Why are most women embittered by and/or totally ignore threads or topics that talk about virginity.
Is this topic that sensitive to y'all?

DukeofNZ:


no long yarn for night talk. i be talk and do. the offer go expire after 30 minutes from now, as you de prove yourself de provide me with your bank account information where i go transfer de money.

Lolxxx how you go know nah

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vingeophysicist:

I spoke base on the comments I see on this section. I don't have time to start sampling ladies.

So you take everything at face value? If you are concluding based on some people's comment, don't you think that conclusion is bias?

my current girlfriend said told me that "she is still a virgin"

No

Most women are not virgin and they often become embittered if you discuss such topics.

If you are dating a girl, never ask her if she is a virgin but try to discover it yourself by trying to have sex with her.

badadvice:
Why are most women embittered by and/or totally ignore threads or topics that talk about virginity.
Is this topic that sensitive to y'all?

And how will you be 100% sure that she’s not had more sex than you? The number one thing women lie about is their sexual history, and the funniest thing is that you will never find out the truth. The likelihood of you bumping into every man that a lady has slept with is extremely rare, that’s just the reality esp if she lost her virginity at a young age. Most of you guys need to lay your emphasis on character traits that actually hold substance for a long term relationship, not worrying about if her body count is past 3. Smh

gentlegenius:

I understand where you are coming from... But for a guy like me, I still care about a lady's virginity or sex history even though I am personally not a virgin.
I am 32, and I had my first sexual experience at 27, after I had graduated. Right now, the number of girls I slept with up to date, can be counted with the fingers of one hand.
Based on this reality, you can't expect me to marry a lady who had already lost her virginity at 17, or the one who at the age of 20, had already lost count of the number of men she slept.
Even though I am not a virgin, as someone with high self control when it comes to pre marital sex, I can't marry an olosho. If I am lucky to meet a virgin, that Is OK. But if I meet a non virgin, I will only marry her on the condition that her past sexual history isn't worse than mine. This is my position on this.

EmekaBlue:
saint please....virgin is feminine

Says who? What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. If you want a virgin, you too be a virgin

Jirair:
I would love to meet a male virgin or someone with a very low body count (no more than one), but finding this person is going to be like finding a needle in a haystack. It's not because I care so much about virginity but because that'll tell me that he has a great deal of self-control and discipline. I'm no ho and there's no reason why I should be with one. Many of you men ho around for a living and then turn around looking for a female virgin to marry. Hypocrisy.

Exactly,the sad reality.

Sadiqali24:
u have break rule no 11, and I'm reporting u.

Eh ehn, tell me something. Afi break na, the English sef you no see am speak, shior and am I suppose to be begging you not to , bad belle.

gentlegenius:

I understand where you are coming from... But for a guy like me, I still care about a lady's virginity or sex history even though I am personally not a virgin.
I am 32, and I had my first sexual experience at 27, after I had graduated. Right now, the number of girls I slept with up to date, can be counted with the fingers of one hand.
Based on this reality, you can't expect me to marry a lady who had already lost her virginity at 17, or the one who at the age of 20, had already lost count of the number of men she slept.
Even though I am not a virgin, as someone with high self control when it comes to pre marital sex, I can't marry an olosho. If I am lucky to meet a virgin, that Is OK. But if I meet a non virgin, I will only marry her on the condition that her past sexual history isn't worse than mine. This is my position on this.

Hmmmm!

85% of ladies will be unable to meet up to your standard bro, so try adjust your marking scheme

faithfull18:

Eh ehn, tell me something. Afi break na, the English sef you no see am speak, shior and am I suppose to be begging you not to , bad belle.

sorry, did I quote you?

YoungG12:
my current girlfriend said told me that "she is still a virgin"

she was a Virgin before meeting you.

faithfull18:

Eh ehn, tell me something. Afi break na, the English sef you no see am speak, shior and am I suppose to be begging you not to , bad belle.

and I have to recommend the new Soyinka, " welcome ."

faithfull18:

Eh ehn, tell me something. Afi break na, the English sef you no see am speak, shior and am I suppose to be begging you not to , bad belle.

and I have to recommend the new Soyinka, " welcome ."

Sadiqali24:
sorry, did I quote you?

You quoted my twin sister

faithfull18:
You quoted my twin sister

lol, pm me for a private discussion

oyatz:
Most women are not virgin and they often become embittered if you discuss such topics.

If you are dating a girl, never ask her if she is a virgin but try to discover it yourself by trying to have sex with her.

Some of them are actually open about it.

some guys say they don't wear OK clothes but they fvck OK pussy .. What a nonsense

tosyne2much:
Hmmmm!

85% of ladies will be able to meet up to your standard bro, so try adjust your marking scheme

I guess you wanted to type UNABLE.
Anyways, if your assessment is true, I am ready to search diligently for the remaining 15%.

gentlegenius:

I guess you wanted to type UNABLE.
Anyways, if your assessment is true, I am ready to search diligently for the remaining 15%.

