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Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by itiswellandwell: 8:26am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Karidqueen: Got one for sale but it's in Lagos. |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Nobody: 8:27am On Jan 31, 2019 |
She don't want to work yet |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Dreew(f): 8:28am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Hilarious. Before I left my former employer, I gave a month notice as was required. Prior to that, I had notified my MD privately that I wanted to leave. He talked me out of it, following which I stayed 4 months before tendering officially. I actually took the opportunity that he was out of the country to do that. Well, mgt notified him of my intention, he flew back the following day. When he realized I had made up my mind, he was definitely hurt and said some cruel things for up to an hour, if not more. Na wa o. This was on top say I give notice o. On getting home, I started to contemplate whether to give them a shocker by leaving abruptly, so I took along with me to work the next day all company property ie phone, ID and such. When I got to work, I began clearing my desk and all of that. My subordinate came to me to sign a doc as was customary and pass same on for recommendation to the co-founder of the company (she has equal authority as the MD. You can call her MD2). When the doc got to her, she directed my then sub to reproduce the doc, bypass my recommendation and bring directly to her. That broke the camel's back for me. As someone who has zero tolerance for BS, I gave former sub one or two instructions, codedly told her I was leaving right then. She wasn't to tell anyone, I told her. When MD1 heard I had left, I got a call from him where I was to explain why I left. In his words, I absconded. In my head I'm thinking, "that one no concern me". As a frank person, I told him I left because, "MD bypassed my recommendation". He said I was hasty concluding and tried to get me back, but I gave an excuse of being out of town, that I'd answer any questions or concerns over the phone or WhatsApp. Employers want to treat you like shit. But you gotta respect yourself and appreciate your worth. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by benebaby77: 8:28am On Jan 31, 2019 |
haywire07: I had actually tried in 2017, though I accepted the offer and resigned later. And I never regretted it. I will stick to a job that pays 80k per month and give me peace of mind than the one paying 250 - 300k per month come with a lot of stress, downgrading, abuse, insults, and make one feel useless.... 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by boxypane(m): 8:29am On Jan 31, 2019 |
ValCon888:Oga, we have pride, self respect and dignity over here. 9 Likes |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Mariangeles(f): 8:30am On Jan 31, 2019 |
ValCon888:Kuku say you be Olosho period ! Gigolo ! 5 Likes |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by respectk(f): 8:32am On Jan 31, 2019 |
never feel inferior..... Thumbs up girl 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Uglymugg: 8:32am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Web Applications UK page on Twitter is blowing up. The comments are just savagery. |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Mariangeles(f): 8:34am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Karidqueen:Tell her the truth and buy her a new one, I'm sure she'd understand than being lied to . 1 Like |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Psoul(m): 8:36am On Jan 31, 2019 |
I hate abusive interviewer. What if the interviewer was trying to test her ability to work under stress or in odd situations? Probably she passed the interviewer test on that. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by umarshehu58(m): 8:37am On Jan 31, 2019 |
ValCon888:You ain't a girl that's why you are talking trash 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by daddyfreeman1(m): 8:40am On Jan 31, 2019 |
ValCon888:be delivered in Jesus name.. Shout Ameeeen. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Nobody: 8:41am On Jan 31, 2019 |
I admire her. I too have done similar in the past. Most times we forget that we spend more time in our jobs ( offices) than we do with our families. So if the office environment is not conducive or toxic then things like depression and ill health start creeping in. I also understand that in a situation like we have in Nigeria where jobs are difficult to come by, such a decision will look foolish. At the end of the day it's your happiness that counts. Know thyself 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Nobody: 8:43am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Interesting, she did the right thing, never work for a bully !! 1 Like |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Nobody: 8:44am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Karidqueen:10k |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by ogmask: 8:45am On Jan 31, 2019 |
umarshehu58: What is it about being a girl and not being a girl. Noticed how she carefully mentioned her being " a young lady" several times in her letter. My point is the interviewer could have done same to just anybody depending or what he was looking for. From her letter, I feel she exaggerated the whole thing considering that she said her ex was abusive. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Chimonie(m): 8:49am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Good she didn't take the job. Why make her feel worthless and still give her the job? Same way she will be treated if after taking the job and makes a slight mistake. This is the case when working especially with the Irish. |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by baghdad01(m): 8:53am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Women always planning the victim! We dont wanna read about your past relationships. You could have been the abuser! This victim playing narrrative is getting boring and trite! Stay home and nurse your wounds. We are not interested. 7 Likes |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:00am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Stupid Girl. None of that probably ever happened. Had there not been others in the room. Perhaps she’d have thrown rape in the mix. There no single concrete thing mentioned in the open letter. |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by gazmann(m): 9:00am On Jan 31, 2019 |
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Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by GeorgeTheCoder: 9:01am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Dreew: Agreed. You have to know your worth and be prepared to walk away if the time and /or conditions are right. Last year I turned down a job at an oil company that wanted to pay me a nice salary but 1/10 of what my (expatriate) colleagues some of whom were ranked below me were earning. Thank you, but no and f..k you. I refuse to become a second class citizen in my own country, go look for someone else to do that. Nigerians generally have no sense of dignity and worship money too much 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Dreew(f): 9:04am On Jan 31, 2019 |
GeorgeTheCoder: Haha. Touché! |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by PeacenLove2: 9:06am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Dreew: Very true. Very true. Take your destiny in your hands. They will definitely test you to see what type you are. You play into their hands, they will make you their b?,.%$! for as long as you are there. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by bkool7(m): 9:07am On Jan 31, 2019 |
ValCon888: ...while getting laid |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by PeacenLove2: 9:09am On Jan 31, 2019 |
GeorgeTheCoder: 100% correct. It is perplexing to see how the love for money has taken over the hearts of our people. And how we fail to have self-love and worth. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Dreew(f): 9:14am On Jan 31, 2019 |
PeacenLove2: That's right |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Kolping: 9:16am On Jan 31, 2019 |
3 things to do when leaving a job, and 1 thing you should never do https://medium.com/@aceferrell/3-things-to-do-when-leaving-a-job-and-1-thing-you-should-never-do-6fd290666073 |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Funkybabee(f): 9:19am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Foolish employer, what did they mean by that before, I cannot tolerate such poo also unless am on it already and love the conditions but during the interview. never |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by FKMagazine(m): 9:25am On Jan 31, 2019 |
ValCon888: you must be a mad dog |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by jaszplus12(m): 9:27am On Jan 31, 2019 |
As a lover of freedom of expression and hate being victimized or looked down on I'd also walked out of a job because my oyibo oga felt I should be his puppet...I collected my pay check and casually jaywalked after I'd told him I wouldn't apologize for choosing to do what I knew was right... he'd made a mistake and wanted to hang it on anyone... 5 years later...I get another opportunity and boy I made the new set of oyibos know my stand and will from the onset and by the Almighty God I'm having a really great time working... Just be your own person and never let anyone get you down...that's the neo-colonialism we read about in the papers! 1 Like |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Dreew(f): 9:32am On Jan 31, 2019 |
femi4: I've been on such panel before and I got the job. There were 9 of them including the MD. It was like holding a conference. I got to know later the rest of them were very irrelevant. Well not so much as they were the HR, GM, Dept Heads and External Auditor. But irrelevant as to the decision making process because, well, as I made to leave, MD asked me, "how soon can you start?" 1 Like |
Re: Lady Writes To Her “Brutal” Employer Shortly After Securing The Job (Photo) by Hoodbilonia: 9:43am On Jan 31, 2019 |
story too long europe wit america like paper work and story no time to dey read epistles abegi |
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