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Resolved by Goodyp: 12:15pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Ok 3 Likes |
Re: Resolved by Goodyp: 12:20pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Mod help me push it fp. Cc Lalasticlala Cc seun |
Re: Resolved by SweetBuns(f): 12:24pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
I'm coming back to comment . lemme finish reading first Modified The blessing you talked about is a confirmed seductress. You have something she wants. And I dont think if she's willing to stay with you on a long term thing. And you also have faults too. Don't flirt with a lady of you're not interested. We have feelings too you know Also, about your girlfriend's anger, everyone has issues, all we can do is to be tolerant. Let her take anger management classes and see her through the improvement. People change until their last breath. Keep things with Blessing on a business tab. Meet at neutral locations, not at home or away (if you know what i mean.) Be Strong. Be a man. And don't let you dīck do the thinking for you 12 Likes |
Re: Resolved by Nobody: 12:24pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
♠️ I didn't read the nonsense you wrote. But it's obvious that you are a very weak sissy. I spit men who allow women to give them problems. 1 Like |
Re: Resolved by SweetBuns(f): 12:25pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
.:Passing quick judgement without hearing his story is very shallow of you if you ask me Charanko:What an immature way to speak. In a bid to sound "Savage", you just made yourself look stupid 22 Likes |
Re: Resolved by TheMainMan: 12:25pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Re: Resolved by Goodypc: 12:31pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
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Re: Resolved by tyup(m): 12:31pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
The solution is easy OP....simply go after her life to remember the winner gets it all |
Re: Resolved by rawpadgin(m): 12:33pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
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Re: Resolved by daddio(m): 12:33pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Do not leave your girlfriend for Blessing. Try to call her again about the business but make sure u always record your conversations. She will try to ruin you or get you at all cost but you have to be the man you should. If at all you have to meet with blessing let it be in an opened outlet or where there are people. You may get a video recording pen or button to get her actions too. DO NOT let her over smart you. 5 Likes |
Re: Resolved by Goodyp: 12:36pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
thanks bro daddio: 1 Like |
Re: Resolved by raphretle: 12:47pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Do because Blessing get money pass you, you Don dey confused...
It's just Blessings money that is tempting you kawai.. |
Re: Resolved by thorpido(m): 12:47pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Don't leave your girl.The money and the business opportunities with Blessing is the attraction here.The relationship may not turn out well at the end. 1 Like |
Re: Resolved by Oblongata: 12:49pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
She is the victim here! You said she has curves and she is hot, and you also pass comments on her, and she is guilty for running after you? You are still interested in making business with her and also hitting on her, you are the wicked one here... If you are serious; Bar her number, change your bank, severe any possible ties with her... Bye 3 Likes |
Re: Resolved by MegaPlayBoy: 1:02pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
SweetBuns:You like bullying nairalanders |
Re: Resolved by missimelda01(f): 1:48pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
That was quite long Anyway, please leave blessing oooo.. she's a desperado. If she cannot keep things strictly on business, let it go.. I'm sure you'll survive either ways. Also, inform your woman about everything, if she's as reasonable as she ought to be, she'll understand. Good luck |
Re: Resolved by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Don't kid yourself!there is no way blessing is doing any business with you if you won't date her. At this point you've got to choose; Either being with the ill experienced,probably broke 21 year old who hasn't got any footing in life yet. Or -Go to blessing whose union might take you to greater height. Ask yourself this;where do I want to be in 5 years? Can my 21 year old support this dream?then chose! And you sound like a newbie.why would you open a joint account with your gf?a 21 year old for that matter jeez! You don't get anywhere in life by being a fool my guy.you've got to make some sacrifices which could be selfish at times. And you mentioned your girl started taking you serious this year do you know what that means? Please try and check her finances and know what changed maybe you are that last resort she wants to cling on to,which I hope I am wrong anyways Just maybe after you find out,you would realise you aren't the only CAPITALIST in the relationship That will help you make that decision you need to move you up the social ladder Be wise! 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Resolved by micfoley: 2:07pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Any man who can discipline himself with regards to women has solved half of his lifetime problems 4 Likes |
Re: Resolved by themaestro08(m): 2:13pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
nwanneni: |
Re: Resolved by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
[quote author=themaestro08 post=79162809][/quote]maybe you be the 21 yr old girl brother ooo Ndi psychology Of course I am a smart man na,you know where I dey now Yes,a 21year old girl with access to money she didn't work for is highly unstable and vulnerable to cunning men ABI op,you want make them take that your phone money take give one local sweet talker Or use your money take solve family problems? You maestro is the dumb one here. |
Re: Resolved by Goodyp: 2:28pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
I have the clear detail.. i have started talking with the top guys she introduced me to.. She didn't introduce me to them. she directed me how to go with them. for all the meeting, everything went successfully... the point is this...even i could not supply to them at the long run. i can still get buyer outside her bank. the point here i know how to get the items from china of which she don't.. also her work will not allow her. i don't her to feel betrayed in both cases... that's why i'm seeking for advises on how to go with her. Oblongata: |
Re: Resolved by Goodyp: 2:33pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
not access to my money... i opened it with her for sth we discussed together... nwanneni: |
Re: Resolved by Nobody: 2:39pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Goodyp:well,I know how this will end. Seems like you've already made a decision. Goodluck with your girl I asked one question you haven't answered yet.why did she start taking you serious now? Go and find out,especially dig out her finances. The truth you seek lies there. If it is anything money related,you should know what to do. |
Re: Resolved by themaestro08(m): 2:44pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
nwanneni:your assumption proves my point. |
Re: Resolved by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
themaestro08:I could use your "point" to wipe my ass with it,that is if it is even worthy to be used as asswipe to clean my butt |
Re: Resolved by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
the blessing will bless you with problems soon. You are mixing business with pleasure. I pity for you. Blessing is happy with you because she knows your account balance. She is playing a nice game on you..she is just keeping a bank customer when a new guy comes with a better account balance that she manages too..you will be heart broken. 1 Like |
Re: Resolved by SmellingAnus(m): 4:38pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Ask your self ... If the tables were turned and your girl is on the verge of making much more cash that will involve her being in another relationship with a fairly rich dude... Will she dump you or reject the guy... I know the answer for most (Nigerian) girls... The choice is yours but something tells me you may regret your actions... I hope you don't ... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Resolved by Phenomenal16(f): 4:41pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
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Re: Resolved by Mcslize: 5:50pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Goodyp, I will be sincere with you. Stay with your woman. Pls never go for Blessing, she might end up controlling you and boss you around from the look of things. She is older than you and a graduate. With all sincerity, that type of lady will never respect you as her husband if both of you end up marrying. Never make the mistake of leaving your present woman as you said she has been taking things more seriously with you of recent. Stay put. Be guided! |
Re: Resolved by babyfaceafrica: 5:59pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
micfoley:I agree |
Re: Resolved by Nobody: 6:24pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Mcslize:control him how? Did the op tell you he is jobless? No woman can control a man that has his own money.never!!unless the op is a sissy. And blessing sef doesn't have much. Stop sounding like na dangote pikin. But she is connected and will be less of a financial burden to this op. But no,e want go carry stress put for head. I wish am well sha oo 1 Like 1 Share |
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