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Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by MummyIMadeIt: 9:09am On Feb 06, 2019
I have been given to thoughts lately, and it seems the society today is becoming cooler with the "Baby Daddy/Mama" euphemism.

I really would love to know the rationale behind such decision in choosing to become a Baby Daddy/ Mama aside from the common belief of thinking it gives one freedom.

If such is true, then won't it be so selfish of you to decide the fate of the unborn, by breeding Bastards as kids.

Seriously Do you know the pains a child goes through whilst been associated with the term "BASTARD" all day long.

It's quite disheartening.

If you want to be irresponsible then do it good and Don't subjugate the fate of others by bringing to earth poor little Bastards.

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Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Nobody: 9:12am On Feb 06, 2019
It is swag for black people.
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by MummyIMadeIt: 9:16am On Feb 06, 2019
Admin401:
It is swag for black people.

The blacks' need complete re-orientation, if that's the submission..

Even the Western culture we claim to copy have limitations to these and consider the rights and behavioural settings of the unborn kids.

Sometimes I just wonder what the likes of

AirForce1 et all,. All see in this charade hence endangering the status of the innocent kids breed by them.
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Nobody: 9:18am On Feb 06, 2019
MummyIMadeIt:


The blacks' need complete re-orientation, if that's the submission..

Even the Western culture we claim to copy have limitations to these and consider the rights and behavioural settings of the unborn kids.

Sometimes I just wonder what the likes of

AirForce1 et all,. All see in this charade hence endangering the status of the innocent kids breed by them.
I wonder who started this whole baby mama fiasco... oh wait! Celebrities made it the new 'happening' thing. And women decided it was 'cooler' to be a baby mama than a wife. YOu know women like anything that is trending. Anything just to feel among.

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Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by MummyIMadeIt: 9:47am On Feb 06, 2019
Admin401:
I wonder who started this whole baby mama fiasco... oh wait! Celebrities made it the new 'happening' thing. And women decided it was 'cooler' to be a baby mama than a wife. YOu know women like anything that is trending. Anything just to feel among.

Women always tend to nosedive at every silly thing called "Trend", but should the blame go to them alone?

No! The men, Moral institutions(Churches, Mosques), leaders (Religious, Government), and even the societal groups have all contributed their own part to these absurd trend.

Do you know that these had contributed more to population explosion in the country, and If left unchecked could hamper the growth of the nation's economy.

I propose that the government need to sway into these ugly trend and find a way of curbing these to minimum, if properly handled could raise the IGR and create employment for teaming youths wondering the streets, thus getting them Engaged properly.

Achieving this isn't a problem but the self will.
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by jorion(m): 10:25am On Feb 06, 2019
MummyIMadeIt:


Women always tend to nosedive at every silly thing called "Trend", but should the blame go to them alone?

No! The men, Moral institutions(Churches, Mosques), leaders (Religious, Government), and even the societal groups have all contributed their own part to these absurd trend.

Do you know that these had contributed more to population explosion in the country, and If left unchecked could hamper the growth of the nation's economy.

I propose that the government need to sway into these ugly trend and find a way of curbing these to minimum, if properly handled could raise the IGR and create employment for teaming youths wondering the streets, thus getting them Engaged properly.

Achieving this isn't a problem but the self will.

Of course, why would women take responsibility for anything. It is always somehow the man's fault
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Headlesschicken(m): 1:51pm On Feb 06, 2019
undecided That's d world we now live in,I knew that dix Indomie was d end and of humanity... I just knew it

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Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by ubunja(f): 2:01pm On Feb 06, 2019
Only desperate men become Step Fathers.
Men of value with options never stoop that low

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Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Quality20(m): 4:46pm On Feb 06, 2019
I want believe that all those baby mama n baby daddy breeding bastarrds are themselves super bastarrds
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by ednut1(m): 5:30pm On Feb 06, 2019
MummyIMadeIt:
I have been given to thoughts lately, and it seems the society today is becoming cooler with the "Baby Daddy/Mama" euphemism.

I really would love to know the rationale behind such decision in choosing to become a Baby Daddy/ Mama aside from the common belief of thinking it gives one freedom.

If such is true, then won't it be so selfish of you to decide the fate of the unborn, by breeding Bastards as kids.

