So many 9ja men can bear me witness dat dey hav been dumped at least once.Open their heart u'll c scares as evidence of a hrt brk by those "unadviodable demons" who left because of their little begining in life or for no jus reason.or mayb because dey hav sen anoda prey.imagine my girl sent me a txt sayin its ova witout reason.if u're very romantic dey wil dribble u or tel friends u're too caring which a turn to dem.i tel me wat can b more painfu, So aFTA dis 9te mare we resort to being unromatic.change and we'll change too. GOD BLEX 9JA @ 50

I feel ur pain bro bt wen next u r havin a babe,make sure u v more moni n try 2 b hotter on bed n i dont mean lyk an animal o,*winks*

I have never being dumped by a girl before o! my guy, i'm always the one doing that cos i read any girl i'm with fast if she's after my doh i cut her outta my life straight up and if you aren't romantic u need hawt swaggs to back it up cos ur girl most always feel u for something, besides, i'm not romantic in any way and i don't have time for sh1t like that.

Weak pe.nis + opposite self praises =

Dyt:

I feel your pain bro bt wen next u r havin a babe,make sure u v more moni n try 2 b hotter on bed n i dont mean lyk an animal o,*winks*

i can never be dumped. Lets say she can dance to my tune. Am nt bothered.Solider go solider come

Tosinville:

I have never being dumped by a girl before o! my guy, i'm always the one doing that cos i read any girl i'm with fast if she's after my doh i cut her outta my life straight up and if you aren't romantic u need hawt swaggs to back it up cos your girl most always feel u for something, besides, i'm not romantic in any way and i don't have time for sh1t like that.

i wasn't dumped. She find her level. I just freestyl lik say notin happen

Promixking:

So many 9ja men can bear me witness dat dey hav been dumped at least once.Open their heart u'll c scares as evidence of a hrt brk by those "unadviodable demons" who left because of their little begining in life or for no jus reason.or mayb because dey hav sen anoda prey.imagine my girl sent me a txt sayin its ova witout reason.if u're very romantic dey wil dribble u or tel friends u're too caring which a turn to dem.i tel me wat can b more painfu, So aFTA dis 9te mare we resort to being unromatic.change and we'll change too. GOD BLEX 9JA @ 50

the question is

are you yourself romantic ? and if you are why dont teach the one you are dating

Inked_Nerd:

Some Nigerian men are romantic, some aren't. The few that I've know and mean are 50/50. I love my Nigerian men. I don't think their anymore or any less romantic than men from other countries. OP, you just had a bump in the road. Pick yourself up amd move on .

@ inked.nerd we the extra romantic ones it has been our undoing. There has been complains dat 9JA men ain't romantic enufu. I love ur sense of judgement wat do you advise, you mean i should swalow my pride. Reply

Inked_Nerd:

Some Nigerian men are romantic, some aren't. The few that I've know and mean are 50/50. I love my Nigerian men. I don't think their anymore or any less romantic than men from other countries. OP, you just had a bump in the road. Pick yourself up amd move on .

@ inked.nerd we the extra romantic ones it has been our undoing. There has been complains dat 9JA men ain't romantic enufu. I love ur sense of judgement wat do you advise, you mean i should swalow my pride. Reply

Poster,

Sincerely, as a nigerian guy na u suppose to don know nigerian girls na, if they tell you that you're not ROMANTIC, she doesn't real romantic she mean you don't have MONEY just believe me its an opposite word for a coded 9ja guy to understand, man.

I have never been dumped,

"You are not romantic" is an alternative sentence to "You are Broke"

commonly used by Nigerian girls.

