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|Re: I Am Conflicted: Please Advise Me. by Splinz(m): 5:39pm On Feb 14|
I don't get it. Why would someone seeks for a puppet as a life partner?
OP's "real guy" is not looking for a woman with a "mind of her own" but... I mean, it's fvcking crazy!
I'm inclined to believe that such people are suffering from insecurities: lack of covert self-esteem & the rest.
Let's look at a scenario here: I am ugly, very ugly. And my wife is the complete opposite of me. She dresses to kill and of course, takes all the shine. Just what do you think I, as one suffering from low self-esteem will do? I'd start telling her how she doesn't need so so and so clothes as a married woman: how she should be tying wrapper all the time.
So simply put, those suffering from low self-esteem hates those who takes the shine off them. It could be through your intelligent, creativity etc. Who they want is rather one with whom they think they're better than, and the slave acknowledging same.
I think denying one the ability to think independently is both a crime & sin.
|Re: I Am Conflicted: Please Advise Me. by bobobooge: 5:48pm On Feb 14|
So who did you go with. The big or small Alfa?
|Re: I Am Conflicted: Please Advise Me. by sisisioge: 6:54pm On Feb 14|
Na small Alfa biko...but I'm know to love fairytale, right? My love language is TLC .
|Re: I Am Conflicted: Please Advise Me. by Femsyn(m): 8:00pm On Feb 14|
This definition of a traditional man is really scary, despite being a man myself.
Its tough alone to be a wife under a man's roof, how much more a man who is still archaic in thinking and only sees his better half as a docile doormat.
|Re: I Am Conflicted: Please Advise Me. by DeeMain(m): 11:10pm On Feb 14|
How people advise her to marry a slaver with iron shackles in his hands whom she feels nothing for and who bores her to death beats me.
Spend the rest of your days in prison as a slave with a jailer because you didn't know if something better would come up. Tufiakwa! Chukwu aju!!
Does the piling statistics of spousal murders and the high rate of divorce with the attendant damaging ripple effects on lives and generations mean nothing to you all?
I fear who no fear una!
Teasher don't teash me nonsense.
|Re: I Am Conflicted: Please Advise Me. by obicentlis: 1:13pm On Feb 15|
My little contribution here is , no reasonable man can be bossy while his woman brings up a better suggestion or opinion. Check if your reasoning can counter his own and still he refuses to see it your way, then there is a problem.
Don't be carried away by the new guy. Thread with care .
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