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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Sarah20A(f): 8:37am On Jun 14, 2019
UbanmeUdie:
shocked




Na im good for am!


guy you are wicked embarassed do you know what people pass through here in Europe?to have a roof over ones head in Europe is a problem,to have their document is another problem,to get a job is by luck.Please nobody deserves this.

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by blowjohn(m): 8:37am On Jun 14, 2019
Houseofglam7:
This is almost funny


Almost funny?
Omo I Don laugh tire.

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by sharpwriter(m): 8:38am On Jun 14, 2019
ReneeNuttall:
Something similar happened at Ugbor years back.after staying abroad for years and sending money steady to his brother,that one kept updating him with pictures from other peoples buildings .He came back and saw an empty land.Twas the odionwere DAT settled d matter

What is odionwere?

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Mcslize: 8:38am On Jun 14, 2019
Altern8:
This why it’s better to buy houses from developers. If your family member chop your money, nothing you fit do. Highest na to call family meeting. All the elders go beg you last last.

If you don’t have money to buy at once, contract reputable construction companies.

But Nigerians sha. You’re not even sure your contractor isn’t cheating you.

That's the problem. Family will cheat you, even if you decide to give it to reputable contractors, how reputable will they be? They will still siphon and cheat you once they know you are based abroad.

Buying will be too cost to building from scratch. The beauty of building from scratch is that, you can build it to your taste.

Sending money to family to build for you can be dangerous "cuz everyone eyes dey shook for money in this Nigeria o."

Nothing like this is my brother he can't do such to me. They will flex the money or use it to buy lands for themselves and nothing one will do as a person.

This has been my major concern. How do we go about building our own houses here in Nigeria when living abroad?

Should it be that one should use his annual leave period of 4 weeks to rush down to Nigeria and start his project himself and the contractor continue from there while updating him with videos and pictures of the progress of the project?

Some people do that in the property section though. But I know the contractor will cheat them on a huge rate.

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by shedy03(m): 8:39am On Jun 14, 2019
Cai, edo wicked o.
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Nobody: 8:39am On Jun 14, 2019
Some siblings can be so selfish. But then, personally I know which of my sibling is capable of this nonsense.


This is wickedness. What stopped them from building his house and building theirs by the side

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by blowjohn(m): 8:40am On Jun 14, 2019
eddywright:
These is really sad����


Fear who no fear Benin people.
They can be so wicked eh

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by VulgarLee(m): 8:40am On Jun 14, 2019
Nbote:
He's not serious himself... If he flies back home for even a couple of days na crime?
do you know weda him get full papers to fly upandan?
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by VHILL: 8:40am On Jun 14, 2019
For it is written, that a man's worst enemy are members of his households.
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by blowjohn(m): 8:40am On Jun 14, 2019
shedy03:
Cai, edo wicked o.

No be small.
Fear who no fear edo.

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by exlinklodge: 8:41am On Jun 14, 2019
If Na me, I swear all of them is going down without a shred of evidence


I swear

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Unrated900(m): 8:41am On Jun 14, 2019
peacefulhome:
No body should be trusted . I know of someone who got dump by relative. If relative could be this wicked , who then shall we trust?


Buhari
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Nobody: 8:41am On Jun 14, 2019
Mcslize:


That's the problem. Family will cheat you, even if you decide to give it to reputable contractors, how reputable will they be? They will still siphon and cheat you once they here you are based abroad. Buying will be too cost to building from scratch. The beauty of building from scratch is that, you can build it to your taste.

Sending money to family to build for you can be dangerous cuz everyone eyes dey shook for money in this Nigeria o. Nothing like this is my brother he can't do such to me. They will flex the money or use it to buy lands for themselves and nothing you will do as a person.

This has been my major concern. How do we go about building our own house here in Nigeria when living abroad?

Should it be that one should use his annual leave period of 4 weeks to rush down to Nigeria and start his project himself and the contractor continue from there while updating him with video and picture of the progress of the project?

