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Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Topmaike007(m): 3:26pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
TemmyT002:yeah The guy is right 1 Like |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Topmaike007(m): 3:27pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
izeksblog:lolz |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by pansophist(m): 3:29pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Tallesty1: Most men do not understand women, and what they find attractive. Generally, men let money to do the job of what it takes to be a man. By spending money, some think their duty and quality as a man is accomplished, ignoring the attitude and inherent expression of their masculinity. Washing her pant, and enslaving himself to her made him a weak man. He is a classical "beta Male". She will only need his resources not him, and get him dumped the moment he outlived his usefulness. Women generally are not hardwired to find such traits attractive. The only thing he probably has is money, something external. Unless she has no option to optimize her hypergamy, she will flee when the opportunity show up. His suffering is based on his ignorance of women and their behaviour. Unfortunately, he wont be the last victim. 1 Like |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by imitateMe(m): 3:31pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Woman only love and respect guys that don't care about them. Learn bro |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by geedot: 3:31pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
SageMK:Wives also divorces! Just saying. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by pansophist(m): 3:37pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
SageMK: Bro, you are under the assumption that marriage will deter her from being unfaithful. She may seek for divorce, cheat, conceive a bastard child etc. She is just the wrong girl, he made a mistake not observing her over 5 years, read the signs and evacuate when necessary. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by pansophist(m): 3:40pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: How the next babe go take suffer am? No be alpha men women want again ? As in, men wey get their life together and shine in their masculinity? Unless you mean say the next babe no go fit scam am like the previous, then I see the sense. 1 Like |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Donjazzy12(m): 3:41pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
chinambusay:Big Fool! You do domestic chores for a girl, you are cursed with foolishness! |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Nobody: 3:41pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
chinambusay: you pay bill to a yahoo girl for 5 years sorry my brother you have been scammed, either you report to EFCC or Oracle for refund solution. Hope you bleep some share, don't tell ours that five years your waiting to bleep on wedding night. at the other hand she may be destine to be window and God save your life, I sense the soldier may soon send to Sambisa and we know next news. they have power on innocent civilians. |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by pansophist(m): 3:45pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
luminouz: You get it. Women seek strength in men. Back then, men like him would have been killed by a saber toothed tiger, or the first to die to war. He exhibited the traits of a weak man, and it's very unattractive. His expression of washing pant and treating her like his little child (which from his narration, seems like he wants to be applauded for) is an attraction killer to women. As a man, I wont even respect men that does such, I'll see him as an idiot. He got served, I feel sorry for him, but I hope he step up his game and not be a whimp. 1 Like |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by onadana: 3:49pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Tallesty1: He couldn't get her pregnant,yet he wants returns on investment.He should stop weaning that she cheated him,she honestly didn't.He took enough juice from in-between those legs,can he return them. |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by otokx(m): 3:51pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Uyiii: God bless you |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Enny2013(f): 3:56pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Eeeyah!!! Pele... |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by luminouz(m): 4:11pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
pansophist:Now ur the kind of guy OP's gf would fall for.... A real nigga Very apt!!! |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Rubbiish(m): 4:11pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:The bold is not true She wanted to settle down with him, but felt she saw something better, this 98% of you women would do. 98% of women will act same way if in her shoes, including u. |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Sexyolori(f): 4:16pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
my brother, sorry for the way things turned out but before you play the role of sponsor to any lady whom you have intention of marrying later, make her a wife first or else you are simply helping the less privileged. |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Sexyolori(f): 4:19pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
my brother, sorry for the way things turned out but before you play the role of sponsor to any lady whom you intend to marry later, make her a wife first or you are simply helping the less privileged. |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by fastlane84: 4:23pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by GreenArrow2: 4:26pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
No worry. Dem go kill am for Sambisa. 1 Like |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by poseidon12: 4:30pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Mugu, you just dodged a bullet. |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Oddsman(m): 4:30pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Tallesty1: That woman if a wife can still do worse |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by poseidon12: 4:34pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
MariaLavina: Well said. |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by mokane28: 4:46pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Nairalanders una no go kee me hahahahaha Lordvaryx: |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by powerblaze(m): 4:47pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
And you can't even complain well, make the man no beat you join |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Nobody: 4:47pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
wen u involve urself in the training and upkeep of a girl pending wen she graduates for marriage dis is wat u get.if u can sponsor a girl wit d intent of marriage then jus clear matter with her then marry her as u sponsoring her.no need to wait for graduation.anyway i can never involve myself in this type of arrangement. |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Nobody: 4:49pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
MariaLavina:exactly |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Bluemoon2409(f): 5:18pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
TheFacelessMan: Omg Lmao[color=#006600][/color] |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by emkz: 5:25pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Bros, I wont criticize you for being called what some commenters have referred to as "beta-males', whatever the hell that means. Whether you washed her pants (or her pants washed you) or you treated her like a queen; if a girl doesn't like you, she doesn't like you. If you like, screw her over 360 degrees like some folks are saying; if she no like you, she no like you. If she truly liked you, she (and no decent girl) would let her man wash her pants . My best advise, move on. Many of us have been there and we learnt our lessons. We try not to talk about it because it exposes our failings. The respect you get from people is linearly related to the respect you give to yourself. Personal story: I took a girlfriend from someone, and I thought I was champion. I collected my share and someone took her from me and right now, he thinks he's champion. The loop continues... Bottomline, a woman who is sensible would be content. A woman who is disciplined would not lead any man on just for the benefits, especially when you have made your intentions known. Right now, she thinks the military guy is the best. Give her three months and she'd be looking outside again because she's greedy. In other words, dont make a girl who is good enough as a concubine into what she's not wired for. You don't need a greedy woman as wife. |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Nobody: 5:26pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
My broda move on. Your destiny is great. Bear no grudge but be rest assured that ALMIGHTY GOD WILL REWARD YOUR GOOD DEEDS. |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Nobody: 5:28pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
Rubbiish: Including me? Including your mama nko? |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Cityguy: 5:28pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
imitateMe:Strangely this appears to be true. The sad part is that they wouldn't let you rest despite the fact they they have no use for you other than as a comforter or 'listening' friend. They behave ambivalently towards you: you would think they are just yet to get to that level of feeling for you not knowing there's not even a spark to it. |
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Gofwane(m): 5:29pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
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