The decision to marry Steve was meant to save so many things ,but it ended up distabilizing and destroying so much .

I am all alone battling every force that come my way.



Everybody is against me, Steve, his family, my family ,our circle of friends, even known and unknown forces.

What was my offence?
I gave one pint of my blood to my ex boyfriend, my own blood!!

Ernest was my school boyfriend, we had plans to get married but midway into our NYSC, Steve showed. Up,
To be frank,I had no much love for Steve, he was a likeable young man full of energy and vitality, he was doing very well in his business and he had enough to give me a comfortable living,So I decided to leave Ernest and marry Steve, I felt Steve had brighter plan and future for. me.Ernest was a fresh graduate just like me, he had a lot of plans but had none going on yet.

Ernest was heartbroken, but I had issues to sort out in my family.
My mum and Dad earned little from their teaching Job, as educated as they were, they didn't plan their family, my mum had Seven of us, 5 girls and two boys, I was the oldest, I knew how I managed to get through school, from my high school I did holiday Jobs, worked at petrol stations and shops for peanuts .




It was looking blank for my younger siblings, they kept waiting years.after high school to seek for university admission in order to give spaces for one another so my parents can cope with the funding.

Nobody does anything for anybody. my uncles were all training their children ,we had to manage the available resources within our reach.
These were what I considered before I made that decision to marry Steve.

It was not like me and Ernest didn't have something good, far from it, our love was amazing,we shared fantastic moments together, it was painful and hard for me, deciding to leave him, but I chose to live for the moment.
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Omalee:
The decision to marry Steve was meant to save so many things ,but it ended up distabilizing and destroying so much .

I am all alone battling every force that come my way.



Everybody is against me, Steve, his family, my family ,our circle of friends, even known and unknown forces.

What was my offence?
I gave one pint of my blood to my ex boyfriend, my own blood!!

Ernest was my school boyfriend, we had plans to get married but midway into our NYSC, Steve showed. Up,
To be frank,I had no much love for Steve, he was a likeable young man full of energy and vitality, he was doing very well in his business and he had enough to give me a comfortable living,So I decided to leave Ernest and marry Steve, I felt Steve had brighter plan and future for. me.Ernest was a fresh graduate just like me, he had a lot of plans but had none going on yet.

Ernest was heartbroken, but I had issues to sort out in my family.
My mum and Dad earned little from their teaching Job, as educated as they were, they didn't plan their family, my mum had Seven of us, 5 girls and two boys, I was the oldest, I knew how I managed to get through school, from my high school I did holiday Jobs, worked at petrol stations and shops for peanuts .




It was looking blank for my younger siblings, they kept waiting years.after high school to seek for university admission in order to give spaces for one another so my parents can cope with the funding.

Nobody does anything for anybody. my uncles were all training their children ,we had to manage the available resources within our reach.
These were what I considered before I made that decision to marry Steve.

It was not like me and Ernest didn't have something good, far from it, our love was amazing,we shared fantastic moments together, it was painful and hard for me, deciding to leave him, but I chose to live for the moment.
http://www.omaleeblog.com/2019/01/i-can-understand-my-husbands-emotional.html?m=1

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