OUR SEX LIFE IS AMAZING BUT THE MARRIAGE SUCKS.

I woke up Hot.
I started touching my wife on her breasts.
I flipped her over. Got on top of her.
I started kissing her, but she seemed not interested.
I turned up my game, Kissed her on her neck as i spread her
legs. Her mind was off.
"What's wrong?" I asked.
"Us" she said.
"What do you mean?"

I asked.
"The only thing we do great together is having sex" She said.
"I thought you love our sex. I am faithful to you, I don't cheat" i
told her.

" You sex me good. But marriage is more than sex. It is not
enough to be faithful, marriage needs to have depth,
substance; not centered around sex. I don't want us to be two
empty souls that are faithful to each other. We had it, we used
to have depth.

I want us to talk, to laugh, to pray, to date again even in our
marriage, to cuddle, to make memories, to play with our
children, to travel and see the world, to debate on topics like
we used to, to play a sport, to go for concerts, to have
intimacy in our marriage. What we currently have is not
marriage, but a sexual arrangement. Sex is just not enough"
she lamented.

"Ouch! That's painful" i said.
"The painful truth" said she.
I started stroking her hair gently and said, "You are right.

Things changed when we got kids, life got busy I guess"
She looked at me and said, "Darling people make time for
what is important.

I want to be more than the mother of your children, I am your
wife, I want to feel like a wife. I want quality time with you like
we used to have; not alot, just enough. I want to be loved and
talked to. I want our time. When was the last time you stroked
my hair like you are right now?"
"A long time ago" i answered.

She placed her finger on my lips and said, "Exactly, you
haven't taken time to look at me because we both are always
in a hurry.

You know a woman doesn't ask for much. Even something as
little as you stroking my hair touches my heart. So many wives
are tired of sex in their marriage: They fake orgasms, fake
headaches or exhaustion and some pretend they are on their
periods just to escape having sex with their husbands because
they don't feel married.

I want to feel married my love. I don't want to become like
those women. This home is not a lodge for you to come,
sleep, get sex then leave day in day out. This is our home, our
bed, our marriage. I need you my husband"
"I need you too" i told her and kissed her.

The kiss was sweet, intense, not rushed and not sexual. It was
intimate.
I reclined back to the bed.
I placed her head on my chest and for a while we talked as i
played with her fingers. We laughed, randomly prayed, opened
up and emotionally connected.

Since then, our marriage is not centered around sex; and when
we do have sex, it's not sex, it's making love.
Have you made your marriage empty as you hide behind sex?
There is more to Marriage than Sex.

Please Spice up your Marriage.

Drop your habits that can ruin your home and then you blame
it on the devil. Have a wonderful weekend

#Don't ruin your marriage..

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