Please nairalanders I'll need yhur contributions. Xo I have gone through xo much threads here about how to treat girls, xo called drills ND the likes. Although most things I have read on these threads are true, they have mostly encouraged guys to treat ladies as (pardon my lingua) as2holes seemingly because ladies smell blood and go for the kill when yhu treat them how a nice person should.
I for one have experienced the two scenarios, in the first case, I technically did not treat her like a scummy tho buh I gave her no attention ND she was all over me like I was the best thing since chicken and chips and in the second case, hmmm, I was ready to literally part ways with a kidney if need be jst to keep her buh d reverse was the case.
Going by this, the OPs of this other threads seem a bit right buh I'd rather we see this from another perspective, 'the God's angle'.
The Bible in proverbs 19: 14 says Houses and riches are the inheritance of Fathers, buh a prudent wife is from the Lord. And math 6:33 says seek ye first the kingdom of God and a spouse shall be added on to yhu.
The same proverbs 19: 27 says cease, my son, from instructions that causes to err from the words of knowledge.
Now man says treat them bad ND you'll get a good one and God says love me and I'll give you a good one. I for one know whose report I believe..
Whose report should we believe?? Man's or God's

My brother, go and sleep.

stinjoe:
My brother, go and sleep.

Am not feeling sleepy bruv..

Between God and Man, who is more superior to the other. I believe your answer is God. So why follow Man when you've God. I hope this makes sense.