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Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by Newboss(m): 7:26pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
mhisbliss: So you still believe talking settles things? What about I fūck your best friend or slap you or slam you or just insist on fūcking your anus, then you get mad and we talk about it? I keep doing it, and we keep talking about it. I love that! Just for you as a lady, talking about something changes nothing about the guy. Every human has a will. You either oppress them enough to align with your own will, or you align with their own will. There's no other way. Back then, women were taught to conform to the man's will (she has no say except he gives him one). That sounds nice until you hear the kinda long list of shìt a man can put a woman through because he likes those shìt. It's the life of the slave. You're lucky if you get a nice slave master. Your mum definitely was. Guess what, back then, the man didn't have to be lucky because it was a man's world when it came to marriage. The equation is balancing, all thanks to those crazy feminists, but it's like you want to keep talking while the man keeps fūcking. Talking changes nothing when it comes to two adults. I guess it only changes your impression thereby moving the doomsday to another day. Just hope the day doesn't come . 2 Likes |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by mhisbliss(f): 7:34pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Newboss:My mum definitely was? Now i regret replying you, enjoy the rest of your day. |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by MhizzAJ(f): 3:32am On Jan 29, 2019 |
marvin906: And u decided to mention me ehn...LOL |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by marvin906(m): 6:43am On Jan 29, 2019 |
MhizzAJ: since Mohammed won't come to the mountain the mountain has to come to Mohammed.. mi amore you ditched me clap for yourself
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Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by Martin0(m): 10:09pm On Jan 29, 2019 |
mhisbliss: wait ee, be asking like you don't know what I'm saying? who be that babe wey dey ur dp, na u? |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by mhisbliss(f): 12:13am On Jan 30, 2019 |
Martin0:Ya, thats me, you haven't seen me before? |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by daveP(m): 1:55am On Jan 30, 2019 |
mhisbliss:Lol, u telling her? I'll take the olden days. 70yrs, 35,40... anniversaries and all with very strong, sometimes evil challenges all thru the marriage and they both do scale thru and survived? Cmon!! Tell me what the knowledge of the modernists is doing these days? We Africans without The Knowledge had longer marriages. Infact its the same for the whites as well. So this isnt even a matter of whites are better. Its the times that have changed!! Many older days couples had miscarriages, stillbirths that ladies of nowadays cant even fathom atall. They were hard working and the absence of The Knowledge wasn't a detriment, rather it was a blessing. All a couple wants was to be strong despite alll, any challenges that come their way. Yeah some of these homes weren't that happy, but it survived. The men also knew when to apologize to their wives, etc. But now the term "irreconciable differences" (whatever that means) has broken more homes than a bulldozer would to 1000cartons of glass plates. Some rather pray for a longer marriage, alongside with the toughness of skin to be able to go thru it, than have all the stupid knowledge and be unable to survive some lil storm before parting in the name of divorce, miserability. Some may say its archaic, but they wont really get it. Some granpas saw infidelity and still stayed. Some women heard rumor of their husband having a wife somewhere else, yeah the anger was the same, if not worse(we know most of them went very diabolic) wo, we can't have the cake again after eating it. Neither can you expect eggs to be intact after placing it all in one basket. The whites even have this tradition of telling the younger ones about to wed the history of their old ones with longer marriages. E no help ba? |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by daveP(m): 2:03am On Jan 30, 2019 |
Tamarapetty:Some of those marriages sef no pass backyard attendance, but they lasted. Nowadays, the setup and planning seen on IG from when she wear gown to when she enter car to when he enter church to when FOB bring her come altar and his excitement at seeing her, etc, one would think it was heaven that was the venue. But when reality checks up.....hmmm i think its has to do with some of us nowadays that don't wana believe marraige is not telemundo or telenovela. Some have this fixed image of fantasy of what marriage is and its affects the psyche. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by daveP(m): 2:16am On Jan 30, 2019 |
For those bringing up the abuse to women stuff, I'm not saying it didn't happen. but do you know the men of nowadays are much more romantic, greek-otic, and sparta-tic than most of our oldies, but it's still with them the alarming divorce records stick with? We aren't saying those days were perfect. No marriage is gonna be perfect. Infact marriage is the merging of two heads that contain 3billion complex cells that are perfectly functionly daily and if cell fusion were to happen, it would require thousands of years the natural way. They told us the first few years aren't rosy. Bet you, after 2yrs, we hear divorce. The union hasn't even settled yet. What caused it? Mind you the mouth of women were sharper way back then than now...(still contestable sha ) Who wana go on a journey without preparing? Two imperfections coming to be one without planning for losing small and winning small once in a while. Two Imperfections not ready to accept the flaws of the other, so cos we "deserve better"(of course we all do), we end up in court. well, planning isn't just about the finances and the number of kids. well wetin i sabi sef. its coming soon. |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by Martin0(m): 7:14am On Jan 30, 2019 |
mhisbliss: eheh, never seen you before oo you don't look bad sha |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by mhisbliss(f): 8:27am On Jan 30, 2019 |
Martin0:Lol you don't look bad sha sounds like a pity compliment and i know how nairalanders behave, I'll not say thank you. |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by mhisbliss(f): 8:30am On Jan 30, 2019 |
daveP:Couldn't have said it any better, this is what i was trying to tell that guy before he concluded my mum endured an abusive marriage, since i can't let one faceless prick disrespect my family i had to cut it short, you never learn from arguing with people like him. |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by Martin0(m): 12:03pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
mhisbliss:hahahahaha abeg oooo see dont think like that jor ok you re beautiful |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by mhisbliss(f): 12:10pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Martin0:Now i can say thanks. |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by Martin0(m): 12:15pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
mhisbliss:mehn wait wait ummm see packages lefulefu abeg come see this babe dp oo i sure you go like her |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by mhisbliss(f): 12:35pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Martin0:He has seen me before unless he's not an old timer. |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by Martin0(m): 2:32pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
mhisbliss:eheh na wa oo |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by aigbekan111: 2:59pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Modern days are the best ooooo...... See what husband did to his wife i think this will make you feel bad......... So i bumped into this story on IG, on Joro's timeline to be precise. I was touched. I read and saw a woman in pains. Some were laughing but I saw pains. Read; Uncle joro God bless you for the good work u r doing to our relationships Pls hide my identity Happy new year This is my first time writing to you I can't believe what I heard today. I had a son for him oct Since then I've been avoiding cex I was actually scared of pains So finally I summoned courage to do it 2nights ago After 2rounds I wanted more but my husband was like he's.......... https://www.worldgistentertainment.com/2019/01/husband-said-my-honepot-stinks-today.html
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Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Here's the possible outcome of this thread : Men will support the olden days marriage because of the power and benefits it gave them Women will support the Modern day marriage because of the freedom it gives them. That shows Women never benefited from olden days marriage, men are suffering from modern day marriages. It's simply pay back 1 Like |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
most ppl who engage in arranged marriage tend to cheat on their partner codedly. |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by Nobody: 6:24pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
MariaLavina:not all guys .i can never be a party to arranged marriage .its always better ppl marry who they like so there will be happiness and peace in dat marriage |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Martin0:na u come mk me check d dp yea d melons set |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by MISEDUCATIONS: 6:54pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
virgoquin:totally agreed |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by MISEDUCATIONS: 6:58pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
MariaLavina:freedom to do what exactly? Divorce.? |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by Martin0(m): 7:20am On Jan 31, 2019 |
lefulefu: omo she set ooo 1 Like |
Re: Which Is Better Between Olden Days Marriage And Modern Day Marriage? by godofuck231: 4:09pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
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