ladies they say are like flowers that gets attraction and care at their early stage of budding. This reduces as time goes on. For a flower withers and gets thrown out at a point by previous admirers.
Is a lady's life like that?should fear and concern set in for a lady progressing in age above 28yrs without suitors?

Yes of course, she should be scared and terrified of life as a single lady.

Its really bad for women. I have couple of female friends that are 35&above that are still single. They really feel bad&at times question God

Anxiety brings you nothing positive, it rather creates fear which leads to error of judgement. its better to be patient, examines yourself to be sure your are not doin something wrong which may be scaring away potential suitors. However, being single is not a crime don't alloow the culture and beliefs of our society to put you in a bad marriage, if I'm a lady I'll rather be single than get married to a loser

toba:

Its really bad for women. I have couple of female friends that are 35&above that are still single. They really feel bad&at times question God

Because our society makes it so, ask these ladies if they'll like to get married to a man who is a wife beater and see their response. the reality of life is that not everyone will get married afterall.

It is not easy o.

@tonny tox,u're vry wrong,anxiety shld set in wen a lady is in her late 20s,let say 28,30, Av got a sis frnd when she was in her 20s she's jst been 2herself,selecting n choosing d fresh n gud guyz.gurls in early 20s wants guys with exotic cars,yahoo boys,thievs n without knowing d source.to av a responsible family isnt by money,though money plays a vital role, many ladies has thrown away there partners because of material things, @29, 30s they want a husband. The sis am talkin of is stil in her fathers house,just eating,she'l be 36 by nxt yr.wen is she gonna hav a grand chld wen @36 her colleaques children are in sec sch,

Opening a marriage agency in Nigeria will soon be big business.

There was one that will not date anybody without a car,now she is smiling at every guy just to be nice.Material wealth played a role in many of them.

tunnytox:

Because our society makes it so, ask these ladies if they'll like to get married to a man who is a wife beater and see their response. the reality of life is that not everyone will get married afterall.

is not all men that are wife beaters. Its just becoming a currently happening now are days. At least 2 of the over 5 of them that we finished our Post graduate together are willing to get married to me, whilst really older than myself with between 5-10 years. When they explained their ordeal, i really feel pity for them

At Poster: I don’t agree with that. You don't have to worry, only insecure women would feel that way. Before, people used to think that you are undesirable or nobody wants you when you reached that age. But now, it means that you're taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.

Anyhow, being single does not make you a loser and having a partner would neither assure you of having a happy life.

I have an aunt that was over 30 and couldnt get a man on time. Its not like she was choosing and dropping and i dont really know what her condition was. thank God she had to settle for an old papa. Hope they find happiness

Some of you people act like marriage defines a woman's entirety, that without man, she is doomed! Interesting views!

^^^ SAgoddess please dont even start, i have respect for you and dont try to lose it now, not today.
What else define a woman if not marriage, please think deep before you talk, i still respect you anyway.

MOBO444:

^^^ SAgoddess please dont even start, i have respect for you and dont try to lose it now, not today.
What else define a woman if not marriage,[i][/i] please think deep before you talk, i still respect you anyway.

Dude

I never asked for your respect MOBO so I would be alive still if I lost it!

So marriage defines a woman's life to you? Which cave did you just come out of? Mxwwm! Your village is missing you man!

^^^ Thats it, all gone now, the respect i have for you is all gone, just like that, all in a moment it all gone now.

*Sobbing real hard* You were the last person that respected me and I have lost you too, I am so sad *sobbing even louder*

MOBO, go jump off the nearest cliff, see if I care! Your opinion of me means absolutely NOTHING!

Yes fish is to water

as marriage is to women!!

sirmseen:

I have an aunt that was over 30 and couldnt get a man on time. Its not like she was choosing and dropping and i dont really know what her condition was. thank God she had to settle for an old papa. Hope they find happiness

I'm happy for her . .

190 and Omolola, you guys make me laugh, always posting after one another and following each other around, very sweet! Reminds me another couple

^^
Yes i so much love her,

I was looking @ her facebook pics last nite and i slept off,

I think im fallin in love wiv her each passin day more and more!

That is very sweet 190, wish you guys all the best! As long as you are happy with each other!

She should jump off a bridge and kill herself

She's got nothing to be worried about, her man is waiting out there for her when the time comes and i think its time to get off this household superstition or worried there is always someone for everyone.