I am so ashamed of myself, I am a victim of the I am in this marriage because of my children and now my son done what my husband use to do to me.

My husband hits me in my children’s faces so they are use to it, I caught my son watching porn movie at 14 and I slapped him in correction and I was shocked when he gave it back to me 2 times and walked out.

I quickly called my husband to tell him and he said when he gets back, he got back and told me that my son is now a man I have no right to slap him.

He called my son to my face and told him not to try it again that even if he has to hit me, he should take permission from him first.
I was shocked to my bones.

I have been crying since yesterday and my children don’t care, rather the have been playing game so loud and acting like I dint exist.

How do I solve this problem, I guess it too late to walk away, damaged has been done. How do I remold my children I have lost them.
I wish I had left this marriage.

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That one na una problem

Too much of western culture go kill your family

Report your husband to his best friend.

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Try to change your ways

Are you that bone lazy that a 14yrs old boy would slap you and not get the beating of his life.


Try that rubbish with my mum!
I remember those days......

I have never heard of this before. I pity the woman your son will marry. The boy needs therapy.

check ur past are you sure u have not done such to ur parents?
well that's too bad either u or ur husband one of u must be from the east

Madame you caused all these...how can you let a 14 year old child of yours take one step after slapping you twice? Then you humiliate yourself further by reporting to the chief aggressor instead of a sound beating then report or ignore reporting let the beating show on him.

I wouldn't really blame this woman some men are crazy, I remembered when we still live in our old location our neighbor(the husband) bought personal cane for the wife and canes her in the present of her children.

The children no longer regards her as her mum when she scolds the elder son, he will threaten to report to their father once he returns from work knowing he will react. The woman was scare in her own home and hardly discipline her children. I and my mum has tried talking sense to him but he always ignores us.

The day he stopped beating his wife was the day my dad was around on Sunday and the man started beating his wife as usually, my dad was forced to go find out what was going in their flat. Behold the man flogging is wife and the woman was totally naked, my dad got very angry and threatened to deal with him if he doesn't stop because he asked us to get out of he's apartment. My dad later talked sense into him after he stopped to listen to what he has to say and since that very day he stopped beating his wife and the children now respect her because their father gave them serious warning to stop insulting their mother.

coolcentbigman:
I wouldn't really blame this woman some men are crazy, I remembered when we still live in our old location our neighbor(the husband) bought personal cane for the wife and canes her in the present of her children.

The children no longer regards her as her mum when she scolds the elder son, he will threaten to report to their father once he returns from work knowing he will react. The woman was scare in her own home and hardly discipline her children. I and my mum has tried talking sense to him but he always ignores us.

The day he stopped beating his wife was the day my dad was around on Sunday and the man started beating his wife as usually, my dad was forced to go find out what was going in their flat. Behold the man flogging is wife and the woman was totally naked, my dad got very angry and threatened to deal with him if he doesn't stop because he asked us to get out of he's apartment. My dad later talked sense into him after he stopped to listen to what he has to say and since that very day he stopped beating his wife and the children now respect her because their father gave them serious warning to stop insulting their mother.

My point here is report him to a relative who you know is very responsible let him/she told some sense into him.
I'm very sorry for the pain you're going through also be prayer and don't let your children make discussion themselves making them feel you're nothing than a house help/ nanny. You should seize his phone and punish him for his crime.

lol, take permission to beat his mother. Very funny

Some things are stranger than fiction

insult kill that bastard

I know this didn't happen in Nigeria in the first place.

Jman06:
Are you that bone lazy that a 14yrs old boy would slap you and not get the beating of his life.


Try that rubbish with my mum!
I remember those days......

She is scared of her husband.

I can't understand why any of the two parents would ask the other not to discipline a wayward child.

I have seen a family where the husband dare not touch the children for fear of his wife throwing tantrums.

How can husband/wife tell their spouse not to discipline children that belong to both of them?

atikuobi2019nig:
check ur past are you sure u have not done such to ur parents?

well that's too bad either u or ur husband one of u must be from the east

the east? Why

How can you possibly raise your hand on your mother I know I'm stubborn and I hardly run errands but anytime I see my mother heartbroken , I will also feel the same

When Jesus is in the family; happy happy home, happy happy home
when Satan is in the family: trouble everyday, sickness all the time, trouble everyday.

introduce your children to Jesus Christ and you will be amaze what you will see
do it fast before Satan destroy your family before your very eyes. Remember this: Satan comes to steal, Kill and destroy.

BluntTheApostle:


She is scared of her husband.

I can't understand why any of the two parents would ask the other not to discipline a wayward child.

I have seen a family where the husband dare not touch the children for fear of his wife throwing tantrums.

How can husband/wife tell their spouse not to discipline children that belong to both of them?

That's too bad