hensben:
Women are not polygamous in nature but men, this is the reason women are cool been a second or third wife, even sixth wife like Regina Daniels as far as the good things of life are available. But can never be cool with been the second or third husband. Infact, once a man know you have a boyfriend he can never take you serious, he will just been using you for sexual satisfaction.

Saffi:
Men cannot handle cheating partners mentally like women do and that is just the truth. If you tell him now, the thought of you opening your legs to another man will constantly play in his head when he looks at you, which will eventually ruin your marriage. As a woman, if you cheat on your husband, you must take it to the grave otherwise you have yourself to blame.

To the sex part, encourage your hubby to look appealing for you. Work out together, eat well, mould him into the man that you want him to be physically. Tell him what you want him to do in bed. There’s only so much you can do, but for the sake of your vows and your home, good sex is really not worth it. You have to mentally train yourself to avoid temptation, that is the only way to stay faithful. And realistically most couples go through this at one point, so don’t beat yourself up too much. Dust your shoulders and do better and do not risk your family and your marriage for prick again. It is a temporary satisfaction and You will regret it.

wifeesnatcher:
May I not meet a brainless adulterous lady like you. A lady her emotions dictate to her psychological traits




Some men are scum, I'm sure he pester you go into marriage with him. You convince a lady into relationship you don't pester or persuade her


Olosho will always be olosho

ikhileomotayo:


Brother you took the words out of my mouth. The only time I consider my girl to be mine is when she is with me. Once she goes to her place I zero my mind and just feel she could be in someone else's hands. You cant trust these ladies anymore, sad,sad,sad

Hedonini:
The thing most of these stupid women (and they're in the majority) don't realize is that sexual attractiveness is like a whiff of smoke in the wind... Sexual performance is a trifle.

The only reason why the guy performed like a stallion is because of the 'first time' thrill of demystifying you. The evil thrill of seeing his married colleague naked before him and having the pleasure of tossing her around and drilling her. This kind of mental tonic does wonders for a man's libido. But it only lasts the first and maybe second time. Soon enough, that novelty effect would wane, and he would start seeing you for the flabby, intolerable 'married woman' slob that you are. By that time he would barely be able to get an erection with you, and even before that, he would manufacture excuses to avoid your sleazy ass. The only exemption to this would be if you're a sugar mummy who doles out loads of money to him, in which case he would prepare himself mentally and physically (with sex enhancers), before performing his lucrative 'duty' each time.

I can't remember how many females I've been in similar situation with - even much younger, single and seemingly attractive ones. First and second time I am enthusiastically thrusting and tossing, pumping and puffing, and shattering everything there is to shatter with no retreat and no surrender. But by the third or fourth encounter, I'm tired of her and even the sight of her greasy face makes my intrument limp in disgust. If, by my first performance, she concludes that her boyfriend or husband is history because she has met a charming 'stallion' to hold on to for life, then the dust soon clears from her eyes.

trapQ:
Do you what prostitute means? Does she prostitute herself for money? You idiots crucify women for doing 1% of what you applaud men for. una go dey alright.

Strech:
For a woman to allow a man bang her, then there must be some emotional feelings attached. That is why it is impossible for a man to forgive a cheating wife. In real sense there is nothing like one night stand for a woman. My advice to young men!! Never marry for love, marry for mutual benefits. All women are HOES. Xcluding my family members.

wifeesnatcher:


Can you give an applaud if your son's wife do this to your son mumu..

Why married someone that's unattractive to you if not that you're dumb and stupid. In fact the prostitute na understatement, she's a mere sex machine that deserve no marital dividends


May God upgrade your sense of reasoning

akinbode1:
I hate someone like you!!!
Your a bad woman and a murderer.......
#Ashewo##Ashewo#

trapQ:
Fool. Learn to read comprehend and then respond only when you have something sensible to say. Otherwise shut the fvck up and go back to chasing shadows.

tessytessy:
OP,

Thanks for sharing your problems here. You are human at most. However, the problem is that, you are hooked on that sex like opium. Two things will happen; its either you tell your husband or you tell a close friend who will ensure this ends. Trust me it will not end with a transfer, it will not end with blocking him. The problem is, if your husband gets to find out, your life will be messed up, your kids life will be messed up. Your parents will never respect you again.

Its better to hit a night stand with a stranger (if the thing dey hold you badly) than to be in a relationship with a colleugue.

I saw this happen to a couple, whose wife was hooked up to her EX. The discovery shattered that home for good. The woman lost her job, husband lost his job. Kids had to withdraw from the high brow school. Once those kids discover why their lives became messed up they will never , ever forgive you.

