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Break up's, misunderstanding, and unresolved issues so prevalence. as a result of mispriority.

Societal definition of date
(for men)
inviting a lady to an eartery or mall spoiling her with drinks, foods and gifts with the intention of getting them back via sex.

(For women)
A time to be in your best attire, invite your friends, and be ready to order as many food as you can especially one's you've always craved for.

This is why relationship today hardly last, two people would start a relationship and before you say Jack, they've already splitted. One complains of sex, the other complains of money.

The true definition of date.
A date is a romantic arrangement between two individuals with similar interest usually make and female with the intention of getting acquainted with each other, getting to understanding each other better and then deciding whether or not to move their friendship to the next level.

You are wrong if you are inviting your friends except it is a group date or he requests you that.

You are wrong if you are trying to order everything in the bid of "chopping him".it only portrays lack of self control. Some people might call it "smartness" but I call it lack of self control and manners. First impression they say matters a lot, he may not have known you for long but your attitude on the first dates speaks more about you. And would definitely send so much signals to him.

The truth is that so many people have driven their spouse to be with this single attitude. Not that he doesn't have much to spend, but he would see it as big turn off being with a woman who forgets herself at the sight of catfish . A woman who is not afraid to thread her value for pizza and barbeque. He will be like "if she can't portray discipline here" then what happens when faced with bigger challenges or scenarios.

Try to respect yourself. When asked to place an order, do that in respectful way that signifies you are well cultured. Appreciate what you are offered with and be contended. Request for another only only if you were asked to. (I.. e if need be). Be cautious at this stage, remember this is also a part of getting to know you. Don't thread permanent gain with temporal benefits.

For guys.
a date is not a time of arranging for the best hotels or guest house to have fun. It is not a time to make sexual or romantic advances either. It is just a time to talk, have a better understanding of the one you actually want to date. You equally need self control at this period. You must not display your sexual libido. That's why your house or any secluded place may not be an idea venue for the date.
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