please pardon my grammatical errors...
there is this girl i love so much,i told her am in love with her,she replied me by saying she has a boyfriend.. I was a bit disappointed but she said we should be best of friend so I think that was a best idea......
but there is something strange to me i like buying gifts for this particular girl but actually we are not dating only best of friends..my friends advised me that since am not her boyfriend i should stop showering gifts on her..... to be sincere am really attached to this girl should i ignore her or continue with our bestie relationship...pls help a brother

Did you buy a gift for your mom on mother's day?

1. You don't love her, you want to love her and to be loved in return.
2. She has a boyfriend? Good, you are npw one of her boyfriends.
3. You love buying her gifts? That might make her later turn you to a 'helper'.
5. You have crossed the first huddle by becoming her friend. Now all you need to do is to gently and patiently wait while she discreetly verify your suitability as s Boyfriend.

Meanwhile, put on your best behavior and be PATIENT.

tunjilee003:
please pardon my grammatical errors...
there is this girl i love so much,i told her am in love with her,she replied me by saying she has a boyfriend.. I was a bit disappointed but she said we should be best of friend so I think that was a best idea......
but there is something strange to me i like buying gifts for this particular girl but actually we are not dating only best of friends..my friends advised me that since am not her boyfriend i should stop showering gifts on her..... to be sincere am really attached to this girl should i ignore her or continue with our bestie relationship...pls help a brother

Nobody forced you to buy her gift oo.Thank God she told you she has a boyfriend at least you will not call her a gold digger if she finally didn't accept you.
Don't come on nairaland romance section to constitute nuisance like most nigga here oo.

OP you nor well I swear.


The girl’s boyfriend might be managing to make the girl happy and you just wan come use too much gifts spoil their relationship. Very soon the girl nor go Dey listen to her boo again because of you.

Ozuo!!

daddycee91:
Did you buy a gift for your mom on mother's day?

I doubt it. his eyes will soon be cleared

daddycee91:
Did you buy a gift for your mom on mother's day?

am not living with my mom.i am schooling in the North

tunjilee003:
am not living with my mom.i am schooling in the North

guy I feel like crying for you. Even the girls on nairaland are assisting their fellow working gal by giving you bad advice.

The gal dey run job on you. That let's be friends format is just meant to use you for backup and financial support.

1. Give her space by gradually decreasing communication between you two.
2. Stop buying gifts for her very important.(e dey pain me 4 u bro)
Any other advice you follow. You must do this first.

Craziestgirl:
1. You don't love her, you want to love her and to be loved in return.
2. She has a boyfriend? Good, you are npw one of her boyfriends.
3. You love buying her gifts? That might make her later turn you to a 'helper'.
5. You have crossed the first huddle by becoming her friend. Now all you need to do is to gently and patiently wait while she discreetly verify your suitability as s Boyfriend.

Meanwhile, put on your best behavior and be PATIENT.

thunder when go fire you ehn

Godsfavour78:
guy I feel like crying for you. Even the girls on nairaland are assisting their fellow working gal by giving you bad advice.

The gal dey run job on you. That let's be friends format is just meant to use you for backup and financial support.

1. Give her space by gradually decreasing communication between you two.
2. Stop buying gifts for her very important.(e dey pain me 4 u bro)
Any other advice you follow. You must do this first.

Did the girl beg him 4 his gifts? Did she ask him 4 any financial assistance? When she said "lets be friends" did she put a gun on op to start buying her gifts?