Nairalanders, I really need your help to decide if I should follow my mind presently or if I should follow what my friends want me to do. I am a young lady in my late twenties. My immediate younger sister got married last year and I am 3 years older than her. So there is much pressure from my family about getting married. My dad so much believes in early marriage because he married at age 26 while my mum was just 22. I have been in a very serious relationship with a church member of mine for the past 3 years. He is handsome, caring, intelligent (1st class product from University of Lagos), Godly and all that a lady can dream of. He also had a good job at an oil coy when we first met. He would shower me gifts and made me feel so special. But for 7 months now, the story has changed. He keeps being sober, very aggressive, nagging and rude to my parents (on 2 instances). I try as much as possible to understand his plight because of his search for a better job. I stay close to him and promise to never leave him despite all odds. My friends introduced me to an escort site in Nigeria https://www.codedruns.com/ where I could help raise some money since my boyfriend and myself are now jobless but I saw the site as very dirty because my identity is not protected. I told them I needed a platform where my identity can be protected and I can meet people that her serious. I eventually got to know about https://www.lounge45.com/ from a friend in Germany. The process of registering on the site as an escort was so tedious for me at first but I eventually realised that it was for my good. To cut the story, I made a lot of money from the site and met some cool guys. I helped my boyfriend with some money made from the site...there was a time I raised 700k for him to do a professional course.

December last year, I met a guy from https://www.lounge45.com/ who just came to Nigeria from Canada to meet his parents. He is a medical doctor in his early 30s. I gave him a nice treat and he paid me so well. I mean so freaking well. He asked me to stay with him in his hotel till he left in the first week of January. He introduced me to his family and we went to a family function together. He even proposed to me with a ring on the day he was leaving for Canada. Since then, he would call me every morning and night before I go to bed and he promised to come with his people to meet my family and marry me by December this year. He also promised to arrange my papers so I could travel with him.

My boyfriend is running a course in Kaduna presently, so he is not here in Lagos for some months now. I still send him money though but he has never promised me marriage. My close friend wants me to stick to him because she feels he has genuine love for me and he has prospect but my heart seems to follow Mr Doctor. Please what do you suggest that I do. I need mature advise, not insults. I can do anything I love to do with my body, so don't judge me about my escapade on an escort site. I have promised to quit when I have made enough money to set up my business.

You just want to advertise your website

FACT: Forget your first boyfriend, he cannot just be acting absurdly because of things turned wrongly. That means if you go into marriage when things don't turn out right, quarrel will start.


FACT: Forget the doctor. Since he initially met you as a [b]LovePeddler[/b]in most cases he will see you like that forever. He might go to Canada and still patronize prostitutes. A cheater never changes its spot....


I Advise you start a fresh even if time is not with you.

LisaAnne:
You just want to advertise your website

Market strategies.

LisaAnne:
You just want to advertise your website

I am sure you did not read my post. If you can't help, must you comment? At times, minding one's business could be the only sensible achievement for some of us.

Lol

Dem say if woman no marry two husband she no go know the one wey better pass...

If your story is indeed true...it is only a matter of time even if Mr Doctor wifes you that he'll begin to suspect and loathe you whenever he remembers he picked you from your lounge45 as an escort and that you still probably are escorting other dickss..

Tough tough tough...

Someone is in love with Mr Dokitor.
Auntie, this one na correct synthetic love. Because he says he's going to arrange your travel papers abi? And now you want to take this route as an escape from Spinsterhood abi?
Not all that glitters is gold.
No be from my mouth you go hear wetin you wan hear

budiliscious:

I am sure you did not read my post. If you can't help, must you comment? At times, minding one's business could be the only sensible achievement for some of us.

I read it and yes its the websites you want to advertise

who are you trying to deceive? made about 750k from a runs website, if it was that lucrative then Nigerian university students won't be doing overnight for 10k

Aunty, Abeggi follow ur heart! Either choice will surely have it's side effects. Just don't rush to choose because of Fam nd ur younger sister, take ur time well to fink over it.
Don't be surprise dat d Fam or friends of d doctor might end up knowing who u are before marriage.

Runs girl forming love.

