Actually i have a lot of guys dsturbin me but i dont feel anything for them, the only guy i love does not feel the way i do but he really likes me no doubt about dat.we'v bn good friends and he doesn't have anyone yet and he is due aswell. we are far apart now but i still fink of him, am so into him to the extent of seeing him in my dreams always.The problem now is i find it difficult to say yes to anyone cos i fink he is the only ideal man for me.I dnt knw what to do i love him so much.

You don't know what to do? GOSH! Go for him gurl. BTW, am goin 2 be the chief bridesmaid. hehehe

Use juju on him,he ll run after u lyk bee n honey

@Lola, i said he doesn't feel d way i do.

Dyt:

Use juju on him,he ll run after u lyk bee n honey

WORD

Shes speaking from experience!!

Since you love him that much why cant u take some bold steps to express how u really feel for him?

Men are not the only one to do everything for relationship/marriage cos the way u speak shows u r waiting for him to propose, if it is that then "u go tey 4 fola-agoro junction e no go propose"

he doesn't? does he like you at least? if he does, use that as an advantage. you are a gurl, use ur prowress to get him

190,u?

Well u can either tell him outright how u feel about him, or just wait for the next chappy to propose and you agree to marry him. If you do the former,you don't lose a thing and can be happy here on earth. You settle for the latter, you'll never know what might have been between you two. Tis up to you.

OP,don't think or say d guy doesn't feel d same way u feel for him,he ''might be'' feeling just exactly u feel for him but not willing to ruin d friendship since u guys have been friends long time ago like u said.My advice for u is to propose to him, he might be expecting dat from u .Serious ooo but laf dey catch me.

Poster, dont propose to him oo! Trust me, he would be the one to that after u are done wiv him *u knw what i mean?*

@Dyt, am a christian i dnt practice such, Thanks. @Tosin and Lola av tried all i culd do as a lady.

Ha ha ha,burn 50coloured candles,go 2 ori oke,fast 4 40days n u ll c miracle

Hmmn, then leave him, maybe he just likes u as a friend. You wuld find a guy who u would love and would love u in return

my car is due for service too, what should i do

you better take easy and don't go jumping on some man dat don't luv u jus cus you are due for marriage (due for marriage LMAO)

@lola, i wuld av loved to leave him if i culd but i can just help it. I keep finkin of him for months now.

Oh pls! u are just goin to end up hurting urself. i knw its difficult, but quit thinkin abt him cos he is not doin same

Love!Love!!Love!!!Everytime love,and the next thing is that help please the one i love returns it back in d opposite direction and u keep on saying the word.Osu mi oooo,The word doesn't exist jare 4get about it make use of yourself in life

Honey, you have been love struck.

Doctors orders: Go out to a bar and get a good shagging. Guaranteed to cure all ills of the heart. Don't forget to use protection.

Am Due For Marriage.

u are not different, i was so much into my exgirlfrend, but i discover that she has no such feeling for me. every about her to me is all about money and recharge card, imagine i called her 10months after breakup, the next topic i hear from her is guy i am broke pls send me recharge card, that drive me into my nutshell. uptill now she had not change.

so what i am trying to say, is that after the dissapointment i decided dat i will not b so much into any girl expect she show that love, which i am receiving now.
in all, someone you love, tend not to you love you back that same ways

Wait for him to fall in love with you. He is your ideal guy and is definitely worth the wait. Your case might end up like this lady here.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-523293.0.html

u don't have to propose to the guy, but u should tell him in clear terms how u feel. and if he refuses to give a relationship a try, u should work towards getting over him.

Dyt:

Use juju on him,he ll run after u lyk bee n honey

see them evil people sorry for replyin b4 u use it on me.

@cutier, u r ripe! my simple advice, don't fall off the mother tree. remember the best fruits are always plucked not picked.

Clarity please[/b]

At what age is one [b]DUE for marriage?

As for me once u ar above 18yrs nd uv achieved wht's expected of u, so age or no age it depends on individuals.

^^

It's obvious that your a really nice person (your replies) so if you feel your ready for marriage
and sure your "good friend" knows how you feel about him, maybe you should start seeing other guys.

Who knows he may realise he feels the same about you when you not around so much.

My sister pray about it. there is absolutely nothing Baba GOd cannot do. the heart of Kings are in his hands

Yes like i always say pray and fast about it then tell your pastor and wait, . . . .0. . .:-)

He might be scared (or cautious) because of the way you have been rejecting other guys.

If you feel that way about him . . why dont you tell him?

what's the worst that could happen - you live happily together forever or you know how he truly feels and you are free in your mind to move on.

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trimandtrendy:

My sister pray about it. there is absolutely nothing Baba GOd cannot do. the heart of Kings are in his hands

Pray to God to let someone talk to you . . or fall in love with you 

is that not manipulation . . or cheating? 

That's where you people miss it . .praying when you should be slobbing