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| Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by r231(m): 9:57pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
Why do some men propose to their "girls" in public places? Restaurants, "Parties", sports stadium or cinemas! Why? Its just too risky, especially when u ve no 100% clue what her answer will be. Ladies! Would u say "YES" to the Guy just to save him a major public embarrassment? |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by boomii(f): 10:02pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
Why wud I deceive myself by saying 'yes' when i meant to say 'no'? It is only romantic if the gal is ready to say yes. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by 1102(m): 10:08pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
I would love to propose to my woman Rite inside a plane en-route to paris! But i can also understand the fear of every man, when proposing, Its like waiting to hear the sex of your newly born baby, Not every man wanna encounter sometin like dis  I Just kant wait for that day to get here, I know i would get a YEZZH and a resounding applause from the on-lookers~(Grinning) |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Specialist900(m): 10:15pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
r231:that will be tantamount to RUBBISH. boomii:SHIKENA. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by sirvick(m): 11:52am On Sep 14, 2010 |
it doesn't matter were u are, all u need is will u marry me, u will just hear a loud yes, with current ratio of man and woman non will say no |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Nobody: 12:13pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
r231:Dude like you are in my head  I was thinking the same thing. Very risky I must say very very risky.I must say some guys have balls. In response to the topic, no I wouldn't say yes if I don't mean it. To save the guy the embarrassment, I may say something like "Not here darling" or 'are you kidding" but I wouldn't say yes to save his face. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
A man should generally use wisdom and not pop the question in this way unless he's sure. It's not hard to be sure. If you've been courting a girl and she [b]WANTS [/b]you to pop, the question, you'll know. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by sexylogan(m): 9:08pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
@ Poster: No offence but i won't propose to my fiance in a public place and knowing her, she wudnt like it either. For me, i just think it's aprivate thing and it isnt the public's business to be aware of it. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
@poster what you wrote is exactly the reason why some men may try the "stadium filled" type of proposal. they think:"she cant possibly turn me down in front of all these people". bold move! as for other public places like restaurants etc, i guess its difficult to find a deserted romantic public place to pop the question. apart from silly stadiums proposals, i doubt "being risky" is something that should come in your mind when proposing, unless your ego is more important than a lifetime of happiness. . . . . . . . . if she says no then you move on. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by 1102(m): 9:44pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
rubbish did i just say rubbish? i meant utter rubbish |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Nobody: 10:01am On Sep 16, 2010 |
Who proposes to a woman in a Satdium? There is nothing remotely romantic about that. If anything, its embarassing. Infact public proposals are embarassing! Be it in hotels, restaurants e.t.c. maybe they really just want to show off or maybe it's just a bad idea they thought might be cool! |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Omolola1(f): 10:27am On Sep 16, 2010 |
Public proposals is sweet! but then if i wont say yes, 2 save him d embarasment i wuld just say, Sweets, let's get home |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by hax: 1:36pm On Sep 18, 2010 |
now why is a guy proposing to a woman he isn't COMPLETELY sure would want to marry him? i can't propose until she pesters me and i know exactly what she wants o. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by sassyril(f): 3:29pm On Sep 18, 2010 |
show-off, i fink evry guy shd knw his gyal som gyals cannot tek such suprises, she myt jst faint b4 u go proposin in d cinema/stadium/supermarket,mek sure she lyks suprises, cos u myt jst get a slap 4 embarrasing her in PUBLIC  |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by r231(m): 4:22pm On Sep 18, 2010 |
^^^^^ ;d ;d ;d ;d :d |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Moonstone(f): 4:57pm On Sep 18, 2010 |
I think it's ridiculous to show off with a public proposal. It's more romantic if you have the biggest diamond ever and a woman who seeks for attention. However, if she is the type to be private, she will be embarrassed and the last thing you need during a proposal is being an embarrassment to your new fiancee. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by iice(f): 5:57pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
Save him public embarrassment? Is he not old enough to know the risk? I think some of these public proposals are romantic, some are show offs. Not for me though. My title to an island is a good way for him to go |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
^^ Typical naija girl right there. "Shower me with gifts to show your luv" |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
I will love public proposal, places like Times Square NY on a New Year Eve and u know what that means. and Niagara Falls. But I think is necessary we are sure of our partner before proposal call it secret, public or private. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:02pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
r231: i wouldnt say it is a show off but i would say it is about showing her how much you love her that you can got down on your knees in the public, i think woman love it
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| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by degubi(m): 7:11pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
To propose to your girl in public means that you must have know that its something she would like, and she has being looking forward to you popping the question. Whether its romantic or show off its really not my business, the important thing is that the question was asked and the appropriate answer was received. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by julianH(m): 7:14pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
@ Poster! You mighty not know this but the truth is that MOST men dont "PROPOSE" when they are not sure of what the answer will be. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
ZIM DRILL: And what does the topic got to do with the nasty picture? |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:43pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
REALITY101: is that what you call nasty |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Moyola(f): 7:47pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
Dozzit matter? juz pop d kweshun whereva yu deemmit appropriate! |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by JudgeDredd: 8:14pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
@ topic: I'm the reserved type, no babe is going to get that kinda proposal from me. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
~~me neither. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by Cutier(f): 9:09pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
Public proposal shows how romantic d guy is and b/4 a can propose to a lady they wuld av gotten 2 a certain level 4 d guy 2 knw d lady's mind b/4 proposing. |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by iice(f): 4:11am On Oct 01, 2010 |
2buff: Who said anything about showing luv? Typical naija man. short circuited  |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by GL(f): 9:21am On Oct 01, 2010 |
i won't say 'yes' to save him from embarrassment, cos he'd have embarrassed me already by proposing publicly. but then, any guy that i'd be considering saying 'YES' to would know me well enough to not propose in public. sirvick:  SMH |
| Re: Public Proposals- Romantic Or Show Off? by InkedNerd(f): 9:30am On Oct 01, 2010 |
I don't mind if their done in public or not so it being romantic or show offy mean nothing to me. As long as its not done at someone's wedding then I have no problem with it. |
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