Nairaland guys, if you dated your babe for 7 years, and you guys broke up for 5 months, and then came back together enjoying the relationship, and one day she confessed to you that she slept with your friend when you guys broke up, but she never cheated when you guys dated. Will you continue the relationship?

why not confess what you did too

chiommy123:
why not confess what you did too

Apostle chiommy good afternoon

bukkyemotions:
Apostle chiommy good afternoon

good afternoon sir/ma

Whatever I say won't help you because you'll still be the one pounding away and screaming, I'm cummmming.

Quite frankly it’s no one’s business but your own what happened when either party was NOT together. No one has any jurisdiction or cause to be upset over anything. Both parties were free agents.

MissRaine69:
Quite frankly it’s no one’s business but your own what happened when either party was NOT together. No one has any jurisdiction or cause to be upset over anything. Both parties were free agents.

Yah!! But the issue of "sex with friend"... "please interprete it"

MissRaine69:
Quite frankly it’s no one’s business but your own what happened when either party was NOT together. No one has any jurisdiction or cause to be upset over anything. Both parties were free agents.

Easier said than done.

Realistically its not d way u made it seem. She probably needed the brk up for the cheating purpose or freedom of sex sort. Especially if its a marriage-based relnshp.. His friend for that matter not even someone else

Oluromantic:

Easier said than done.

Realistically its not d way u made it seem. She probably needed the brk up for the cheating purpose or freedom of sex sort. Especially if its a marriage-based relnshp.. His friend for that matter not even someone else

You are being frank here..if such a situation arises

Oluromantic:

Easier said than done.

Realistically its not d way u made it seem. She probably needed the brk up for the cheating purpose or freedom of sex sort. Especially if its a marriage-based relnshp.. His friend for that matter not even someone else

Nigerian society is hypocritcal to a fault. If it was a man who did this, the emphasis would be on reconciliation. It is simple you either stay or you go. No point mulling over something that took place after the fact.

Of all the people in this world, she actually gave the cookie to your friend.. This one deep oooo

bukkyemotions:
Yah!! But the issue of "sex with friend"... "please interprete it"

Interpret or explain? Those two words don’t mean the same thing.
Why is it even classified as a “confession?” She did not cheat on him. Her choice regarding whom she slept could be viewed with disdain by others but the bottom line is no crime was commited here, not even a moral one.

tosyne2much:
Of all the people in this world, she actually gave the cookie to your friend.. This one deep oooo

Depends on the nature of the friendship ......people have gone on to marry ex’s friends Male and female. The pair were NOT together.

MissRaine69:

Nigerian society is hypocritcal to a fault. If it was a man who did this, the emphasis would be on reconciliation. It is simple you either stay or you go. No point mulling over something that took place after the fact.

I disagree. Women are paranoid by nature. They won't accept it neither..in fact it's worse with their paranoia. Only a feminist would see nothing wrong in such a deed. What's wrong is wrong, Nigeria or not!

MissRaine69:

Depends on the nature of the friendship ......people have gone on to marry ex’s friends Male and female. The pair were NOT together.

The main battle here in this debate is "The friend"... If it was another person, milder!!

Oluromantic:

I disagree. Women are paranoid by nature. They won't accept it neither..in fact it's worse with their paranoia. Only a feminist would see nothing wrong in such a deed. What's wrong is wrong, Nigeria or not!

No crime was comitted here take what you will from that.

MissRaine69:

Depends on the nature of the friendship ......people have gone on to marry ex’s friends Male and female. The pair were NOT together.

Yeah I know that happens but having a friends with benefits parole with your ex's friend is bewildering

bukkyemotions:
The main battle here in this debate is "The friend"... If it was another person, milder!!

She could have opted to stay mum about things but she did not. So he can accept it or say no.

MissRaine69:

No crime was comitted here take what you will from that.

You need rehabilitation. Sorry but its true.

tosyne2much:
Yeah I know that happens but having a friends with benefits parole with your ex's friend is bewildering

Let me try to be as gentle l as I can with this.
She actually told him
Many don’t
There are things women do that their men have no clue about wicked, diabolical and immoral things. Things they will never find out about. He can opt to be mad about it or see the bigger picture.

Oluromantic:

You need rehabilitation. Sorry but its true.

You need to stop living in a box ...sorry but it’s true

MissRaine69:

No crime was comitted here take what you will from that.

I see nothing bad here.

Oluromantic:

You need rehabilitation. Sorry but its true.

Shut up Idiot. When she see a guy she like, she shoot the shot. she might be dating you, but she has to do the needy If You can't satisfy her urge of course, plus one man cant tap her wine.

jackals:


Shut up Idiot. When she see a guy she like, she shoot the shot. she might be dating you, but she has to do the needy If You can't satisfy her urge of course, plus one man cant tap her wine.

It is well ooh in Jesus name. Amen

Ex friend, for real?

jackals:


Shut up Idiot. When she see a guy she like, she shoot the shot. she might be dating you, but she has to do the needy if you can't satisfy her urge, plus one man cant tap her wine

Jehovah

jackals:


Shut up Idiot. When she see a guy she like, she shoot the shot. she might be dating you, but she has to do the needy If You can't satisfy her urge of course, plus one man cant tap her wine.

You've satisfied your curiosity. You can keep quiet now.

MissRaine69:

You need to stop living in a box ...sorry but it’s true

For this purpose thinking outside the box is selfish and irrational

nothing ooo.

i have settled to understand that to women like that adventure and u guys were not even dating then...fact that she told u..she try..

some can keep the devil inside and u ont know.

bukkyemotions:
Nairaland guys, if you dated your babe for 7 years, and you guys broke up for 5 months, and then came back together enjoying the relationship, and one day she confessed to you that she slept with your friend when you guys broke up, but she never cheated when you guys dated. Will you continue the relationship?

it will depend on the type of r/ship and breakup we had, but having sex with my buddy is just a no no! so it will be the end of the r/ship AND the end of that friendship too.

***spit on floor***

MrBrownJay1:


it will depend on the type of r/ship and breakup we had, but having sex with my buddy is just a no no! so it will be the end of the r/ship AND the end of that friendship too.

***spit on floor***

Really??

bukkyemotions:
Really??

oh yeah!!!! it shows a total lack of respect for that woman to have strayed so close to home... thats an unforgivable act in my world (whether for her OR him)!