher and his student, especially a minor at that.

It's not condoned.

In fact some employers don't allows relationships between co workers.

Again, the guy has no dignity or integrity.

I don't even talk to teenage university girls let alone a secondary school 16 year old.


Learn to give yourself some modicum of respect.