Seriously Do you know the pains a child goes through whilst been associated with the term "BASTARD" all day long.

It's quite disheartening.

If you want to be irresponsible then do it good and Don't subjugate the fate of others by bringing to earth poor little Bastards.
does being raised by a father and a mother mean u will make it or not No. Widows have raised many great men alone havent they
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by marvin906(m): 5:38pm On Feb 06, 2019
it's the norm of our society now.. buh honestly sometimes neither the man/woman is to blame .. something's are just inevitable

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Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Amakavula(f): 5:51pm On Feb 06, 2019
Ladies -- including me -- would rather cry over a high value man then seek love and comfort with a faithful loser... it's sad but we can't help it. That's why Davido baby Mama's or Whizkids aren't moving on. Even the First Baby Mama from Davido rejected a honest proposal from a great guy.

That's the way life have been, the strongest , the richest and the most powerful had harems of women, while the slaves and poor had nothing.

Christianity came to make everything equal, and introduce monogamy to allow poor suckers breed and have children. The effect of this minor rule couldn't be over emphasized. It made sure women went round -- and every man poor or rich is garanteed a wife, having very little incentives for rape or violence-- but as society advanced and those Christan values become loose society is returning to what it was , Physical/ resource Polygamy.

Again ladies are clutters around high value men ( some people called them Alphas) and there characteristics Haven changed much.

Social proof : Admired by everyone ( Kings, wrestlers) now Musicians, Footballers etc..
Community power : Can get things done, or control people.
Access to Material resources : Money ( yams, cars, etc )

That is why Whizkid, 2Face, Davido and Others could breed so recklessly while the average Njoku , Bola and Ahmed on Nairaland is alone and depressed and bitter against Nigerian Ladies.

Ask yourself why Rape is now prevalent in our society ? not justifying it, it is an henious crime but there was a study by The Economist on how polygamy societies are much more violent than monogamy society because Lower value men now have nothing to lose so choose to take sex by force. Case study was in South Sudan.

The definition of an High value man hasn't change only filtered through media physically.

No , nothing can be done. Society will run its course until a more powerful force comes to Change everything. wink
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by ubunja(f): 5:56pm On Feb 06, 2019
Amakavula:
Ladies -- including me -- would rather cry over a high value man then seek love and comfort with a faithful loser... it's sad but we can't help it. That's why Davido baby Mama's or Whizkids aren't moving on. Even the First Baby Mama from Davido rejected a honest proposal from a great guy.

That's the way life have been, the strongest , the richest and the most powerful had harems of women, while the slaves and poor had nothing.

Christianity came to make everything equal, and introduce monogamy to allow poor suckers breed and have children. The effect of this minor rule couldn't be over emphasized. It made sure women went round -- and every man poor or rich is garanteed a wife, having very little incentives for rape or violence-- but as society advanced and those Christan values become loose society is returning to what it was , Physical/ resource Polygamy.

Again ladies are clutters around high value men ( some people called them Alphas) and there characteristics Haven changed much.

Social proof : Admired by everyone ( Kings, wrestlers) now Musicians, Footballers etc..
Community power : Can get things done, or control people.
Access to Material resources : Money ( yams, cars, etc )

That is why Whizkid, 2Face, Davido and Others could breed so recklessly while the average Njoku , Bola and Ahmed on Nairaland is alone and depressed and bitter against Nigerian Ladies.

Ask yourself why Rape is now prevalent in our society ? not justifying it, it is an henious crime but there was a study by The Economist on how polygamy societies are much more violent than monogamy society because Lower value men now have nothing to lose so choose to take sex by force. Case study was in South Sudan.

The definition of an High value man hasn't change only filtered through media physically.

No , nothing can be done. Society will run its course until a more powerful force comes to Change everything. wink
Sealed Signed Delivered.

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Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by MummyIMadeIt: 6:51pm On Feb 06, 2019
Headlesschicken:
undecided That's d world we now live in,I knew that dix Indomie was d end and of humanity... I just knew it

Indeed this world has lost its core values...
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by MummyIMadeIt: 6:53pm On Feb 06, 2019
marvin906:
it's the norm of our society now..
buh honestly sometimes neither the man/woman is to blame ..
something's are just inevitable

Honestly must we become a bangwagoner just to go with the flow?
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by MummyIMadeIt: 7:02pm On Feb 06, 2019
Amakavula:
Ladies -- including me -- would rather cry over a high value man then seek love and comfort with a faithful loser... it's sad but we can't help it. That's why Davido baby Mama's or Whizkids aren't moving on. Even the First Baby Mama from Davido rejected a honest proposal from a great guy.

