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Hairdresser Commits Suicide Over Disagreements With Boyfriend In Lagos by ExAngel007(f): 9:44am On May 04, 2019
A 26-year-old hairdresser, Kenile Nwabuzor, has
reportedly committed suicide after her boyfriend identified as David, called off their two year relationship on April 11th.

Punch reports that David in an inteview, said he
met Kenile shortly after her mother's death and
that they had a rocky relationship as she felt
inferior to him because she was a secondary
school leaver.

On April 11th after they called off their
relationship, Kenile reportedly sent him a
text lamenting he had made life miserable for her
and that she would soon kill herself.


“She was my girlfriend and I loved her so
much. We started dating each other
about two years ago. She was not that
literate, but I told her it didn’t matter.
When we met, she was in distress. Her
mother just died then and she was living
alone. She said she could not live
without her mother. Her brothers are
based in Ghana, but they usually sent her
money.

“She told me she finished secondary
school, but I don’t think so. I really
wanted to help her improve on her
education. She easily got angry and if
she had a disagreement with someone,
she might not talk to that person again
for years. As our relationship continued, I
tried to correct her. I persuaded her to
be going to church and bought a Bible for
her. We usually had disagreements over
petty issues.

“If we had a misunderstanding, I could be
in her house for hours begging her and
she would not say anything. If I decided
to go, that would be another fight. At
times, the misunderstanding would last
for days.

Because of the nature of my job, I have
girls around me. She would be
complaining that I was going out with
them. I tried to tell her that she needed
to trust me. I also saw boys around her
because she was beautiful, yet I trusted
her.

Recently, she said I didn’t love her again.
She changed her phone’s password to
deny me access to her phone. She
accused me of sleeping with women. It
was true many ladies wanted me to ask
them out, but I ignored them” he said
David explained that four days before she killed
herslef, she had missed Nwabuzor’s calls while on
an assignment at an event. He said he got back
home late that day and returned her calls, but she
did not pick them. When he eventually got
through to her the next day, she started insulting
him and he ended the call.


“She sent me text messages, but I didn’t
reply. On Tuesday, I went to her house to
return the charger she lent me and when
I was about to leave, she returned all the
things I had bought for her. That night,
she sent a text message to me, saying
that I had stopped loving her since
December 2018 when we had fun at
different places. She said she was no
longer interested in the relationship. In
my reply, I told her she was free to find
her peace anywhere else. On Wednesday
morning, I thought about everything
again. I knew she was depressed and I
had been the person encouraging her. I
sent her another message, begging her.

Most times, she would be the one to say
she was not interested in the relationship,
yet she would be crying. I was always
the one saying sorry.

“That Thursday, she came to our house
for the first time and met with my
parents. That was the day my father
knew her as my girlfriend. She reported
me to him and said she was no longer
interested in the relationship. My father
sought my opinion and I said I didn’t have
any comment.

“She started crying. She called one of
her brothers and told him she was
coming to Ghana. My father is a
clergyman. He tried to counsel her. As
my father was talking to her, she was
crying. At a point, she stood up and left.
Afterwards, I left for my workplace.”


David said he later sent a text message to him,
saying “You want to kill me; I will help you kill
myself. Thank you for making my life a hell.”
He said immediately after he read the message,
he took a motorcycle and headed to her house.

“On getting there, I peeped from her
window and saw her body dangling on a
rope tied to the ceiling. I shouted and
barged into her room. Her neighbours
helped me loose the rope while I brought
her down. She was already heavy, but I
was not feeling the weight. I was not in
my right senses again. I took her on a
motorcycle to a nearby hospital. She was
referred to Randle General Hospital. A
doctor confirmed her dead on arrival. I
called her brother and relations. The
police arrested me and detained me for
two days. They said I should not have
brought her down,” he said
Kenile was buried on Saturday, April 13 which
was David’s 26th birthday.


Confirming the incident, the Lagos State Police
Public Relations Officer, DSP Bala Elkana, said the
police had received a distress call from the
general hospital that one Kenile Nwabuzor was
brought in dead by her boyfriend.

“Preliminary investigation revealed that
the lady had earlier sent a text message
to her boyfriend that she would kill
herself. Her corpse was removed and
deposited in the Lagos Mainland Hospital
morgue.” Bala said


https://punchng.com/lagos-hairdresser-commits-suicide-over-disagreements-with-boyfriend/

Re: Hairdresser Commits Suicide Over Disagreements With Boyfriend In Lagos by StarboyQ(m): 9:53am On May 04, 2019
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Re: Hairdresser Commits Suicide Over Disagreements With Boyfriend In Lagos by GraGra247(m): 9:54am On May 04, 2019
Until we hear her side of the story.
Re: Hairdresser Commits Suicide Over Disagreements With Boyfriend In Lagos by Divay22(f): 9:54am On May 04, 2019
GraGra247:
Until we hear her side of the story.
You can goan join her undecided

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Re: Hairdresser Commits Suicide Over Disagreements With Boyfriend In Lagos by Nobodyperson: 9:55am On May 04, 2019
Rip afonja
Re: Hairdresser Commits Suicide Over Disagreements With Boyfriend In Lagos by GraGra247(m): 9:58am On May 04, 2019
Divay22:

You can goan join her undecided

You sound like an enemy using a different moniker. Else there's no reason for this type of reply when I'm supporting your fellow female.
Re: Hairdresser Commits Suicide Over Disagreements With Boyfriend In Lagos by Divay22(f): 10:22am On May 04, 2019
GraGra247:


You sound like an enemy using a different moniker. Else there's no reason for this type of reply when I'm supporting your fellow female.
How can you hear her own side of the story when she's dead? (it hurts me that she gave up)
You wanna hear her own side, then go join her.



Bye.
Re: Hairdresser Commits Suicide Over Disagreements With Boyfriend In Lagos by GraGra247(m): 10:47am On May 04, 2019
Divay22:

How can you hear her own side of the story when she's dead? (it hurts me that she gave up)
You wanna hear her own side, then go join her.



Bye.

Definitely an enemy.
Re: Hairdresser Commits Suicide Over Disagreements With Boyfriend In Lagos by catwalq(f): 11:26am On May 04, 2019
GraGra247:


Definitely an enemy.

Lolzzz

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