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Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by Stanweezy(m): 3:11pm On Feb 10, 2019
I doubt if they all are Nigerian soldiers probably 1 or 2 pictures, Nigerian female soldiers I know are masculine and wogly only few amongs them look feminine.
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by KPOLOVIE(m): 3:40pm On Feb 10, 2019
I need a military lady to marry, but I hope, I won't be beaten every night and again I hate to frog jump.

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Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by KPOLOVIE(m): 3:41pm On Feb 10, 2019
I'll love to be with a military lady but not to be beaten and asked to frog jump on bed.
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by Fidelismaria: 4:45pm On Feb 10, 2019
grin grin grin

Who wan use hin money marry wetin go kill am

Lol

Any small tin you go dey hear you bloody civilian

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Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by Thegirlnextdoor: 4:54pm On Feb 10, 2019
Gbemishile1:
See fresh babes meeeeen
Why una no wan marry soldiers na?

I'm telling you
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by temitope23(m): 5:29pm On Feb 10, 2019
Gbemishile1:
Women in military are like ordinary women too, they have blood flowing through their veins and have needs which they long to see satiated. They go through many ordeals like ordinary people and are susceptible to pains too; they however, handle their pain better than most people out there would. Most men believe it is going out of bounds when you approach a military woman for advanced friendship.

They blow things out of proportion by thinking these women could beat them up any time or set them up peradventure they misbehave, it should however be noted, that dating a woman in the military is the same as dating any other woman. What depicts how far that friendship would go is the manner of approach and the ability to present oneself with an aura of dignity and gentility.

Below are some of the things you don’t know about women in the military.
Emotional
Women in the military have been trained to be brave and courageous. They are by profession fighters who have been toughened by various phases of trainings. However, the trainings they have gone through haven’t shielded them from the trauma accompanied by love. They have cravings too and desire fulfillment; they want to date and experience love in a beautiful way. The only problem is most men often feel intimidated by the personalities and avoid them
They Embrace Motherhood

While so many people share an unreal belief about military women being wrecks when it comes to marital bliss, some of them are married and they embrace motherhood with a shocking interest. They are after all normal and have all it takes to raise a family. They put everything they have into use to ensure their children live normal lives. They could be stern and instill discipline in their wards at tender ages. They are regular moms who strive hard to perform their motherly obligations.

Supportive

Most people believe military women are mean and therefore avoid them. They could be excellent friends when people get to know them more. Same way they could be tough and intimidating, they could also be fierce when it comes to fighting for their friends and loved ones.

Responsibilities

It is misconstrued when people think military women’s problems have been completely solved due to the financial security that comes with their appointment. Nevertheless, they have stacks of responsibilities that go beyond sorting with money. They get weighed down by the thoughts of the risks of their jobs, instability often brought by deployment, affairs that concern their children and spouses. With all these, they tend to vent and exhale; like everyone else. But people get sentimental and believe they are naturally aggressive.

Sexual Favors

Not every woman in the military sleeps around. Many people believe most women in the military are loose and have traded sexual favors for work favors. It is the general perception that there is a major somewhere rocking their boats. Some women in military have dignity and have been able to maintain healthy non-sexual relationships with their superiors thereby maintaining stability in their career.

Enduring Scrutiny

Unknown to the general public, women in military also fight different battles in their chosen profession. The military is still dominated by testosterone while the women struggle to fit in. Failure is always expected when they are given tasks as a result of gender discrimination. It is disheartening for them to know the public also scrutinize them by seeing them as a different entity.

Attacking The Mole

Women in military have had their fair share of failures in marriages just like the successes have been discussed. The fundamental problem has still not been addressed. Seeing the women in uniform is a turn on for some men. They appreciate their bravery and get infatuated. At the long run, broken homes and relationships aren’t inevitable. The whole blame is mostly put on the women oblivious to the fact that the military indoctrination didn’t break the relationship.

Are men ready to give up their job security and pack up when the women get deployed?

Shey male soldiers don finish for barracks?
I cannot come and kill myself.

