Chiefochiefo:
Every responsible married man can be controlled by his wife if he really want his house to be at peace.

Wanity:
So? Good advise but also remember that all finger's are not equal, you think you're perfect abi.

Oga marriage is a plane with two pilot. No is more important than the other.

Tehlu:
True talk.

How to tell if you're with a controlling woman:

- You call or text her, not because you want to, but because she'll complain if you don't.

- You both get along well, but things fall apart whenever you say no to her.

- She'll tell you not to do something, but when she does that thing it's no big deal.

- She regularly "suggests" what you should wear, and then throws a tantrum when you don't go with her "suggestion" .

- She's entitled and makes you feel inadequate. Doesn't appreciate anything you do, regularly comparing you to her exes/other guys.

She manipulates and guilt-trips you into doing what she wants. She expects you to compromise because of love, but isn't willing to do the same, and she always wants to have her way!

My brothers, run away from such a woman. She will make your life miserable and, as she's always looking to level up, she'll leave you at the first opportunity. A woman who truly loves you will be content with you as you are.

solmusdesigns:



Old enough to tell you how marriage works... forget about all this noise this ones make

solmusdesigns:


lol, say that when you finally marry and when your wife is pregnant with your first child... Surely a Girlfriend cant control you now as she's been smart. You would gladly remember that a family man is very different from a child ranting online

bukatyne:


As per last paragraph: anyone who loves you would nudge and support you to be better than you were yesterday.

Thalinzrcng:


Dude...u seem nice and soft. Women find it easiest to cheat on ur type. Childbirth and rearing is ur excuse? Hmmmm. I would ask u how many kids u do have...then I would ask u, one day when u get the free time to carry out the test. But, maybe don't...

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solmusdesigns:


manners maket a man
small boy thinking.. very soon you go lear. very very soon, i wont insult you back because you would soon know married women aint girlfreinds goodluck tho

Thalinzrcng:


What I was hoping to avoid. U feel offended. Dude...ok, sorry. They say the truth is bitter. Sometimes, only the ones that care most about us help us burst our bubbles. Stop being so soft, my friend!

solmusdesigns:


like i said pal, Manners maket a Man, how you react in public forum is who you are.. no point been sorry, you didnt train yourself its not your fault

Tehlu:


True. But there's a difference between offering encouragement for your partner to improve themselves, and hounding them about their shortcomings. Most people in relationships confuse the latter for the former. You should love your partner for the person they are, right here and now, because you can't really make someone change unless they want to.

If you nudge them to improve and they don't, what then?

ubimagos:
Hope, you are not referring to your BOSS!

bukatyne:
Nigerians are so fixated about controlling and been controlled that they do not understand the concept of love and mutual respect.

It is either a man is treating a woman like trash to show he is on top or a woman treating a man like trash because he respects her as a gentleman.

Na una sabi.

solmusdesigns:



Thinking with his oversized nose, its men like Reno Omokirikiri that washes their wives panties at home after doing housechores and now use their Free time to Make mouth online..... we all knew how patience Jonathan used to control all of them like houseboy back then when Jonathan was taking his ussual nap.

Love is all about giving your control, vulnerability and life to your wife and vice versa... only a stupid Man eats what his wife cooks without watching her prepare it, or sleeps in the night with his two eyes closed not minding his wife been awake and alone together, and thinks a woman doesnt have control over his life and death, Even all the strongest men in the bible were controlled by women at a point.

A man is only alive because his wife hasnt killed him, when she wants you dead you are dead... again she doesnt want to control you if you didnt get controlled, if not you would be controlled

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P.S; I am not talking about manipulative Control for Selfish gain, Domination or abuse of control

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crackhaus:

Nigerians with the 'Nigerian life' experience, living anywhere in the world, are among the most uncultured & discourteous set of humans. Not just in relationship dynamics, but also in basic social interactions.

bukatyne:


I guess it's upbringing.

Even amongst mates, we look for whatever makes us better than them.

Na them sabi.

Wanity:
So? Good advise but also remember that all finger's are not equal, you think you're perfect abi.

Oga marriage is a plane with two pilot. No is more important than the other.

solmusdesigns:



Old enough to tell you how marriage works... forget about all this noise this ones make