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How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Omoh... I know I'm not supposed to be worried but I have to Whenever a guy approaches me,no matter how nice and lovely he looks, All I think is,he just wants to explore my pussie and move on..and gbamm I'll just ghost him and this goes on with every guy I meet. I've had failed relationships, infact the last one ended when I discovered my ex bf was cheating on me with my cousin that I'm four years older than and I'm sure that I've moved on completely but I don't seem to trust any guy any longer The way I reject men who approach me cos all I think is "he only wants to fvck you, nothing else" is sooo alarming, and I fear if I continue like this,I may not marry How do I change this mentality? How do I change my mindset about men abeg? 52 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Zonefree(m): 9:31pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
But, there's nothing special about your kpekus na 522 Likes 31 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by unikprince(m): 9:33pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by ProDigitals: 9:34pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
You've overcome it already. Since you've observed the pattern, you can watch your habits more closely moving forward. 98 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by illicit(m): 9:35pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Explore Is ur pussi that deep and wide as the grand canyon 151 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by DrFunmisticGlow: 9:36pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Try going to a relationship counselor 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by samwash(m): 9:37pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
You have that mentality because all you think relationship is all about is sex, nothing but sex. No other things to offer/contribute again in a relationship other than sex 262 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Ahmed0336(m): 9:38pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
You need to do away with that mindset and give love another shot. You'd be fine. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by rickpat(m): 9:38pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Preshieben:maintain an open mindset... mingling doesn't mean you will end up in anybody's bed. Be patient and reserved...wait till the guy makes moves regarding to sex...don't be too judgemental...just wait...and while mingling also bring up issues pointing towards "NO SEX".. and see the guy that would stay and the ones that would leave... 69 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Candidlady: 9:41pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Preshieben: Your mind can never deceive you... You wanna change from peace to trouble/wars/problem etc!! Na wa.. They all wanna smash you Not just smash they wanna ruin you.. Chop you clean mouth then tell you bye bye!!! Mr dbanj words!!! Better comot for sun enter shade sister!! 16 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Blunttruth: 9:41pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Preshieben: Don't change it. That's pretty much how guys are, it's safer to assume the worse then be pleasantly surprised. Just keep it at a friendship level until you are convinced that the guy wants something serious. You should be able to differentiate a f.u.q. k boy and a serious minded mind. 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by AfroKnight: 9:42pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
The problem is with you. 1. You keep choosing such guys and overlooking decent guys who value you. Or 2. You do things that make guys get tired of you. I feel it’s both. 62 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Dawn91(m): 9:43pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
[s] Preshieben:[/s] Asking a woman to change her mentality is like asking gays like henrydion to stop sucking dick 18 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Cadamlk: 9:44pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
You have the answers and yet you still want to sample our opinions. How do you get there when you don't try Bia, don't disturb our airspace again. Na you first get heartbreak 99% of people experience heartbreak at a point in their life and it is applicable to both gender. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Kobojunkiee: 9:45pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Preshieben:You change your mindset by first regaining your self confidence, gaining understanding of what it is you really want in a man and out of a relationship, seek therapy or counseling if your have to. So that when you eventually get back out there, you are confident you have your chips in order to help you maneuver the game without getting unnecessarily played. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Candidlady: 9:46pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
rickpat: Eventually the guy will still make the move.. So why waste time with him... Sandra didn't lie in her book that all men want sex while women want love!!! OP all they want is FORK like someone who bout to eat spaghetti !! RUN SISTER 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Vinnie2000(m): 9:47pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
OP, U need to come to terms with d fact that No man is completedly perfect! He either a smoker, drinker, womanizer, porn addict, hypocrite, etc! So stop over expecting and manage any good brother dat woos you! 12 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by ProDigitals: 9:47pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Candidlady: So how then do people marry if it doesn't begin by friendly beginnings. Please educate naive me 14 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by rickpat(m): 9:49pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Candidlady:well,that's not true..not all guys,the ladies should set the bar a little bit high when it comes to sex...if you want it,cool...if you don't spell it out...I can say..I have seen people date without sex...generalising is not too good..it's a case of decision and discipline no disrespect to the OP or the ladies but any LADY THAT FEELS ALL A MAN WANTS FROM HER IS SEX,JUST PROVES SHE HAS NOTHING TO OFFER...real men looks beyond sex 37 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 9:54pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
illicit:Drink responsibly. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Vinnie2000(m): 9:54pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Candidlady:You want her to become an Old Spinster, abi? If u dont want husband, Leave other ladies to hustle for diers! OverSabi pundit! 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 9:55pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
samwash:what are you even saying?? 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Ahmed0336:Never!! All of ya just want to phuck and run 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
AfroKnight:blood of Jesus |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Candidlady: 9:58pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
ProDigitals: Really ? How many of you wannna "begin friendly beginnings" that might lead to marriage without sex? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Nobody: 10:00pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Omoh...I'm not heart broken like this abeg Cadamlk: 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by ProDigitals: 10:01pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Candidlady: When you begin to entertain guys to explore the counts, you can find out the figures yourself 7 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Sonnobax15(m): 10:01pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
I'm so surprised this is coming from the specie who's got nothing to offer to any guyman apart from her pot of beans wey go don exceed it's breaking limit 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by MoneyGoDrop: 10:02pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Like someone above me rightly pointed out, there's nothing special about you or your pussy but you can continue ghosting guys without first knowing their intentions till you find yourself in Shiloh 2040, shouting I RECEIVE GOOD HUSBAND!!! 42 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by Candidlady: 10:02pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
rickpat: You made sense with you post But sir how many real men do we have? Ihave seen like ten threads this year alone if not more than.. How they met Jan asked her out same Jan and smash same month... Na wa o All in the name of love!! Kai 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by GooodHardDick: 10:03pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
There's nothing special about your pussy! You only have that mindset because you felt your pussy was the only thing you could offer a man in a relationship, which of course is 100% true! So continue until you turn to evening newspaper and then start attending Shiloh yearly looking for husband! Meanwhile the lady above my comment is a complete foool. Make sure you ignore her! 26 Likes 1 Share |
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