Kelvinj:

This poster is full of bull SHI T for all i care, her story filled with fabrications. Hey tracy or whatever your name is what even makes u think u have the quality any man wants? FU CK am So pissed.
1 WORD: UPGRADE GIRL

samoks:

Tracygirl,

And how close are you to GOD? Sit back and think over it, is God really your best friend? How many times do you communicate with him? He is the only solution to your singleness.

Rymzo:

Where is d poster?

chikeorji123:

she is just pulling our leg,l'm sure she is not 25 neither 30.Buy the way,for you to have a quality man,u must also be quality b/c these -
type of men have their owned standard. OR why can't u post your picture?

Desireena:

I was feeling you while reading your unhappiness because I was like here is somebody that knows exactly how loneliness feels but girlfriend along the way I could not feel you any longer because you have somethings wrong wrong but I am not angry with you because you are such a baby. Just like somebody mentioned here if you stick to that your checklist and even the improved checklist you may have to wait another 25 years to find him sweetheart.
I am 34. I consider myself a very good wife material because I am domesticated, have a heart for others and love God and I am praying that soon enough the man God has for me will get lucky and find me. I was busy trying to graduate from the university and when I did finally graduate and started working a very good job. The suitors I had were more in love with my good job than me. The marketing job on the other hand was driving me nuts with all forms of pressures both sexual advances from clients and pressures from superiors so I quit and left Naija to another country where Life changed dramatically.While waiting to get a work permit before I can get a decent job, I worked security, subway restaurant etc took all kind of maltreatment from people of that country who feel that you should not work with them. There are Nigerian doctors  here of course but my dear who wants to marry a security officer. Right now, I have my permit to work and now works a job a bit decent for an Engineer but this natural longing for a family is as frustrating as you said dear.So you see this is how the years ran up on me and as you can also see I have seen the up(when men gravitate to you because of your large pay package) and downside of life(when men gravitate away from you because you seem to be below their class).  Again the fact that I kept myself way into my thirties before experimenting with sex contributed to it all because most men that come around do not hang on if you are not having sex with them.
  I understand the longings of your heart dear because there's nothing we ladies can do but wait for a man to come and marry us. The deductions I made from your write-up showed me that you are an intelligent and beautiful young lady but you seem to have a little pride which had your expectations from a man too unrealistic.  I agree with you that one must be attracted to who one wants to spend the rest of their life with.There's nothing wrong with knowing what you are worth and wanting respect and kindness from your man but there's something wrong with thinking that you are worth more than certain people Baby. You need not cross out certain kind of men, you can meet a very intelligent man  that have some but not all these qualities but he happen to be short so out he goes out of your list , you can also meet a tall, dark handsome hottie just the way you like em but he lacks in other dept so that is how you will keep being choosy. I am an Engineer but I don't look down on any Nigerian man,  I have dated the unschooled trader, a crippled and a near blind school mates have even indicated their interest to have me. You know why because I mingled with them and accepted them as friends. The man for you may be stocked up in a short body and there you are waiting for a hunky man, which reminds me that the first time I became fully aware that I am tall was the day somebody complimented my long legs, it meant nothing to me that I am tall.
I can see that both of us are suffering from the natural Baby blues but girlfriend you need to come down from that tree and meet me down here for a tete-a-tete and do make away with that improved checklist of yours because the truth is there's no one man with all those attributes. Physical appearance is not all that makes a man. Give me a man that has a heart for God, a man that respects himself and others and I can check and balance the rest and see whether we are compatible enough.If he is so short that his hugs won't go all around me, I will give him much hugs that will be enough for the two of us. If he can't be hunky for me, I will be the hunk for the two of us. If he is too thin, I will feed him and he will hunk and macho up for us. Now let me stop lest I  make you regret the ones you have rejected in the past that you nicknamed "a** holes". Girlfriend you gotta get that rose tinted coloured glass out of your eyes to be able to recognise a goodly man when he finally arrives. Now Tracy quit being a baby and grow up girl.

Vic2k3:

**folds arms** U've seen how they tore u limb by limb 4 your too high expectations.

blank:

Tracey, u are a big time liar. U said u are honest n u don't tell lies dat is why u are looking 4 an honest man. How come on d first page u said u were in South Africa now u are a Nigerian living in Abuja? U can go ahead n modify your post cos I am using my phone so I can't quote it. If you can contradict urself in a single thread n even admit dat some are exaggerations den it calls into question all your posts. I think you are an attention seeker.

In response 2 your topic, I hope u get your heart's desire.

Inked_Nerd:


I see where you are coming from with this. I like the whole feeling of weddings and blissfulness as well. Where is it that you meet the men that you date? And if you don't mind me asking, what country do you currently live in?

Tracey121:

Im in South Africa,

Vic2k3:

Quote from: Tracey121 on Today at 10:56:05 am

Oh yeah.

I hope that didn't get u frustrated the more. Btw I've reread tru this thread and deducted that u're a nice girl who doesn't know how to show it. Jxt be natural and don't feel toooo beautiful. <<cos it doesn't help trust me

blank:

Your word is as good as poo to me cos you av shown yourself 2 be a liar.

Vic2k3:

Sa by now your leave plans must hve been perfected i tink? Or are u calling it off?

SA Goddess:

Waiting for boss to sign off my leave, paper work done already!

But Tracey, how come you said you were in SA then Abuja, which one is true?

Yorisb:

Discrepancy comes to mind.

She's just havin a laugh, sadly some peeps took him her serious.
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Neither, trust me wen I say this.

SA Goddess:

Someone having a bit of cyber fun I guess, she did say she was happy with the amount of responses so maybe she wanted to see how far this thread would do!

Now someone is using er tongue to count er teeth. . .need I say more? 


Chin Chin

cretin:

Hi tracey.goin tru your post.i see dat we r in allmost having de same dilenma.just dat am male.here is my cellphone nos.
08135051427.send me a txt./call.
I blv de interaction wud b mutually illuminating&beneficial 2 us.
Nb.i aint asking u out.i just feel u r a kindred spirit
Ciao.

cretin:

copy it out.cos am gonna take it down in a few.cos of spammers /haters.