Forget about that guy and face your husband. You will be amazed that your husband can even toss your body upandown but he feels you are too holy for that sh*t. Madam, just talk tour husband. Adultery never ends well. You might even get pregnant,

Marbella003:
I have a main account but I decided to create this one to post this in order to avoid embarrassment or reveal my identity.

I got married 4 years ago to my husband. He was in his 40s and I was in my 20s. The age difference between us has never really been a problem as we are both educated, well spoken, have similar personalities and share a lot of interests, and as a result we mesh well. My husband is a very caring and thoughtful man. This is one of the traits that made me fall helplessly for him, along with his intelligence and fun personality. I will not reveal anything pertaining to kids as this might punch a hole in my wall of anonymity.

I've always loved my husband and I still do. But I've never really been sexually attracted to him. This is not to say that I find him unattractive. No. He is okay as far as physical appearance goes, but his look has never been the kind to turn me on sexually. To put it plainly, I find that I'm only sexually attracted to young men around my age with tall, athletic bodies and with the energy and agility to please a woman satisfyingly in the bedroom. I met this kind of man in my work place and after we talked a few times I couldn't help but become attracted to him. I realized he was also attracted me, and fast forward to a week ago, we had sex in a hotel room.

I'm ashamed to admit that sex with him was glorious, but it truly was. It was better than anything I had ever done with my husband. I loved how he tossed me around the bed and did stuff to me that my husband doesn't do and I liked how ever part of his body felt firm and strong. After the act I felt a wave of shame wash over me. I recognized that I had committed an atrocity and I knew I had broken my marriage vows. The guilt of what I had done followed me around like a stench. I hated myself for betraying a man that had always loved and cared for me.

The problem I now face is that despite the guilt and the shame I constantly feel, I still yearn to experience another period of sexual bliss with my colleague. I can't help it. I'm torn. I already told my colleague that that one time was the last but deep down I don't want it to be. I know that if I tell my husband about what I did, that it would mark the end of my relationship with my colleague, but I don't know exactly how my husband would receive this information. I don't want him to look at me and see a betrayer of trust; a woman lacking integrity and virtue. No. I even thought of resigning from my job or requesting a transfer so as not to be in close proximity with my colleague but I know that wouldn't solve anything as I still have his social media info and occasionally stalk him(yes I do). I'm so conflicted. I don't know what to do.

trapQ:
Do you know how many of those women in polygamous marriages have side dudes outside. Well y'all can keep consoling yourselves with the lies.

trapQ:
Do you know how many of those women in polygamous marriages have side dudes outside. Well y'all can keep consoling yourselves with the lies.

truthsayer009:


Spot on! I use to say this to people, everyone thinks I'm childish. "If you spend enough time with a Guy & you don't naturally feel like Fvcking him, he ain't the one". Irrespective of whether it is a no-sex relationship or not, once the thought never comes in. Bye!

There is this line I read upto 10 times, Chaiii the thing sweet me die.


I can bet my 1 month salary on it that she will go back for Round 2, Round 3 even 4. Usually at 7 is where It stops, as my Pastor use to say, 7 is the number of perfection.

Investmentfreak:
I don’t know how this will sound, men need to ask their women about their sexual life (past present and future)make her confide in you... from the above essay,the man is a good man but he’s lacking in zaoza room.... The shame should be on the old man.

Now imagine if the both of them communicate soul ,body and spirit!! The man would have hired a stud to service his wife (don’t tell me Love Machine,the pleasure ain’t same) first world countries are practically doing this and it’s working..


CONCLUSION: if you are a cuckold man,get your wife a stud to straff her once in a while, or even engage her in sexcapades, party and gangbangs...no matter how good you think you are in bed, Females always need more..


Reference: kindly call adam and ask for the full gist about his wife eve that slept with a serpent

trapQ:
Stupid like your mother right?

virago:


Not like that for we ladies , the more the sex with him the more drawn we are to him , it is however the reverse for men

sisisioge:


I should just send this to someone I know! A huge age difference eventually turns out to be a big deal once a woman attains the level the older guy could afford her. In the next 12yrs,Regina Daniels would be a lovely 31yrs old rich hot chick while her husband would be an old man who wouldn't be able to please her at 71yrs! Anything above 5yrs is plentiful fa.
That's why you missed the young body.

As for your husband, he will find out soon enough and divorce you. You kuku do not find him sexually attractive before and what's the use of a marriage without sexual attraction? Good luck.