Alright bro

Saffi:
And how will you be 100% sure that she’s not had more sex than you? The number one thing women lie about is their sexual history, and the funniest thing is that you will never find out the truth. The likelihood of you bumping into every man that a lady has slept with is extremely rare, that’s just the reality esp if she lost her virginity at a young age. Most of you guys need to lay your emphasis on character traits that actually hold substance for a long term relationship, not worrying about if her body count is past 3. Smh

Hisduchess:

if only the said Lady will be sincere enough to tell you how many men she has been with.its either one is a virgin or a non-virgin.you see body counts very very few people will be sincere with that except if the person is naturally a sincere person.

Don't worry, I have my own way of finding out these things... There's hardly any girl I've dated that I didn't know her past sex history. Also, I am very careful in selecting who to date. I will even be more careful when it comes to marriage.
I know that character should be the important point of consideration, but as far as I am concerned, your family background and past history are equally important.

You can never know my friend. If a babe really wants to hide her sexual history from you there’s absolutely nothing you can do about it. You are not God and that’s just the reality, you’ve not met your match. Someone like me you can never know my sexual history unless I tell you and you can try and do all your investigations in the world, you will fail. So biko, humble yourself and just pray to meet a good woman.

gentlegenius:

Don't worry, I have my own way of finding out these things... There's hardly any girl I've dated that I didn't know her past sex history. Also, I am very careful in selecting who to date. I will even be more careful when it comes to marriage.
I know that character should be the important point of consideration, but as far as I am concerned, your family background and past history are equally important.

tosyne2much:
Dem go hijack the thread begin throw tantrums

When you talk about virginity, ladies always get upset and I don't know why

When your honour is departed from you, you get upset any time you hear people talk about it. that's their situation.

I met my girl branded, factory fitted. I tore the nylon myself. We are still together though and I am so proud of that. I do use that to boast while in the midst of my friends. You don't wanna know how they wish they met their women untouched. I see their faces down whenever I show her off of that fact, but when i realize that could make them develop dislike for their women, i stopped. I am so proud of Fad!!! I love her as I love my gut

Saffi:
You can never know my friend. If a babe really wants to hide her sexual history from you there’s absolutely nothing you can do about it. You are not God and that’s just the reality, you’ve not met your match. Someone like me you can never know my sexual history unless I tell you and you can try and do all your investigations in the world, you will fail. So biko, humble yourself and just pray to meet a good woman.

I don't need to know the exact number of men you've slept with or the exact number of times you've slept with a man. But if you are an olosho, I'll know. Actually, You won't even know that I am interested in such findings. BTW, I don't even need to date you before I know your past history. There are some girls here in my area that I can tell their history even though they didn't tell me... Trust me, this thing isn't as hard as you think.
I know that only God can give a man a good woman, but we must not only pray and forget to investigate.

Olosho in what sense? A woman that has been paid for sexual services of a woman that has slept with a lot of men? See a woman can sleep with 5 men in osogbo, sleep with 4 men in Abuja, relocate to Lagos and meet a man and tell him she’s slept with two guys in her life. She could’ve travelled outside the country, slept with many men come back to naija and claim to be a saint. YOU WILL NOT KNOW! No matter how hard you try you will not even get an idea of her bodycount unless she tells you. I know this because I’m a woman and I have friends. I’ve personally deceived guys and I have married friends today, and their husband don’t know about their past hoe life. So I’m telling you now to stop acting like you will 100% know, because girls are extremely deceptive when it comes to this.

gentlegenius:

I don't need to know the exact number of men you've slept with or the exact number of times you've slept with a man. But if you are an olosho, I'll know. Actually, You won't even know that I am interested in such findings. BTW, I don't even need to date you before I know your past history. There are some girls here in my area that I can tell their history even though they didn't tell me... Trust me, this thing isn't as hard as you think.
I know that only God can give a man a good woman, but we must not only pray and forget to investigate.

DukeofNZ:
i go give 3,000 US dollars to any woman here wey de from 14 years and above wey be virgin. prove it here within 30 minutes and provide me your bank account here and me go transfer the money to you within 30 minutes. i be talk and do

Bad guy

Aryin87:
I met my girl branded, factory fitted. I tore the nylon myself. We are still together though and I am so proud of that. I do use that to boast while in the midst of my friends. You don't wanna know how they wish they met their women untouched. I see their faces down whenever I show her off of that fact, but when i realize that could make them develop dislike for their women, i stopped. I am so proud of Fad!!! I love her as I love my gut

Lucky you. But what if she wasn't really a virgin? You know some of these girls dey lie.

I need a Virgin boyfriend. Tired of these olosho boys everywhere

KingAzubuike:
Yes/No. Why is it even that virgins are so hard to come by these days. There is no greater feeling than deflowering a girl. There's this feeling in your mind that yes you are the first man on earth to ever have your dick go in there. But this category of girls are so hard to come by. You meet a girl today, the relationship wax stronger then along the line she keeps telling you how she lost her virginity to her ex etc.

is your own a five lane road or why are concerned about virgins?