There was never a marriage in the first place. This is a ground for divorce.

Abomination!

lilian789:
I bought a car for her and her mother cos of the love I have for her. After our wedding, I now had the chance to have sex with her for the first time her inside was loose in fact I didn’t expect that but didn’t say anything. We traveled to Kumasi(Ghana) for our honeymoon.

Now, this my problem I don’t know whether to divorce her or keep her for sake of love.

Please, I need help!

TheeDetective:
There are a few test you do before marriage and pregnancy test is one of them. This just sealed it that your story is fake. NL these days have become the den of fake and fictions stories. People just come up and make up stories and expect us to believe them. Anyone who believes this story can believe anything they are told. Some of us read between the lines; abeg tell us another story jare.

Who does pregnancy test before marriage? I am curious to know. Never heard of it being a requirement.

This is the 21st century; and it’s logical to carry out some test before marriage. Such as your genotype test, STD test, fertility/pregnancy test etc as well as any other test that is necessary. At the end of the day, if you fail to do such test then you’ll be on your own if you fall prey.

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Who does pregnancy test before marriage? I am curious to know. Never heard of it being a requirement.

TheeDetective:
This is the 21st century; and it’s logical to carry out some test before marriage. Such as your genotype test, STD test, fertility/pregnancy test etc as well as any other test that is necessary. At the end of the day, if you fail to do such test then you’ll be on your own if you fall prey.

Logical? Can't imagine I am about to marry my husband and we've never had sex and then he asks for a pregnancy test just before we get married. Or would it be that before he proposes, we do a pregnancy test first? Doesn't sound logical to me. Fertility test is even included in your logical tests before marriage?

I say it again, anyone who gets married and doesn’t do all the necessary checks would have themselves to blame. So in theory you will not check to make sure that your husband to be doesn’t have issues with low sperm count? That’s where the fertility test comes into play.

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Logical? Can't imagine I am about to marry my husband and we've never had sex and then he asks for a pregnancy test just before we get married. Or would it be that before he proposes, we do a pregnancy test first? Doesn't sound logical to me. Fertility test is even included in your logical tests before marriage?

cococandy:
Mr Lilian the story manufacturer.

You bought a car for the lady and her mum. Tell that to your fellow dummies

The stories and lies wey some people dey put up here and how some dummies believe.... seriously amazes me. Even see some people given comments even longer than the op.

TheeDetective:
I say it again, anyone who gets married and doesn’t do all the necessary checks would have themselves to blame. So in theory you will not check to make sure that your husband to be doesn’t have issues with low sperm count? That’s where the fertility test comes into play.

And if he does, not going to get married for that reason? But that's digressing. I'm still trying to imagine why not doing a pregnancy test before marriage means the story is fake.

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And if he does, not going to get married for that reason? But that's digressing. I'm still trying to imagine why not doing a pregnancy test before marriage means the story is fake.

@ bold, that’ll be up to you to decide.

It’s not only the pregnancy test that points to the story as fake. There are other things in there that showed it was a made up story and it was not hard to tell.

'... The fault is not in our stars oh Brutus,
it is in us,
because we are weakling...'


shakespear

Stupid woman! send her away

I don't mean any disrespect but would you really advice your own brother to forgive her if he were the one with this issue? For a marriage to be valid it must be devoid of deception, amongst other things ...

LadySarah:
Forgive her
That is what You should do,afterall its for better for worse.Her game wasnt tight at all
If it was a man that impregnanted a lady,everybody will say Forgive him.
Its your cross.and your package,uncover it yourself.

Quote me and Buhari will be your family elder

Ohidata:
I don't mean any disrespect but would you really advice your own brother to forgive her if he were the one with this issue? For a marriage to be valid it must be devoid of deception, amongst other things ...

Truetalk bro

The fault is not in our stars, it is in us, because we are weakling

lilian789:
But d case whereby she has been crying and pleading 4 help.. What should e done

this is not even cheating but pregnant for another man, obviously you are not in your right senses, some remote control is using you, if not you will not be here thinking of what to do

would this be a good idea

lilian789:
But d case whereby she has been crying and pleading 4 help.. What should e done

do you need a soothsayer to tell you what to do. If you were asked are the father of the baby, would you answer yes? Don't collect the car from her neither her mother.

ashawopikin:
rule no 1, never ever date a girl without fu,cking her

the ish of dating is really bringing problems to our society why not marry once and take responsibility

LadySarah:
Forgive her
That is what You should do,afterall its for better for worse.Her game wasnt tight at all
If it was a man that impregnanted a lady,everybody will say Forgive him.
Its your cross.and your package,uncover it yourself.

Quote me and Buhari will be your family elder

if your son is in this situation, what would you ask him to do LADYSARAH

good question

another way to understand d importance

y don't dey fight