That's the way life have been, the strongest , the richest and the most powerful had harems of women, while the slaves and poor had nothing.

Christianity came to make everything equal, and introduce monogamy to allow poor suckers breed and have children. The effect of this minor rule couldn't be over emphasized. It made sure women went round -- and every man poor or rich is garanteed a wife, having very little incentives for rape or violence-- but as society advanced and those Christan values become loose society is returning to what it was , Physical/ resource Polygamy.

Again ladies are clutters around high value men ( some people called them Alphas) and there characteristics Haven changed much.

Social proof : Admired by everyone ( Kings, wrestlers) now Musicians, Footballers etc..
Community power : Can get things done, or control people.
Access to Material resources : Money ( yams, cars, etc )

That is why Whizkid, 2Face, Davido and Others could breed so recklessly while the average Njoku , Bola and Ahmed on Nairaland is alone and depressed and bitter against Nigerian Ladies.

Ask yourself why Rape is now prevalent in our society ? not justifying it, it is an henious crime but there was a study by The Economist on how polygamy societies are much more violent than monogamy society because Lower value men now have nothing to lose so choose to take sex by force. Case study was in South Sudan.

The definition of an High value man hasn't change only filtered through media physically.

No , nothing can be done. Society will run its course until a more powerful force comes to Change everything. wink

Must everything be centered on you? You claim to be a lady, and oh boy you really had to go far to show how selfish a Being you are.

Do you know one of the greatest insult one can ever recieve since time immemorial is been called a BASTARD?

Have you ever thought of the person's(children) who suffers from this psychological torment been fueled by the society?

If you were tagged a Bastard, honestly how would you feel?

Some may have made it ok, but how was life for them?

So many questions left to be answered, but again you would be selfish enough to think about urself.


Woman!
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by MummyIMadeIt: 7:05pm On Feb 06, 2019
ednut1:
does being raised by a father and a mother mean u will make it or not No. Widows have raised many great men alone havent they

Now I am not talking about measuring success, instead am concerned on the eternal trauma poised by been labeled a BASTARD.

Again Widows were never Bastards.
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Nobody: 7:27pm On Feb 06, 2019
Ask yourself why Rape is now prevalent in our society ? not justifying it, it is an henious crime but there was a study by The Economist on how polygamy societies are much more violent than monogamy society because Lower value men now have nothing to lose so choose to take sex by force. Case study was in South Sudan.[quote]

Amakavula, i do not agree with what you wrote. South Sudan is a bad example, that is a country in civil war so expect rape and killings, just like in syria, Afghanistan and Iraq

lets look at the statistics of rape crime in Saudi arabia a polygamist society and the US, monogamy society.

In 2002, sexual offences stood at 0.3 rapes per 100,000 population in saudi arabia while in the US in that same year it stood at 5.1 rapes per 100,000 population
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Nobody: 7:34pm On Feb 06, 2019
MummyIMadeIt:
I have been given to thoughts lately, and it seems the society today is becoming cooler with the "Baby Daddy/Mama" euphemism.

I really would love to know the rationale behind such decision in choosing to become a Baby Daddy/ Mama aside from the common belief of thinking it gives one freedom.

If such is true, then won't it be so selfish of you to decide the fate of the unborn, by breeding Bastards as kids.

Seriously Do you know the pains a child goes through whilst been associated with the term "BASTARD" all day long.

It's quite disheartening.

If you want to be irresponsible then do it good and Don't subjugate the fate of others by bringing to earth poor little Bastards.

99% of women who are baby mamas are either desperate women who wanna trap a man or from poor home trying to trap a well to do man.
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Nobody: 7:37pm On Feb 06, 2019
MummyIMadeIt:


Must everything be centered on you? You claim to be a lady, and oh boy you really had to go far to show how selfish a Being you are.

Do you know one of the greatest insult one can ever recieve since time immemorial is been called a BASTARD?

Have you ever thought of the person's(children) who suffers from this psychological torment been fueled by the society?

