Goodyp:
Long story, please be patient read and advise your brother properly.
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i'm bleeped here 
I have been battling with a problem in my heart since this year. Though I talked about this with my girlfriend (wife to be ) but she didn't get a glimpse of what I was saying( not in detail about what is happening).
About my relationship now.
I was a flirt (not with many girls, only one but I don't stay up to 6months in any relationship ) but very cautious not to endanger my life tomorrow.
So decided to channels my life to business and look for a good woman that could be there for me.
I met my woman when she was not exposed and my feelings for her never drop but I started having mix feelings when she gets exposed. She is very beautiful and nails with a good background upbringing. I disguised myself when I met her, but when I found out she was honest with me. shame could not allow me to tell her about myself properly. She found out herself and I apologized.
Then I started to have feelings that things may not work out between us. She gets angry easily and little issue, she will be clamoring to leave me. That was what made me feel far from her. I thought of getting myself into a fresh relationship but things didn't work out with the new girl. Actually, I met the devil that period. With speed I went back to her.. wow she accepted me back with all the flaws... I couldn't believe my eyes that she loves me that much.
This is 2/yr we are together in a serious relationship. I love her from the beginning, even I made it known to her. However, I made it serious with her when she confronted me. She annoyingly asked me,
1. Why ever since we are together that I never sit her down and discuss something serious.
2. Doesn't mean I can't advise her. Or that she is alright in everything she does.
Honestly, she said many things that burst my head. That she purposely gave me headaches to know whether I could correct her and I never did.
Reason:
Honestly, my previous relationship if am dating any woman I don't care to know how she lives her life. Only focus on the happiness I derived from the relationship.
This is the reason I created this thread.
This girl (Blessing) is after my life because she vowed to make hard in any cross she finds me. Blessing is a customer service personnel in Zenith Bank Plc and my account manager. I operate four accounts with her. Savings account, current account, domiciliary account, and joint account.
I hope she will come across this thread. Blessing never my girlfriend. Though she is beautiful with a beautiful figure. I tease her a lot like my woman dunno she took it affectional. I got to know she have feelings for me when we went out for a date and she asked me about myself.
I detailed everything even about my business. But the discussion didn't end well when I told her I'm in a serious relationship. She got angry and left me at that place.
Though she told how she moved out from abuse relationship with a smoker and unserious guy that took her as shit whenever he got home drunk. Beat her up for a minor issue.
(I don't drink nor smoke and I never did, ever since I was born even in secret of which I told her).
She didn't stop there, she pulls more efforts to win my heart.
She was mad when I took my woman to open a joint account with her. When my woman left the banking hall I went straight to her and told her that was my woman you saw me with...
Though blessing is business minded she has brought many investments to me. The last one that pushed me to nairaland now... it's a business of N5m. Importing goods from China.
I supposed to be in Lagos now to finalize the business, the problem that broke out 3 days ago made it paused now. Even she wants to invest N3m first... that's I will manage the business while she focuses on her work. We agreed.
My woman traveled for her grandma burial. I saw it as an opportunity to discuss further for the business.
I kept it secret to my woman, though I told her I will leave Abuja for Lagos last week.... she may cry foul if she notices my movement with blessing when I don't know Blessing motive with me if not that Thursday.
Story change. Blessing openly told me she loves me and things will work out between us, that actually she knows I'm currently in a serious relationship. That I should have a
rethink about it. She seduced me 90% that day but I pushed her away. She was mad, shame could not allow her that very day. I left her house with no further discussion about the business, though she is living large more more more than me.
I was strong like a hero with no betraying heart when I called my woman yesterday, she was crying because of her grandma departure ( grandma was laid to rest yesterday ).
So I was able to console her. I would have felt guilty if actually, I went down to rumple blessing bed that Thur.
The smartness of my woman started this yr, she developed a lot of seriousness with me this yr.. i.e she's more closer to me than before... I have promised her a lot this yr.
I love her a lot but she doesn't believe I love her that much.
Please, the point now I have no reason to leave my woman for Blessing. I have a business that's profiting me with little challenges. Business guys in the room know what I'm saying.
I'm 24 yrs not graduate. My woman 21 yrs not graduate. Blessing 27 yrs a graduate. I'm the same tribe with a Blessing. But I start a life together with my woman... When I don't know my left and right. and things are actually working fine for me now.
This business Blessing told me about... She has given me clear details of the business. I have N2m to execute the business. But dunno if I Should go ahead without letting her know my plan.
Or should I wait to hear from her again whether she is no longer interested in doing the business with me? Because I have begged her to keep a relationship aside from this business and no reply yet.
I'm into gaming laptops and accessories sales and the business is almost the same. In which I'm 100% certain I can do it. It looks like things work out for me with women than men.. the person in charge of sales is a mature lady (she never talk about anything relationship because she knows I'm in a serious relationship with my woman) that's 8 yrs older than me. I focus more on advertising online in which 80% of the sales come from the advert online and buying them from the USA.
I never tell anybody even my sister, because if I table it to kid sister, she will likely tell me to leave my woman... She loves money a lot. I just want to advise from unknown reasonable persons.
Please say something to my head.
Thanks for reading a go*dy story....help me, please. I guess u are Igbo...but never mind..I advice u don't have any affair with blessing ..cos u go lose ur peace because as I feel u..u no be bad ass nigga... Ask blessing if it possible to do the business without having romantic affairs...if she is feeling reluctant to answer..then runn for ur life she get plans for u...u go surely fall inside her trap...cos na for there she dey wait u |