@ Promixking

I don't know much about your country - I am trying to learn. This doesn't make sense to me. I just recently started dating a Nigerian man - he is extremely romantic, very honest, very loving. I am very attached to him. He is in Lagos, I am in the U.S. He is very intelligent and loves God very much as do I. You know, start with God - ask God to send you who you are to be with and look for God's direction. God knows every single person on the planet - billions of people that YOU DON'T KNOW but God will mate you with the right person who will appreciate you for who you are. You sound kind, conscientious, caring, intelligent, loving - he will introduce you to your mate who will appreciate your romantic side and appreciate you whether you have money or NOT. Relationships don't work when built on money ANYWAY. The right woman will work with you side by side to build together a financial capital that comes last. Your mate and blessings are right in front of you. Get to work and Ask God to bring them to your awareness. Start attending events that YOU ENJOY - at these events you will find females that enjoy the same things you enjoy - Be it going to the library or book clubs or soccer events or cooking classes, etc, Like Minds think Alike and Make the Best Mates. Evenly Yoked starts in your own back yard. I wish you well.

Shy-one, I don't mean to call you out but you sound very much unlike in the US. They said you can take a horse to the river but can't force him/her to drink. Exposure, intelligent, good moral and knowledge plays huge role when it comes to romantic/passionate. People tend to display what they know and be who they are, with open mind, those that are not can learn.

@ ehs

I have been told by many that "I am one of a kind" but my belief is that you and every single person on the planet is and can be one of a kind. You are what you eat (mentally) and you are how you treat yourself and others. lololol, so you are calling me out huh? And? As far as your not believing that I live in the U.S. sounds like a dilemma you will need to deal with when you look in your mirror. I have nothing to prove to anyone but to my God, my self, my man and my family.   I am definitely born, bred and have lived in the U.S. for my ENTIRE life and rest assured that isn't anything to brag on,   Everyone is different.  How does one sound like they live anywhere?  There are millions of people in the U.S. and in Nigeria that think differently. People all over the world in different locations have good morals, intelligence, compassion, creativity, humor - even more so when God is at the center of your circumference.

Shy-One:

@ ehs

I have been told by many that "I am one of a kind" but my belief is that you and every single person on the planet is and can be one of a kind. You are what you eat (mentally) and you are how you treat yourself and others. lololol, so you are calling me out huh? And? As far as your not believing that I live in the U.S. sounds like a dilemma you will need to deal with when you look in your mirror. I have nothing to prove to anyone but to my God, my self, my man and my family.   I am definitely born, bred and have lived in the U.S. for my ENTIRE life and rest assured that isn't anything to brag on,   Everyone is different.  How does one sound like they live anywhere?  There are millions of people in the U.S. and in Nigeria that think differently. People all over the world in different locations have good morals, intelligence, compassion, creativity, humor - even more so when God is at the center of your circumference.

LOL, no comment dear, go ahead with your bad self, interesting post and please go through your post again and make corrections as needed, good luck

@ ehs
your comment:

LOL, no comment dear, go ahead with your bad self, interesting post and please go through your post again and make corrections as needed, good luck

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my response:

lololololol smh hmmmmm - thank you for your well wishes

iice:

Balderdash

lol, which part of this thread is stupid and/or meaningless

Good point

My husband is very romantic and HE SURPRISES ME MANY TIMES, Don't ask!

Ok, this is what I've seen as per Nigerian Men/Nigerian Women:

   Nigerian women are gangstas; straight-up! Them hos is Men with clits. Nigerian binches are the most cold-hearted chics walking the face of this beautiful earth today! What I see is, Nigerian women (meaning those raised in Africa) are just as cold and calculating as their men. As my boy, Tolu, said: "The truth is that its often a mistake to date a Nigerian gal cus she's on a mission just like u. She wants to build a Mansion in Africa just like you, so she aint gone submit and play her role as a woman. She has folks she takes care of back in Nigeria, just like u, so she sees herself as a "man". Thats why a lotta folks think Nigerian gals are gold diggers; it's not like they gold-diggers, its more that they know what they want and they dont mind stepping over you to get it. Thus, romance aint in the average Nigerian gal's dictionary"**

   Nigerian gals are about the stiffest chics Ive ever met; I guess it has to do with their upbringing tho!



** (as dictated by Tolu; any insults should be hurled towards him)

@ Poster; Life is a tragedy for those who FEEL and a COMEDY for those who think. She broke up with you?
You should be happy. Now she's sumone else's problem. Youdeserve better.