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Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by bluefilm: 8:26am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Not in Naija, biko. In fact, the reverse is more like the case in Naija. Our delectable Evening Newspapers scattered all over the country and most especially here on Nairaland, can help me confirm this!!! 5 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Olalan(m): 8:26am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Not in Nigeria |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Sonnobax15(m): 8:26am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Whether she's right or not,we all know this happiness the expert is talking about has an exception and that's the african society.Here,a childless woman/man is considered as a low-life and unfit to be among his/her mates..even your own kinsmen and parents won't be pleased at all. 3 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Lamasta(m): 8:26am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Its a different story here in Nigeria. |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by NaijaOlosho(f): 8:27am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Mumu experts 2 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Sijo01(f): 8:28am On Sep 28, 2019 |
You can be happy without being married but you can never be happy without a child 2 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by bluefilm: 8:28am On Sep 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: Sis, you've just won yourself the consolation prize. Congrats 6 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Exponental(m): 8:28am On Sep 28, 2019 |
I disagree.... If you speak about those who chose not to, fine but by nature.... It's the greatest trauma of womanhood. 2 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:28am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Akwuna ga ebe akwa nwa n'ula nka. 2 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Nobody: 8:29am On Sep 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE:Feminist spotted .... I have a friend like u.... Who thinks women only suffer when they are in a relationship with men.... But it's not true.... It's funny tho.... People that think this way are those that don't want to be responsible for anyone else but themselves.... Now that's being selfish... If you want to get a child and stay unmarried that's ur business until ur child gets older and starts asking questions you can't answer..... My parents don't stay together and I don't stay with them either.... But when I asked they were both pushing the blame to one another... Each blaming the other for the separation... Not like they married anyway.... And from what I see that's what you think it's the best... Take it from me... Do not give birth to a child without making sure that he has both parents by his side... For the child's sake.... Yes not all marriage is blissful but that doesn't mean marriages don't work... In this life nothing is forever.... Nothing not even a stage or a position... Food wey dey bottom pot today go dey ontop cooler tomorrow.... Same with anything in life... 8 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by APOPTOSIS: 8:29am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Ladies know say na Lie be this 3 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by 3rdavefarms(m): 8:30am On Sep 28, 2019 |
This sounds like a condolence message 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Abfinest007(m): 8:30am On Sep 28, 2019 |
the person that did this findings is sick 4 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by sylve11: 8:30am On Sep 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: if nor be children, trust me, men nor go keep women for house. 5 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by 2shure: 8:31am On Sep 28, 2019 |
It cant be In nigeria,cos over here they are frustrated,hopeless,arrogant,hater and always hating. I have met a few. Still forming boss inside 2 bedroom still no kids,no hope. Just hating constantly. 4 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by seunmohmoh(f): 8:32am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Is he married? |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by midnighter(f): 8:32am On Sep 28, 2019 |
That may be the case, but from a purely evolutionary stance, maximum happiness will take a lower priority than other biological imperatives Survival and passing genes onto a another generation will trump all Therefore some contentment will be sacrificed in order to achieve the aim and preserve the species I think this is why society tends towards leaning on women to have children, sometimes to their detriment Some western countries have a rapidly declining birthrate because people have started to consider sociological factors like happiness, contentment, stress, etc above biological ones 1 Like |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by ephraim18(m): 8:32am On Sep 28, 2019 |
is not applied to our Nigerian system... lies lies and lies... unmaried Pple are miserable and sad especially here... but i don't elsewhere |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Nobody: 8:32am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Ok |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by mikkyjay(m): 8:33am On Sep 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: Then make it a point of duty to educate single ladies to enjoy their lives and stop bothering we men about marriage, or even trying to rope single guys into marriage through various scrupulous means 8 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Masterclass32: 8:35am On Sep 28, 2019 |
One word: RUBBISH. Fit only for the thrash can. 3 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by eikechukwu8(m): 8:35am On Sep 28, 2019 |
awon omo ologo! thats what they are called! Anyway, check my signature to fix your faulty laptop |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by SmellingAnus(m): 8:37am On Sep 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE:now that you know that you will be happier without getting married and not having kids hope you will never get married in your life 4 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by yeman2012(m): 8:37am On Sep 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE:and so is your father 4 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by airminem(f): 8:38am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Society and womanhood is the entire existense of human. What else should a woman be for? |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Sunnymatey(m): 8:39am On Sep 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE:This just comfirm my stand that most women dont know what they want. How can one sacrifice her happiness cus of 'what people will say' mentality? Women gain everything in marriage( the one with love and respect). Marriage isnt any kind of contest, if any lady feels better without it, pls be proud to join the leauge of baby mamas. People will only talk for a while and thereafter other events will overtake ur issue. Chimamanda Adichie never change her name after marriage and l never heard her hubby complained. I myself didnt changed my late wife's surname after marriage even with much presure from her yet l loved, cherished and respect her. So many women achieved their life's dream via marriage. Pls learn to speak for yourself and let others decide what they want. I think in society such as the US, the Social Security System in place could be the reason for cases of single motherhood. Marriage is beneficial to both sexes joor. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by livebyday(m): 8:41am On Sep 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: And many married women are happy as ever Same also single unmarried women who are miserable and want company hence would happily rope others in by screaming independent woman It goes both ways Cheers 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by godofuck231: 8:41am On Sep 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE:when you reach 45 you will understand 4 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by geosegun(m): 8:42am On Sep 28, 2019 |
What is written in the article is total deception. Women who never married or childless are the most depressed of all. Humans, most especially, Women are good liars, when it comes to facing reality. They will tell you and show you they want one thing but despirately desiring another. Even the writer is just trying to deny reality. So the person that rewrote this gibberish knew what she was all out to see? A single lady wilm alway tell any random person that she is happy with her life, as she does not have to worry over men infidelity? However, when she goes her way and all alone.She will be crying all day and possibly become depressed, all because she was craving for a man in her life. Humans generally love lies...and women loves to decieve themselves. If a lady is experiencing bad experiences, she will fake a good life, encourage the other lady to do same so they can be in the same situation, this is what men dont do. The writer knew this, hence trying to get as many women into depression as possible. (Mark.my words) Are we not talking about humans here? Believe what you read up there at your own peril. 5 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by sammirano: 8:42am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Ok |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by Zimzy(m): 8:45am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Definitely not Nigerians! 2 Likes |
Re: Unmarried, Childless Women Are Happiest People Of All, Says Expert by bigfrancis21: 8:45am On Sep 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: Lol, I doubt this. I live in America where feminism is at its peak and women have never been as successful as they are today. Despite their high levels of education and success, these ladies crave for marriage and children like crazy despite no apparent American societal pressure to get married or have kids. Some in their late 30s and 40s are even freezing their eggs in the hopes of having children later so as to beat their biological clocks - which indicates that despite all the success, many still desire to have kids or be married. Linda Ikeji would be a solid example and she even confessed being much happier after giving birth as she had always desired to be a mother. In fact, several studies here have shown that American women now (who are more single, educated and successful) are much less happier than their counterparts (who were mostly housewives) in the 50s, 60s and 70s (when America was more traditional, just like Nigeria). The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness - Yale Law School https://law.yale.edu/sites/default/files/documents/pdf/Intellectual_Life/Stevenson_ParadoxDecliningFemaleHappiness_Dec08.pdf Gains in women’s rights haven't made women happier. Why is that? 7 Likes |
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