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Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Imogenn(f): 5:41pm On Feb 23, 2019
Hi guys

I’m meeting my boyfriends mum today. I really like this guy and this is the first real relationship I’ve had that I know will possibly lead to marriage. I just need tips on how to act, what to do to impress her as I’ve not really met a partners mom before. I’m very shy and introverted and I’m just worried that she might not like me. Wives in the house, give me tips!
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Nobody: 6:10pm On Feb 23, 2019
Simply be yourself, do not fake it. Let her like you for who you truly are.

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Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by ImaIma1(f): 8:22pm On Feb 23, 2019
How did it go? Hope she was a nice person.
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Raalsalghul: 9:03pm On Feb 23, 2019
Another guy about to be led into the scam called marriage

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Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by uzedo1(m): 9:43pm On Feb 23, 2019
Raalsalghul:
Another guy about to be led into the scam called marriage
Chill Bro.. Not all marriages are bad.. They are always rough and smooth roads, but how you drive through it matters!!

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Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Biglittlelois(f): 10:20pm On Feb 23, 2019
Here to learn smiley
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by truthsayer009(m): 10:26pm On Feb 23, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Here to learn smiley

Lmao, she should impress her by Kneeling from the gate to inside the house and wash all the dirty dishes including all their clothes.

I'm sure his mum will be proud.
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Biglittlelois(f): 10:35pm On Feb 23, 2019
truthsayer009:


Lmao, she should impress her by Kneeling from the gate to inside the house and wash all the dirty dishes including all their clothes.

I'm sure his mum will be proud.

LMAO, you're not nice.
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Roland17(m): 11:04pm On Feb 23, 2019
Raalsalghul:
Another guy about to be led into the scam called marriage
This is what I don’t get about some of you. Just because you are experiencing a scam or unhappiness does not mean others are unhappy in theirs.
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Roland17(m): 11:19pm On Feb 23, 2019
Imogenn:
Hi guys

I’m meeting my boyfriends mum today. I really like this guy and this is the first real relationship I’ve had that I know will possibly lead to marriage. I just need tips on how to act, what to do to impress her as I’ve not really met a partners mom before. I’m very shy and introverted and I’m just worried that she might not like me. Wives in the house, give me tips!

Just be yourself in a positive way. Most parents can sense when someone is faking. Being introverted makes it even more difficult because it can be construed as faking to seem nice. Your boyfriend can help here by telling his mom that you are introverted and may be shy.

Except she inquires about your relationship with their son, don’t bring it up. If they bring it up be calculative and modest in your response without sounding desperate. You can speak about his positive qualities if they ask why you like their son.

Warning: Don’t speak like you know her son more than her because it is a huge turn off for mothers. Mothers become defensive in that instance. No one should know their son more than them, even after marriage, it is a simple rule.

Don’t build any expectation of marriage especially if your guy has not openly conversed such with you irrespective of the level of commitment between both of you. For all you know, he may have just told them a female friend is visiting or his girlfriend without making any commital comments about marriage to her.

Someone once told me of how she spent weeks preparing to meet his boyfriend’s parents and when the day came, his parents greeted her and after 10 mins the parents left for church. Today they are married and she is best friends with her mother in-law.

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Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by 11thGoldTREE: 10:17am On Feb 24, 2019
Raalsalghul:
Another guy about to be led into the scam called marriage
At the end of the day, you gotta choose. You won't want to be lonely when you start seeing your friends with their kids. Hope you know

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Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Raalsalghul: 10:40am On Feb 24, 2019
11thGoldTREE:
At the end of the day, you gotta choose. You won't want to be lonely when you start seeing your friends with their kids. Hope you know
So your reason for getting married is not to be lonely undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Oyindidi(f): 11:02am On Feb 24, 2019
Be yourself and don't fake anything.
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Mcdreamy15: 11:03am On Feb 24, 2019
Oyindidi:
Be yourself and don't fake anything.
so this oyind still dey nairaland shocked?
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Oyindidi(f): 11:04am On Feb 24, 2019
Mcdreamy15:
so this oyind still dey nairaland shocked?
You dey look for me?
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Mcdreamy15: 12:40pm On Feb 24, 2019
Oyindidi:
You dey look for me?
when u keep changing accounts from oyind to oyind17 to oyindidi.. next one would be "didirin" cheesy

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Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Oyindidi(f): 1:17pm On Feb 24, 2019
Mcdreamy15:
when u keep changing accounts from oyind to oyind17 to oyindidi.. next one would be "didirin" cheesy
You're following me na, watin make you dey confusegrin Oyin17, Oyind17 and Oyind18 all deactivated. This one na my only moniker
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by ogawisdom(m): 3:52pm On Feb 24, 2019
Imogenn:
Hi guys

I’m meeting my boyfriends mum today. I really like this guy and this is the first real relationship I’ve had that I know will possibly lead to marriage. I just need tips on how to act, what to do to impress her as I’ve not really met a partners mom before. I’m very shy and introverted and I’m just worried that she might not like me. Wives in the house, give me tips!

Why are u desperate to impress ordinarily boyfriend mum, u might not be the first or last so keep it cool.

A girl that knows her worth won't be bothered, she will just be herself
Re: Meeting Boyfriends Mum by Richy4(m): 5:07pm On Feb 24, 2019
I'm guessing you gonna act like u can sweep from Abuja to Lagos all by yourself right?

And God help u you saw his mum in the kitchen..u Jump in and start cooking and cleaning just to score a mark right? Even when his female siblings are in the sitting room holding TV remote control watching Soap opera right?

Please do not reset your default settings..from introvert to extrovert just because of a boy and his mother.be original..U are cool the way u are.. If they don't like u and he loves you, he will fight for u.. if not u know the nearest exit door..use it..

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