I don't know how some guys find it easy to do this sh.i.t to ladies.dem guys no get shame ni??if you're broke,it's not totally compulsory you take a girl on a date to an eatery when you know you can't foot her bills when she start eating what catch her fancy there.anyway,me i can't do this to any lady.if am not okay with her,after the date i'd keep her at arms-length.

eleojo23:
This is happening alot now..

To avoid this kind of situation, I think people going on a date should make it clear who is to foot the bill.

And to avoid stories that touch, one partner must make sure that the person footing the bill really has the money in his/her wallet/purse or account.

or better still, share the bill.

No need to shame, it's an era of equality, not so?

I AGREE TO YOUR POINTS !

Our ladies should wise up with the antics of men that they go out with these days.

NOT ALL MEN THAT CALL THEMSELVES MAN IS FIT FOR SUCH A RESPONSIBILITIES

SOME OF THESE MEN ARE A FRAUD.

YOU GOT TO BE CAREFUL.

goodnessme1:
Poor boys everywhere.

Rich girl clap for yourself

Took a girl out and she ordered sprite I had to force her to take something home.
Only happened once in my life .

kingBenedict:
There will never be an era of equality, the fight for equality will not end as long as the man is still the dominant being...

Well, that is a topic for another day...

If you're a broke girl, and (by mistake) I ask you to go out with me, please say NO. I don't roll with your kind.

Amakavula:
Never go out with material men. Those one which show off their cars and blings all the time, they are low key broke.

U dat is high key rich wat stops u from paying? Wat a man can do a woman can even do Better as u feminists claim abi u no know say to leave bill for ur man to pay alone na gender discrimination. Abi Moni dey melt or catch fire if woman wan spend am for man head?
Mtsheew

Nostradamus:
I don't know how some guys find it easy to do this sh.i.t to ladies.dem guys no get shame ni??if you're broke,it's not totally compulsory you take a girl on a date to an eatery when you know you can't foot her bills when she start eating what catch her fancy there.anyway,me i can't do this to any lady.if am okay with her,after the date i'd keep her at arms-length.

Calm down. We don't know exactly what happened, till we hear from the man. Once upon a time - I went out with a girl, and then she boldly started ordering extra food for her sister and cousin at home. Can you beat that? What kind of pathetic loser does that?

If you try this crap with me, I will surely leave your sorry ass there to pay the f**king bills.

Lovelyn451:
Some girls geh mind o...going out without kobo in your bag, and be eating like animal because somebody will pay...awuf dey run belle

that was how i took one babe out wt her friends she said she wanted catfish , I arranged point n kill and after eating the point n kill dis girl get mind put anoder 1500naira bill for my head where she go order for snail without my consent. I use vex buy the whole tray for dem delete her number leave am there go house. And she was looking like someone I wanted to have a serious relationship with.....

koyyes:
Best to start a date in groups before one on one.

Only smart people know this.

So who would pay bill for the group
.

goodnessme1:
Poor boys everywhere.

With Rich girls everywhere

Elbashy:
I wasn't supposed to like you advised but I'm just wondering what zoo you escaped from??

What is this one saying
.

Dear Ladies,
To be frank, to avoid being a victim, whenever you are going for a date ensure you have extra monies in your pocket or purse...
So that when any man runs away, just like the above mentioned case..........
You can clear your bills jeje and go your way.

Colonelswitz101:

that was how i took one babe out wt her friends she said she wanted catfish , I arranged point n kill and after eating the point n kill dis girl get mind put anoder 1500naira bill for my head where she go order for snail without my consent. I use vex buy the whole tray for dem delete her number leave am there go house. And she was looking like someone I wanted to have a serious relationship with.....

na wa o..but dats not fair

goodnessme1:
Poor boys everywhere.

can i also take you out on a date , say orientals or chinese restaurant or any 7star place of ur choice ...

The most annoying ones are those u'll invite 4 a date, next thing they'll come with their friend/friends.

Thats y i love my wife. I remember when we were dating, she was extremely considerate. Na me dey even force her to take big drinks or meals then. Not all these highway robbers dat cnt even afford most of d expensive things they order.

I remember vividly year 2000 that was in Kaduna state I took a lady out I told her let us go to a mini restaurant she refused that cannot eat at a road side restaurant, i said fine and told her good luck to ur new guy and I left her immediately!

ericsmith:




can i also take you out on a date , say orientals or chinese restaurant or any 7star place of ur choice ...

That should be when am back to country.

Colonelswitz101:

that was how i took one babe out wt her friends she said she wanted catfish , I arranged point n kill and after eating the point n kill dis girl get mind put anoder 1500naira bill for my head where she go order for snail without my consent. I use vex buy the whole tray for dem delete her number leave am there go house. And she was looking like someone I wanted to have a serious relationship with.....

na wa o.. rather than being more concern on why you invited them on the date, na food dey their mind...as if na food u come chop for dis life

goodnessme1:
Poor boys everywhere.

Rich ashawo everywhere

mysticgal:
it's so sad that she's been held. what if restaurants make a pay before service policy,maybe it will curb this situation.

What is wrong if you order for what you can pay for or what is wrong in going on a date with your own money

Are you entittled to anybodys money

lilianofentse:
gha?

Lol
Maybe "Ghana"?

The guy is a thief. I think there should be a law against this,this is a criminal behaviour.


If you can't afford a date tell her right away or don't bother at all.

goodnessme1:
Poor boys everywhere.

Na u get money pass?
Its your type that place orders anyhow.
Anu ofia.

Guy man don borrow leg

Maybe she orders heaven n earth on the date.

eleojo23:
This is happening alot now..

To avoid this kind of situation, I think people going on a date should make it clear who is to foot the bill.

And to avoid stories that touch, one partner must make sure that the person footing the bill really has the money in his/her wallet/purse or account.

or better still, share the bill.

No need to shame, it's an era of equality, not so?

Simple thing is to have money in your pocket, you never can tell.

EmekaBlue:
You would have gone to pay then fvck her and say ur goodbyes na

We ended up having sex like two years later. She had begged me after a year or so.

Then came for a party in Lagos and asked to stay over. Came with her friend but being senseless ( I like that girl honestly ) she thought I would vacate my room for her and her friend. Her friend slept in the parlour and we ended in the room. And that was it.

She cooked. Left for the party and I was to pick her up, changed my sim that day until I saw her at a filling station in Ibadan two months ago pretending she doesn't know me when in actual sense I already got over her and married.

We would probably have gone far if she was not senseless.

eleojo23:
This is happening alot now..

To avoid this kind of situation, I think people going on a date should make it clear who is to foot the bill.

And to avoid stories that touch, one partner must make sure that the person footing the bill really has the money in his/her wallet/purse or account.

or better still, share the bill.

No need to shame, it's an era of equality, not so?

I don't think it's an issue of sharing bills. It's seems more of greed. I know how everyone watches their pocket when they go out to eat. No exception here. The lady in question definitely watches her spending and is probably going through what we all are going through. Give them a blank outing and they just order unnecessary stuff because no be their money nor caring how deep the man pocket be. She is probably waiting to go home and tell her friends how the guy na mumu. That is the part that even vexes. Can't u be appreciative without acting entitled? The lady don humble now. Lol.

goodnessme1:
Poor boys everywhere.

The lady wey no fit pay na wetin??


Any.

goodnessme1:
That should be when am back to country.

these is 21st century, distance not a barrier ...we can go on a date via skype ... with the endless night yu spent @ the embassy b4 u get visa i don't think you will come intentionally back to naija .

Amakavula:
Never go out with material men. Those one which show off their cars and blings all the time, they are low key broke.

Some women still get sense self