Follow yr heart, Which heart u get? My advice i no get

derrydinny:
who are you trying to deceive? made about 750k from a runs website, if it was that lucrative then Nigerian university students won't be doing oovernight for 10k

Experience has taught me that what you get in life depends on the value that you place on yourself. What someone offers for 500 naira another person can offer for 5 million.

@Op, I want you to follow your mind. At the end after every deed is done, your mind will remain with you. Mr Doky may be your life changed. I know many people who got married like that and they are still waxing strong.

lol

Oh you're a hoe bitch?

Wow!

Ok

This one is advertising escort websites.

I don't give advice to whoring whores. How can you be whoring to feed a first class graduate? Who gave birth to you? Who raised you?

Seriously advertising her bullshit site.
And even if the damn story is fucking true then you are just a slot. Leave the two men and enter the street where you Bleep for a leaving.

it Pains me to say this but u messed up. He paid you well and next thing you received an engagement ring forgetting at that single moment a relationship of 3years!!!!!!!. Ok you have been hustling to help your guy accepted. Babe his has been acting absurd since complains and always aggressive, how do you expect him who showers you gifts before to suddenly lack the ability to make his woman happy by making himself happy?

In 7months out of 3years u don blow estimated dick of 30 to 40 and u wan leave the guy in his trying times!!!!!!!!!

Follow your mind madam tomorrow if bad things happen to you u begin to beg people that u don’t know where e start from!!!

Hoelosho 500 naira

My God! Someone is hoeing unremorsefully and still demanding not to be judged. May I never have a girl like you! There's no excuse to prostitution. No excuse.

budiliscious:
Nairalanders, I really need your help to decide if I should follow my mind presently or if I should follow what my friends want me to do. I am a young lady in my late twenties. My immediate younger sister got married last year and I am 3 years older than her. So there is much pressure from my family about getting married. My dad so much believes in early marriage because he married at age 26 while my mum was just 22. I have been in a very serious relationship with a church member of mine for the past 3 years. He is handsome, caring, intelligent (1st class product from University of Lagos), Godly and all that a lady can dream of. He also had a good job at an oil coy when we first met. He would shower me gifts and made me feel so special. But for 7 months now, the story has changed. He keeps being sober, very aggressive, nagging and rude to my parents (on 2 instances). I try as much as possible to understand his plight because of his search for a better job. I stay close to him and promise to never leave him despite all odds. My friends introduced me to an escort site in Nigeria https://www.codedruns.com/ where I could help raise some money since my boyfriend and myself are now jobless but I saw the site as very dirty because my identity is not protected. I told them I needed a platform where my identity can be protected and I can meet people that her serious. I eventually got to know about https://www.lounge45.com/ from a friend in Germany. The process of registering on the site as an escort was so tedious for me at first but I eventually realised that it was for my good. To cut the story, I made a lot of money from the site and met some cool guys. I helped my boyfriend with some money made from the site...there was a time I raised 700k for him to do a professional course.

December last year, I met a guy from https://www.lounge45.com/ who just came to Nigeria from Canada to meet his parents. He is a medical doctor in his early 30s. I gave him a nice treat and he paid me so well. I mean so freaking well. He asked me to stay with him in his hotel till he left in the first week of January. He introduced me to his family and we went to a family function together. He even proposed to me with a ring on the day he was leaving for Canada. Since then, he would call me every morning and night before I go to bed and he promised to come with his people to meet my family and marry me by December this year. He also promised to arrange my papers so I could travel with him.

My boyfriend is running a course in Kaduna presently, so he is not here in Lagos for some months now. I still send him money though but he has never promised me marriage. My close friend wants me to stick to him because she feels he has genuine love for me and he has prospect but my heart seems to follow Mr Doctor. Please what do you suggest that I do. I need mature advise, not insults. I can do anything I love to do with my body, so don't judge me about my escapade on an escort site. I have promised to quit when I have made enough money to set up my business.

I just enter the site is not doing because I know that what u want

If I say what's on my mind, you may not like it sis.. So do what's right and remember that all that glitters isn't gold.

Follow your heart.

shegzy0514:

I just enter the site is not doing because I know that what u want

It is probably not for gays.

SaucyBenks:
Oh you're a hoe bitch?

Wow!

So raw and rude.

am I the only one who thinks this story is fake.

I once fell in love with two men, wait, what?

BronzeMajik:
am I the only one who thinks this story is fake.

She just wants to advertise the site