Some people do that in the property section though. But I know the contractor will cheat them on a huge rate.
Perhaps you entrust it to parent. I don't think one's parent would do such

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by blowjohn(m): 8:41am On Jun 14, 2019
sharpwriter:


What is odionwere?

One man like that they say settles land disputes in edo

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by olumalcolm(m): 8:42am On Jun 14, 2019
My family members no go even try am wit me, dem knw say me ef no well. angry

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by cybriz82(m): 8:43am On Jun 14, 2019
Mek d dude no calm down for them until they produce wetin them use d money dude..then he shud seize everything
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Akaujaa(m): 8:44am On Jun 14, 2019
Compare the comments on Instagram and Nairaland, you'll see the difference between a child and an aldult.

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Nobody: 8:45am On Jun 14, 2019
Na Buhari economy, not so? You can imagine what these ones will do to an employer that is not s blood relative if they get the chance

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Lovelyn451(f): 8:48am On Jun 14, 2019
in every family theres this sibling that things goes down very well between you two more than any other person, if you have none then look out for friends, some friends are better than family, u don't just send money to any body in the name of family member...mine is my bro, he'll ask for commission sha, but he'll do exactly what I ask

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by samsard(m): 8:50am On Jun 14, 2019
Nbote:
He's not serious himself... If he flies back home for even a couple of days na crime?
Shey you think flight cost is beans even for abroad people??

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by ezenwajosh(m): 8:50am On Jun 14, 2019
Imagine this post said to happen in ANAMBRA what the comments would be
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by DelilahMakinde(f): 8:53am On Jun 14, 2019
Uyi168:
..
U think it's easy to be flying up and down abii

The bros didn't have papers in the first place smiley

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by neonly: 8:54am On Jun 14, 2019
My own opinion just get a caterpillar and do d needful to his own house
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Mcslize: 8:54am On Jun 14, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Perhaps you entrust it to parent. I don't think one's parent would do such

That's my thought too.
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Dagger111(m): 8:57am On Jun 14, 2019
Nbote:
He's not serious himself... If he flies back home for even a couple of days na crime?

Don't say that pls, even the money to travel home to and fro is always alove to push the project forward. You would preferred to send the money home instead of coming down.
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by babyfaceafrica: 8:57am On Jun 14, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Perhaps you entrust it to parent. I don't think one's parent would do such
lolz..you have not met some parents

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by valentineuwakwe(m): 8:58am On Jun 14, 2019
abeg its painful sha....if na me...hmmmm
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Bluffly: 8:59am On Jun 14, 2019
Kaynee:
'Blood is thicker than water', 'Family is everything' na him cause this wahala o. Instead of him to employ the services of a professional to handle the job or kukuma liase with a Real Estate firm, he decided to do brother brother....Family is indeed everything. 'My brother can never hurt me'
Who told you that a real estate firm or a professional can not defraud

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Dagger111(m): 8:59am On Jun 14, 2019
Akaujaa:
Compare the comments on Instagram and Nairaland, you'll see the difference between a child and an aldult.

I swear, i still prefer nairalander's comments, its beyond one's expectation. grin grin
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by Aldebaran(m): 9:00am On Jun 14, 2019
Wickedness sad
Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by gypsey(m): 9:00am On Jun 14, 2019
Nothing new, my step brother did the same to me.
we are still battling it in court, eventually he will pay me My 40 mili naira back, or.... angry

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Re: Edo Man Finds Out His Family Didn’t Build Any House After 13 Years In Europe by babyfaceafrica: 9:00am On Jun 14, 2019
Lovelyn451:
in every family theres this sibling that things goes down very well between you two more than any other person, if you have none then look out for friends, some friends are better than family, u don't just send money to any body in the name of family member...mine is my bro, he'll ask for commission sha, but he'll do exactly what I ask
that is better.. commission na small thing ,as long as they do well with the money, as least for his time and stress..... even banks collect commision

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