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Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by Babacele: 5:59pm On Feb 10, 2019
lols.....female soldiers are human beings naa, and just like every normal beings in love , understanding and smooth communication keep the marriage engine running effectively..This is 21st Century where stupid or selfish cultures,prejudices , and stereotypes are giving way.
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by Buffalo2(m): 6:25pm On Feb 10, 2019
This gels don suffer. By the time they are gallivanting upandan beating and slapping innocent pple they didn't know. Now pple are avoiding them like plagues, they are "crying"........... Sorry ooo....... They day I developed more hatred was when they beat one guy for complementing one of the them for her beauty.... Onpe!

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Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by matteecco(m): 6:59pm On Feb 10, 2019
I need female soldier friend
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by samlake(m): 7:49pm On Feb 10, 2019
Military women, oya drop ya number...
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by promzy15(m): 8:36pm On Feb 10, 2019
I to is looking for a caring army lady
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by chigoizie7(m): 8:39pm On Feb 10, 2019
abeg make dem dey thier lane joor.



u will have a small misunderstanding with your wife, the next thing you will hear na full battalion for ur house to panel.
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by SmellingAnus(m): 9:19pm On Feb 10, 2019
Jaqenhghar:

The fact that you are thinking of it shows thay the village people are succeding grin
hahahahaha na true o but I don overcome them

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Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by ktmoore: 9:54pm On Feb 10, 2019
Oma307:
I don dey look for military lady to date but the one wey I no date na police lady
I met a very pretty lady.... I even took her out... Just to have my fear buds bursted when I asked her what she does after taking her to Genesis cinema: the answer was I'm n the military : I bluntly told her " Ahh I am afraid o, I wanted to date you but I really cannot " dropped her off at the barracks and sharply drove off... She call tire
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by Nobody: 10:03pm On Feb 10, 2019
Marry wetin, man dey marry man for Nigeria?

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Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by myseyf(m): 10:36pm On Feb 10, 2019
I have never had the thought to marry a uniform lady, but Ummm... What is the use of their male counterpart? Shouldn't they be marrying each other alone?

Why should we do the job for them after corrupting these female officers?

At least they'll know how to manage themselves and settle family issues without one party using military advantage against the other.

I don't understand why any military lady will want a bloody civilian like myself to marry her. And beside, I have heard a lot of terrible things they do in the barracks. Very terrible things!

They shouldn't drag us civilians into their affairs abeg. Uniform people should wed each other alone and civilians should be with civilians. That how it should be and everyone will be happy.

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Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by acedsportsng: 11:21pm On Feb 10, 2019
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Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by Donjazzy12(m): 3:14am On Feb 11, 2019
Gbemishile1:
Women in military are like ordinary women too, they have blood flowing through their veins and have needs which they long to see satiated. They go through many ordeals like ordinary people and are susceptible to pains too; they however, handle their pain better than most people out there would. Most men believe it is going out of bounds when you approach a military woman for advanced friendship.

They blow things out of proportion by thinking these women could beat them up any time or set them up peradventure they misbehave, it should however be noted, that dating a woman in the military is the same as dating any other woman. What depicts how far that friendship would go is the manner of approach and the ability to present oneself with an aura of dignity and gentility.

Below are some of the things you don’t know about women in the military.
Emotional
Women in the military have been trained to be brave and courageous. They are by profession fighters who have been toughened by various phases of trainings. However, the trainings they have gone through haven’t shielded them from the trauma accompanied by love. They have cravings too and desire fulfillment; they want to date and experience love in a beautiful way. The only problem is most men often feel intimidated by the personalities and avoid them
They Embrace Motherhood

While so many people share an unreal belief about military women being wrecks when it comes to marital bliss, some of them are married and they embrace motherhood with a shocking interest. They are after all normal and have all it takes to raise a family. They put everything they have into use to ensure their children live normal lives. They could be stern and instill discipline in their wards at tender ages. They are regular moms who strive hard to perform their motherly obligations.

Supportive

Most people believe military women are mean and therefore avoid them. They could be excellent friends when people get to know them more. Same way they could be tough and intimidating, they could also be fierce when it comes to fighting for their friends and loved ones.

