I have been wondering about this for quite a long time: women always say they want this kind of man and this and that but when they find him they run scared!!!!!!
1. They say they want a man that knows how to cook but when they meet such person, they panick and run away probably because the man cook better than them!!!
2. They say they want an educated man but when they meet an educated and intelligent man, they run because they cannot dominate, trick such man or don't know how to discuss and negotiate with such partner
3. They say they want a classy man that knows how to dress and handle himself, when they meet him, they run because they ask themselves if they will be able to handle such guy or be at his level
4. They say they want a neat guy that  know how to clean his apartment but when they meet him they run because they cannot clean their own
5. They say they want a serious guy but when they meet him they run because they are asking themselves if they can be serious themselves

I wonder where we are going with that attitude? Do they ever know what they want?

Women, it's in the first sentence

Good points, basically your say what we always knew,"WOMAN CAN'T MAKE UP THEIR MINDS!!!!"

But men are confused souls too, you know. They get whatever they say they want in a gurl, but still chase after some more gurls. They're even worse than females by far.

Rocktation:

But men are confused souls too, you know. They get whatever they say they want in a gurl, but still chase after some more gurls. They're even worse than females by far.

^^^Men are consistent,  what you see is what you get.  Woman, we have no idea what they want.  One moment they want something, go gossip to friends come back and want something else.  Watch out for PMS,  they really loss.  Also they get insecure and not sure, cause they so scary
Men just give up and stick to your own decisions.  Let them babble on and feel like they the queen.  Don't take it personal, they can't help it.

Inked_Nerd:


Sorry, didn't see that part. Anyway, are all women like this? What's up with the generalization? Your say women rather than some women which to me is an indication that you are grouping us all together.

I bet it is general. i've never met a women that didn't run away from those things. Either heard from friends or my from my own experience. It's just a big mess.

Inked_Nerd:

Well, not all women are like that. Some of you men think we're all out to get you or something.

Inked Nerd, we don't think for a second that you are out to get us. We want you to know what you really want not what you think you want. In NYC you meet a lady they will give you a list of all the quality they want. you are as close as possible to the requirements and now they get scared, they panick and cause you all the problem of the woeld.

Inked_Nerd:

Can you please stop saying they? At what point in time did we all become one person?

LOL i guess you don't want to be in the lot, Do you know what you want?

Inked_Nerd:


I have an idea of what I want and I am very much aware of the fact that I may not always get what I want. Some of you men need to keep that in mind as well.

That is true that you might not get what you want. But we should be able to get or meet somebody that meet at least 70 to 80% of our criteria. An idea is not just enough because when you meet a good one you will focus so much on the unecessary that it will be a missed opportunity. Educated men knows exactel what they want because they don't wanna waste their time.

Yeeeeeeeeesh I'm gonna have to use all my strength to explain this to you in the least insulting way
possible. Do not group women together in a way like this.Why are you guys always looking for ways to blame the female species?
It makes me so God d*mn angry. So what if (some) Women are complex, there are some men equally confused about what they want.
You people cut the stereotype already this is all getting so boring. 'Women this' 'women that '




Nuff said.

rokiatu:

Yeeeeeeeeesh I'm gonna have to use all my strength to explain this to you in the least insulting way
possible. Do not group women together in a way like this.Why are you guys always looking for ways to blame the female species?
It makes me so God d*mn angry. So what if (some) Women are complex, there are some men equally confused about what they want.
You people cut the stereotype already this is all getting so boring. 'Women this' 'women that '

Nuff said.

Simple fact that you are getting angry over just a discussion topic means that truth hit home. Generally men knows if they want sex or want relationship, .

iice:

Errhh who is the man who has all those qualities. I want to make him my 2nd husband

People in general don't know their minds. But it's more common with women.

mmm I'm right here!!! But what quality do you have? lmao

At least you do agree with me that it's more common with women!!!! what's the remedy? lol lol lol

Not knowing what you want whether in females or males is dependant on your AGE. As we mature and experince life rubbing off us in so many ways, we begin to discover certain aspects and attributes of our personailty, our likes and dislikes, preferences, that which appalls and attracts us, that which inspires and humbles us, our strength and weaknesses, our frailities and capabilities. These discoveries assists us to sift through the the rumble of our lives so that we are able to finanlly discover what our hearts long for.

A man or woman knowing what they want is a continous process. We just have to bear with each other since we are still being moulded everyday of our lives.