If you were tagged a Bastard, honestly how would you feel?

Some may have made it ok, but how was life for them?

So many questions left to be answered, but again you would be selfish enough to think about urself.


Woman!

dude she is a blogger trying to create attention, i dont even believe in anything she wrote, it is just unrealistic.
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:55pm On Feb 06, 2019
Amakavula:
Ladies -- including me -- would rather cry over a high value man then seek love and comfort with a faithful loser... it's sad but we can't help it. That's why Davido baby Mama's or Whizkids aren't moving on. Even the First Baby Mama from Davido rejected a honest proposal from a great guy.

That's the way life have been, the strongest , the richest and the most powerful had harems of women, while the slaves and poor had nothing.

Christianity came to make everything equal, and introduce monogamy to allow poor suckers breed and have children. The effect of this minor rule couldn't be over emphasized. It made sure women went round -- and every man poor or rich is garanteed a wife, having very little incentives for rape or violence-- but as society advanced and those Christan values become loose society is returning to what it was , Physical/ resource Polygamy.

Again ladies are clutters around high value men ( some people called them Alphas) and there characteristics Haven changed much.

Social proof : Admired by everyone ( Kings, wrestlers) now Musicians, Footballers etc..
Community power : Can get things done, or control people.
Access to Material resources : Money ( yams, cars, etc )

That is why Whizkid, 2Face, Davido and Others could breed so recklessly while the average Njoku , Bola and Ahmed on Nairaland is alone and depressed and bitter against Nigerian Ladies.

Ask yourself why Rape is now prevalent in our society ? not justifying it, it is an henious crime but there was a study by The Economist on how polygamy societies are much more violent than monogamy society because Lower value men now have nothing to lose so choose to take sex by force. Case study was in South Sudan.

The definition of an High value man hasn't change only filtered through media physically.

No , nothing can be done. Society will run its course until a more powerful force comes to Change everything. wink
... You nailed it.
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by MummyIMadeIt: 8:24pm On Feb 06, 2019
wetdick:


99% of women who are baby mamas are either desperate women who wanna trap a man or from poor home trying to trap a well to do man.

Hey Bloke u forgot to add the "average Nigerian Feminist" who sing out their desperation for been Single Parents. These class irritates the
H-O-M!
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Nobody: 8:35pm On Feb 06, 2019
MummyIMadeIt:


Hey Bloke u forgot to add the "average Nigerian Feminist" who sing out their desperation for been Single Parents. These class irritates the
H-O-M!

do not mind those women, they became feminist after having a bad affairs, some of them are unhappy and will do anything to trap a new man once they know he likes them so that he can take responsibility for their child.

I can't date a single mother especially when the father of her child is in the picture
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Whykay2323(f): 8:47pm On Feb 06, 2019
Did u people think it is easy to be a single mother? The problem always comes mostly from men which is not fair.
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Nobody: 8:50pm On Feb 06, 2019
Whykay2323:
Did u people think it is easy to be a single mother? The problem always comes mostly from men which is not fair.

how is it men fault, what is stopping a woman from telling her man to use condom.
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by MummyIMadeIt: 11:23am On Feb 07, 2019
Whykay2323:
Did u people think it is easy to be a single mother? The problem always comes mostly from men which is not fair.

Okay feel free to educate us on why you think its more of a masculine thing to feminine one, that people end up being a Single Parent.
Re: Why Breed Bastards? What's The Gain Of Being A Baby Daddy/mama by Nobody: 1:56pm On Feb 07, 2019
MummyIMadeIt:
I have been given to thoughts lately, and it seems the society today is becoming cooler with the "Baby Daddy/Mama" euphemism.

I really would love to know the rationale behind such decision in choosing to become a Baby Daddy/ Mama aside from the common belief of thinking it gives one freedom.

If such is true, then won't it be so selfish of you to decide the fate of the unborn, by breeding Bastards as kids.

Seriously Do you know the pains a child goes through whilst been associated with the term "BASTARD" all day long.

It's quite disheartening.

If you want to be irresponsible then do it good and Don't subjugate the fate of others by bringing to earth poor little Bastards.
U think everything is either black or white abi? Lol, u can go ahead and call every child born out of weeklock a bastard, its Ur business

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