Responsibilities

It is misconstrued when people think military women’s problems have been completely solved due to the financial security that comes with their appointment. Nevertheless, they have stacks of responsibilities that go beyond sorting with money. They get weighed down by the thoughts of the risks of their jobs, instability often brought by deployment, affairs that concern their children and spouses. With all these, they tend to vent and exhale; like everyone else. But people get sentimental and believe they are naturally aggressive.

Sexual Favors

Not every woman in the military sleeps around. Many people believe most women in the military are loose and have traded sexual favors for work favors. It is the general perception that there is a major somewhere rocking their boats. Some women in military have dignity and have been able to maintain healthy non-sexual relationships with their superiors thereby maintaining stability in their career.

Enduring Scrutiny

Unknown to the general public, women in military also fight different battles in their chosen profession. The military is still dominated by testosterone while the women struggle to fit in. Failure is always expected when they are given tasks as a result of gender discrimination. It is disheartening for them to know the public also scrutinize them by seeing them as a different entity.

Attacking The Mole

Women in military have had their fair share of failures in marriages just like the successes have been discussed. The fundamental problem has still not been addressed. Seeing the women in uniform is a turn on for some men. They appreciate their bravery and get infatuated. At the long run, broken homes and relationships aren’t inevitable. The whole blame is mostly put on the women oblivious to the fact that the military indoctrination didn’t break the relationship.

Are men ready to give up their job security and pack up when the women get deployed?
95% of female soldiers and female police in Nigeria are hardcore lesbians! Save yourself the stress as a man.
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by eddyghali(m): 6:40am On Feb 11, 2019
ktmoore:

I met a very pretty lady.... I even took her out... Just to have my fear buds bursted when I asked her what she does after taking her to Genesis cinema: the answer was I'm n the military : I bluntly told her " Ahh I am afraid o, I wanted to date you but I really cannot " dropped her off at the barracks and sharply drove off... She call tire

Oh man! u missed something. laughing
ktmoore:

I met a very pretty lady.... I even took her out... Just to have my fear buds bursted when I asked her what she does after taking her to Genesis cinema: the answer was I'm n the military : I bluntly told her " Ahh I am afraid o, I wanted to date you but I really cannot " dropped her off at the barracks and sharply drove off... She call tire

Oh man! u missed something. laughing
ktmoore:

I met a very pretty lady.... I even took her out... Just to have my fear buds bursted when I asked her what she does after taking her to Genesis cinema: the answer was I'm n the military : I bluntly told her " Ahh I am afraid o, I wanted to date you but I really cannot " dropped her off at the barracks and sharply drove off... She call tire

Oh man! u missed something. laughing
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by great664(m): 7:08am On Feb 11, 2019
Never met one though that's because I have never stayed or visited barracks and I hardly toast random girls on the way. But in all honesty, I don't mind settling down with one.

Seeing them in their camouflage alone gives me ecstasy.

They may look tough outside but deep down when they fell in love, they will be softer than bread bit that doesn't mean one should take them for granted.


For those calling them names, the female civilians, are they not being passed around by their lecturers, coursemate, school mates and neighbors?
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by ktmoore: 9:54am On Feb 12, 2019
eddyghali:


Oh man! u missed something. laughing

Oh man! u missed something. laughing


Oh man! u missed something. laughing

Honestly missed a chance with complications ... (Gladly)....
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by kingsmaila(m): 10:04am On Feb 12, 2019
I trip for the lady in the second picture. The soldier ladies are all beautiful.
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by Omon4real(m): 11:57am On Feb 12, 2019
I feel the pains and frustrations of these beautiful women who are serving the federal republic. I can assist to marry one.. I'm an IT staff in south Africa.[sub][/sub]

If you guys want to make more adverts, go ahead. But we will not be fooled. Any woman in the military, Nigerian military to be precise, is food for the fat bellied bosses.
We hear that you lot are faithful, loyal, beautiful, etc.. But guess what, we don't give a toss, the bosses have touched y'all and we don't want leftovers, and if we complain, God help us in the army barracks. [/quote]
Re: We Are Getting Old,why Don't You Men Want To Marry Us-female Soldiers Cry Out by Omon4real(m): 12:01pm On Feb 12, 2019
I can marry only one. I'm in South Africa working as an IT staff. +27849603001

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