jekad:

when i used d word cheap,my mind was very far from sex,wats my business if a girl makes love to a guy on their first date,u just carry sex from nowhere come put am for where e no suppose dey

naw if a girl says yes to a guy immediately he asks her to be his lover,some of them guys will call her cheap,cheap not as in shagging but cheap for being too easy to get

i was really surprised when i saw your reply about sex ,so teeeee i look d thread to know if u make mistake post am for d wrong place,na when i come read well i know say u know where u post am

Na naija (players) men we dey talk ooo. Even if a girl accepts to date them immediately and doesn't give sex, they won't still call her cheap. Haba ooo! What happened to love at first sight? As for me, if I like you I like you. If you wan play boy then Bleep off or else we can have a nice romance!

Well I still maintain that only players talk of cheap. Even sef their mouth also cheap.
A guy who knows what he wants won't talk of cheap because before asking the girl out he must have studied her well!

michelin89:

Na naija men we dey talk ooo. Even if a girl accepts to date them immediately and doesn't give sex, they won't still call her cheap. Haba ooo! What happened to love at first sight? As for me, if I like you I like you. If you wan play boy then Bleep off or else we can have a nice romance! 

bad girl,see ya mouth like romance  u go die untop romancing one day

who tell u say they wont call her cheap?if na white men no probs them go respect u,but all this naija toutish men will surely call u cheap when they are in d beer parlour wt their friends chilling wt a bottle of beer

jekad:

bad girl,see ya mouth like romance u go die untop romancing one day

who tell u say they wont call her cheap?if na white men no probs them go respect u,but all this naija toutish men will surely call u cheap when they are in d beer parlour wt their friends chilling wt a bottle of beer

My mouth like romance, e sweet sweet well well. Nigerian men can act like that because we give them the opportunity to do so. Even for italo here, guys still dey behave like that but once the girl show say she nor care, you go see how he go run home in shame.

Yes, shame shame!

Abeg o!

From now, its hard to get

many guys when u fall the idea of i like u, u like me, so lets roll, they really misbehave.

Guys are really confused, they dont know what they want

U play hard to get - She is playing games , i don tire
U dont play hard to get - this girl must be cheap

U act independent, like u dnt need their money - she is too independent, she wont be submissive
u act like u are not independent n ask - she is demanding, i want an independent woman

Abegi, free me! When i meet the guy i like, i choose the model i want
When a guy likes u, he likes u!!!!!!!

I don't think it is, though I used to, not playing hard to get does not neccesarily equate to desperation, depends how you go about it

ibkaye:

I don't think it is, though I used to, not playing hard to get does not neccesarily equate to desperation, depends how you go about it

I agree 100%.

to my own candid opinion i think if a man approach a girl for marriage and she is sure of his mind the issue of hard to get is very very immature and unnecessary coz at last he will be ur husband. so wats next. but some guys can come for fun you know i.e just to enjoy the thrill in the chase and he can endure all d hard to get tactics as long as he wiil get what he wants at last. if he is 4 marriige den no hard to get please.